#I apologized if this post annoyed you

[bixels]

tarpit site.

[radioactive-yuri]

genuinely why are you not allowed to decline someone's affection. why do you have to trap yourself in situations and relationships you don't enjoy in order to protect someone else's feelings. it's not really fun to be 'friends' or 'partners' with someone out of moral obligation. it's not fun for anyone involved. but you have to stay, because they mentioned they have abandonment issues once and now you feel like cutting ties would be the most evil fucked up thing you could ever do. it's not my fault if i don't like someone. it's not. but it feels like it is.

[burningcheese-merchant]

Hey Merchant, I hope you're doing okay after that! Just remember we're all human, don't beat yourself up for it! It's amazing that you actually clicked and had the time to apologize and write a whole paragraph about it, tho tbh to me specifically I didn't think you need to do it? But reading it made me click too!

Hope ur doing well now, here have an old BurningCheese doodle of them bickering hehe

Aww it's fine. Don't worry about me. I just woke up today suddenly feeling different about things and I felt like I had to say something about it. I've been quite rude in a couple of posts and replies the past couple of days and that was wrong of me. I owe everyone an apology for that, that's all there is to it. I appreciate your concern though, that means a lot to me

And thank you for the doodle ❤️ it's so Them, I love it. Tell him what's what, queen!!! Y'all will start making out soon anyway lolololololol

Your art style is really adorable and charming ❤️ idk how often you post your art but if it isn't common, then I encourage you to reconsider! And thank you again for reaching out, I'm touched you took the time to do so. Especially right now, because I don't really feel like I deserve it haha

[wackywatchdotcom]

knowing pomnis favorite color is red makes me emotional and also slightly more in love with her, for some reason

[tigerbears]

Homestuck Spoilers Out of Context.

[summer-oil]

anon my love i will not answer your ask out of caution LMAO but: no, i don’t agree with that post, and i don’t think op’s arguments actually hold up (though i obviously respect their ’base’ opinion). to me it very much reads as a forced justification that ultimately falls flat because of lack of understanding both in regards to stsg and to suguru. (<- which is a trend i have noticed when it comes to satoru stans who don’t ship stsg tbh.) i also think their wording is odd in certain places but i won’t get into that lmao— ultimately i think the idea that stsg is in any way supposed to be ”healthy” is just plain wrong and if you approach their dynamic with that mindset you’re doing them a disservice. the basis of stsg is not ”they’re perfect for each other,” it’s ”no matter what they do or where they go they end up in the same spot.” which is true both literally and figuratively. that’s why they’re referred to as soulmates, even excluding the very real possibility that suguru’s birth/ct was facilitated by satoru’s birth (ie; they were literally made for each other. in a twisted sense.) their love is not supposed to be pure; whether you view them as platonic or romantic is irrelevant…

… anyway at the end of the day i respect their opinion but the justification beyond just ”it’s not compelling to me” falls flat from a canon standpoint. stsg is not for everyone, same as any ship. and that’s fine 🙂‍↕️

[welcometogrouchland]

Noticing that TV and film will often have a character either have had an abortion in the past that isn't showcased on screen (and just used as part of the character's ~fucked up and twisted backstory~) OR contemplate getting an abortion in the present day but not to through with it. Just once I want to see someone delete that fetus within the events of the plot and not be like. Extremely majorly punished for it and/or be in the wrong

[blubbed]

i dont mind people not reading my writing but when a friend (not any of you here dw) is like constantly begging me texting me "friendly reminder"ing me to read their stupid yaoi i DO feel fiery rage burning inside me. you have never ONCE picked up my vampire lesbians. and yet you have the audacity to beg for kudos. blocked

[3584-tropical-fish]

I’ve finished rereading (?? I don’t remember the last two books At All so maybe this was a first reading) the inkheart trilogy and I have many gripes (Ms. Funke you can’t call out Fenoglio’s misogyny and not address the fact that all your women characters are barely given any important roles or. You know. Characterization. I fear that’s just your misogyny can we do some introspection) but it’s Just Good Enough for me to feel mildly insane because what do you mean the Adderhead spent Inkdeath with his flesh rotting off his bones what do you mean his daughter wants more than anything to kill her father (despite the fact that her role in his death was usurped by HER OWN SON because this story cannot allow women to do That much) mirroring the dysfunctional nature of every other father and daughter relationship in this series. In a way I think this trilogy is about your children destroying you through their very existence as in a way Inkheart (the in-story novel) is Fenolgio’s child that destroys him, and Violante destroys her father and Jacopo takes on his mothers role in the Inkdeath finale and it is because of Farid that Dustfinger dies (but not for long because death is a joke in this book) and Meggie is better at reading things aloud and into existence than her father but she is constantly used in ploys to tear Mo apart (because by Inkdeath she’s barely a major character and exists to be used as a threat against Mo. I thought she was the main character chat)

Anyways everyone and their mother is posting about Mo/Dustfinger and personally I don’t give a fuck about whatever is up with them at this point (though it was undeniably gay) can we talk instead about the insane amount of yearning every time Brianna and Violante were in a scene together. I need them both to stop pining about Cosimo or Mo or whoever and consider loving women (who are closer in age to each other than Either of these men as far as I can tell)

[enbysiriusblack]

got kicked out the house so my brother said to come to his rehearsal with him. i may have been a theatre kid but not the kind that ever performed or hung out with other theatre kids. this is hell.

