#Get Fucked Terfs

[trixxedheart]

It is amazing how the "people that love and uplift transwomen" website will instantly fucking maul a transwoman if she even remotely insinuate that using radfem rhetoric harms trans people

[sparkel-dog]

i get really fucking sick of the notion that “if youre against egg jokes or if you claim that egg jokes are harmful, youre repeating the same propaganda that evil trannies just want to convert cis people >:( “

kindly shut the fuck up 🔥🔥 I am trans🔥🔥 i know other trans people who are uncomfortable with egg jokes 🔥🔥 of course we are not trying to perpetuate a harmful stereotype, i am still allowed to criticize yalls behavior!

Egg jokes are fine if youre referring to yourself or other people who you have their permission to joke that way! like if you and your trans friend group are cool with it, then by all means go ahead! but i get so sick of seeing egg jokes about gender non conforming cis people. i hate the stereotype that “if you like nail polish or dresses or something you must be a girl” or shit like that. stop acting like a fucking cishet person who wants to enforce gender roles and shove people into boxes!

let people come to their own journey of self discovery. i see so many people say “uhh but egg jokes can help you realize you’re trans” okay but 90% of the jokes that i see are just teasing people and assuming their gender 0-0 there is a difference between actually offering someone advice (“hey if youre having those feelings, it might mean this or that about your gender identity”) and just being unhelpful and annoying or outright rude.

not to mention the biggest thing: egg jokes can just further confuse people or make them feel uncomfortable. it can pressure trans people to come out when theyre not ready or make them feel like a stranger is trying to decide their gender for them. Before i realized i was trans, sometimes people would joke about me being trans (wow youre the only cis one in a friend group of trans people? lol not for long) and it just confused me more because my identity is Not simple! It’s not just “trans guy” or “nonbinary guy” even it was more complicated than that, hard to put labels on, and having people joke about that shit just made me more reluctant to explore that part of myself. i have seen other trans people feel the same way.

If you truly think someone is an egg, you shouldnt try to crack it open before its ready to hatch!

also i have seen people be like “booo why are you centering cis people’s feelings above your own :/ who cares if cis people get offended over trans people joking they might be trans” just. yall sound immature and RUDE. EVERYONE’S identity should be respected: cis people, trans people, whatever. if a cis person was making jokes about a trans person like that (like “oh haha youre a trans guy but youre wearing a dress? are you really trans at all? :)” ) yall would go FUCKING BANANAS over how insanely rude and transphobic that behavior is. so why is it okay the other way around.

grrrr just makes me mad. “its just s joke we’re not trying to force people to change their genders” words have meanings and impact and you should think about how harmful “jokes” can be. its not a hard concept to grasp when conservative comedians are making bigoted jokes that its still shitty even if “its just s joke”. jokes can enforce certain ways of thinking and can be hurtful.

just get consent before joking that someone is an egg 😭 like i know cis allies who are completely fine being called eggs 😭 and there are trans people who love joking about their own egg moments, thats perfectly fine! just stop assuming you know a stranger better than they know themselves by making those jokes about people you barely know

[imitor]

im trying to formulate what i want to say and radical queerness is different to radical feminisim but do you see what im putting down. do you see that people weaponise parts of their queerness to target others in the community based on misogyny ?? like are we blind ??