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i really feel like fat people shouldn’t have to constantly argue that we’re healthy therefore we’re deserving of being treated as human. we should be treated as human even if we are unhealthy. it shouldn’t be about health. someone shouldn’t have to be healthy to be lovable!!!!!

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If you’re using Skype you should dump it and get Discord instead!

Pros:

Cleaner, easier to navigate interface

Free servers for more permanent group chat things (way easier to hop in and out of chats)

You can actually have different nicknames on each server if you want

Is actually well built and doesn’t make your computer yearn for death

Stuff coming down the pipeline soon according to devs:

Video chat

Linux client

Cons:

All your friends aren’t on it

But you can change that

Download it. It’s great and it’s only getting better. It’s aimed at gamers but it has nearly all the functionality of Skype and then some.

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The thing about Martha Jones is that, like, people talk about how unfair her treatment is — on both Watsonian and Doylist levels.

And yeah, a lot of that is definitely true.

And at the same time: out of all Ten’s companions, Martha is arguably the one who most gets to establish her identity as herself, as more than a companion/an extension to the Doctor.

Donna is only able to “move on” from her time in the TARDIS because the Doctor and everything associated with him is literally excised from her memory against her will.

Rose? She gets stranded forever (“forever”) in an alternate universe and still can’t just grieve, move on, and build her own life; everything is thrown into figuring out how to somehow get back to the Doctor.

But Martha… oh, Martha. She goes on the adventures, has the best and worst of times (mostly the worst), saves the world on her own two feet. And then she says, No. I love the Doctor, but I deserve better than this. And I am my own person. I’m going to be my own person. I was going to be a doctor before ever I met the Doctor, and I’m going to get that license. I’m going to get a job. I’m going to get married. I’m going to be my own person, with a life of my own.

And she goes off and does exactly that, and she does it amazingly, and I love her for that and for everything else and tbh I would watch a whole series of The Adventures of Martha Jones pretty please.

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so. kpop demon hunters huh.

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the frustrating thing about discussions of kink for me is that it’s like the gom jabbar test for pulling reactionary sex politics out of people. you’ll see people bringing up (real and worth discussing!) issues of abusive people using the cover of being a dom or liking servant/master dynamics and then they’ll conclude this is why we have to treat kink like nuclear waste, rather than pointing to other issues of consent, power imbalances, lack of communication, respect, or negotiation. (not to mention how the existence of predatory/abusive subs is basically handwaved away because it’s inconvenient to their narrative..) like the problem of shitty guys pushing 50 shades wannabe stuff on their girlfriends lies with their misogyny and lack of respect for their partners wants, not with an idea of them being ontologically evil for enjoying sadism. further stigmatization and demonization just make discussing safe practices and safe communities for informed and healthy kink harder

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so. kpop demon hunters huh.

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Bug it's you!!!!!!

shhhhh bug is undercover. we are only frank time.

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bug... Is this you...

-🌺 Anon

don't worry frank is being sacrificed at the end of the day. all will be set right.

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please god stop talking about diets and weight loss in front of kids. especially if those kids are girls. and especially if you’re someone those kids look up to. but really just stop talking about about diets and weight loss when children are in earshot at all. I promise you you’re doing far more harm than good.

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who had SPC foundation became a real cognitohazard for tech bros due to some LLMS picking up on how SPC entries are written and sending a big money investor in tech and AI into a possible psychosis/psychotic break/mental health crisis on their bingo card

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women.

clap for women

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MEAT‼️

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Meat 2