[dasanye-wet]

conquest

[fancifulplaguerat]

Probably deleted the prior post of mine I wanted to reblog....once more considering whether I should private my fics because I just do not know if the intense anxiety and stress dreams I get over having my work online is worth it

[qiu-yan]

pet peeve: "jiang cheng killed wei wuxian"

look. this is not a morality problem. this is not even a "what does the text of the novel actually say" problem. this is a powerscaling problem and nothing more.

do you really think jiang cheng would have a snowball's chance in hell against the yiling fucking patriarch?

mr. jiang "always second place" cheng? mr. jiang "could never beat wei wuxian even before wei wuxian's demonic cultivation megabuff" cheng? mr. jiang "couldn't even shake off a single wen patrol in an area he grew up in" cheng???

lmao.

the yiling patriarch is a once-in-a-generation genius who invented an entirely new branch of cultivation. his inventions continue to revolutionize the field of cultivation over a decade after his death. at the height of his power, his presence alone was enough to turn the tide of entire battles, and he is credited with singlehandedly killing over 3000 enemies at once.

jiang cheng is literally just some guy.

as if jiang cheng could kill the yiling patriarch even if he tried. sandu shengshou who. yiling laozu eats 100 sandu shengshou for breakfast and still has room for brunch.

lol. lmao, even.

[spacedlexi]

i actually love thinking about preS4 vinerva and how their relationship deteriorates throughout the season and how it relates to the clemvi romance and just violets character in general but unfortunately some people cant be normal about them so instead i just gotta keep it to myself

[chocolate-cringymuffin]

Hello, I am alive haha.

[godblooded]

i can’t believe i have to discuss communication for the thousandth time but i have to discuss communication for the thousandth time. if a person im’s you continuously when you write together, it’s them being engaged in your dynamic. which isn’t actually a sin, it’s pretty normal if you’re a neurodivergent individual who just has hobbies and enjoyments. taking every message you get insanely personally is… ridiculous. the amount of non communication that goes on around here, and i don’t mean when a genuine issue is in question, i mean shit like taking someone’s message and applying your own feelings to it. it’s perfectly cool to ignore someone’s message, but if you never respond to them, the person often thinks you don’t want to talk to them. i’m not saying it’s true of everyone — from my own personal experience, whether a person intends it or not, i automatically feel like someone doesn’t want to engage. am I wrong? absolutely. that’s my brain being my brain in its most dysfunctional way. but it’s an innate response — if you don’t engage, the other person will inevitably assume you’re either uninterested or being irritating, and this mentality spreads outward toxically to everyone else. it’s very, very easy to make a person feel like you don’t want to talk to them at all and mixed signals are just shitty to do to a person.

being overly sensitive is a bitch. source: i’m an overly sensitive human being, but some people forget the extent of what tumblr/chat is to some of us just isn’t that serious. some people don’t agonize over the reason somebody said something, or what their content is for saying it. some people are more likely to be talkative than others, which isn’t a bad thing and should stop being treated like it. everyone comes here to rp for different reasons, whether they be involved or loose. some people privatize their space and curate it accordingly, and others are very open and public and more than willing to associate with the community at large. the issue is that it’s become more or less popular to excessively privatize one’s own space, and it means if you happen to be a very social person you’re just ‘annoying’.

is this a me thing? absolutely. i cannot pretend it’s not a very personal pet peeve of mine when enthusiasm is mistaken for being ‘pushy’. engagement and interest isn’t ‘pushy’, even if there are degrees to which it can be (a person spamming you over and over within the same hour, a person actually lovebombing you and not the internet definition where someone’s just really nice to you and you don’t Like It). can neurodivergent people get a little over the top with their interests? yeah. it’s the nature of being nd. but it’s also the reason why i see so many apologies on ooc posts ‘talking about things that don’t have to do with their blog’. there’s no social mores to which you must adhere, this is the fucking internet. it’s genuinely awful to spam and bother someone for a reply or even for attention no matter the situation, but the definition of ‘spam’ has become pretty subjective in the community. don’t harass someone over and over, but there’s a difference between genuinely harassing a human being and just showing interest.

just be clear about communication and try to be open-minded about the way you’re approached. and for the love of god, stop projecting your own thoughts and feelings onto the people you interact with. or, to be more specific, don’t. no one can read your thoughts and you can’t read anyone else’s. it’s a perpetual cycle of making a lot of something out of a whole lot of nothing.