#SELFSHIPPING

[vergils-beloved]

inspired by someone saying selfshipping is unethical

[jouhys]

thing is self shipping is inherently self serving and if youre not doing everything in this for yourself and your happiness then it Will start to bother you. you cant do any of it for the approval of others

[100shark]

When mutuals post about their selfships

[deathdetermineslife]

shout-out to selfshippers who hate their f/os source / creator . we're gods strongest soldiers for real

[captainpricespuppyhusband]

Me when a stranger on the internet says my selfship is canon to them

Pro.shippers/com.shippers DNI please

[cervinae-canine]

having a crush on a character that sucks ass:

[kruxband]

selfshippers of color, please never be afraid of depicting your F/Os being immersed in your culture!!!!

draw them wearing traditional clothing with you, write about them trying out your favorite cultural foods, imagine them adopting certain subtle behaviors and traits that you have, etc etc!!!!

be as "self-indulgent" and "out of character" as you want because what matters most is the love you & your f/o have for each other <3

[pro/c.omship DNI]

[freddyyeti]

I love you mentally ill selfshippers

I love you self diagnosed mentally ill selfshippers

I love you mentally ill selfshippers who can’t get help due to their personal circumstances

I love you mentally ill selfshippers of minority statuses who can’t get help due to the racism/misogyny/ableism/other forms of bigotry in the medical system

I love you mentally ill selfshippers with stigmatized mental illnesses (i.e: psychotic disorders, cluster B personality disorders like narcissistic personality disorder, schizophrenia)

I love you mentally ill selfshippers who often feel like dangers to themselves and others

I love you mentally ill selfshippers who struggle making and keeping friends in the community due to their mental illnesses

I love you mentally ill selfshippers who have a hard time relating to a lot of popular posts about mental health positivity because their symptoms are much more severe than the ones they typically go over

I love you mentally ill selfshippers who treat their relationships with their F/Os “more seriously” than most people would

I love you mentally ill selfshippers who project their mental illnesses onto their F/Os

I love you mentally ill selfshippers whose F/Os are the only reason they’re alive

I know it’s hard not to feel like an outsider in the community sometimes, but if you need confirmation at least someone out there is thinking of you and loves you, this is it. Your F/Os love you just as much, if not, even more.

Pr•ship/similar please do not interact

[outdatedcakes]

[vergils-beloved]

when i post cute pics of my f/o please know that in my mind i'm showing my beloved to you like this

[daily-selfship-questions]

Is your F/O(s) the type to take naps when they are tired? Do you have to coax them into naps or taking it easy when they are exhausted? Or perhaps they're napping all the time, eager to catch a break when they can?

[ryez-loveyz]

i think the most interesting kinds of selfships are the complicated ones. shoutout to selfshippers going through court proceedings for a divorce with an ex-f/o. shout out to selfshippers who have a weird love-hate relationship with their f/o. any of it. shoutout to you!!!!!

proshippers dni this post will never be for you

[ectoplasmer]

not usually physically affectionate f/os offering to let you rest your head in their lap when they see you having a hard day. f/os who might tense a little when you first settle down, not completely sure of what to do next, only to tentatively pet your head or thread their fingers through your hair after a moment. maybe they blush a bit to themself, let their gaze flick down to you before pretending to look elsewhere time and time again, or maybe they just smile a bit to themself, pleasantly surprised at how much they actually enjoy this, letting their touch linger and drag. just f/os helping to comfort and relax you in whatever way they can <3

[cervinae-canine]

this is how my fictional crushes start and end

[naetheartisticbutterfly]

I did one :) (thank you for the art inspo)

draw you and your f/o like this, it's the easiest thing ever and gives you so much happiness it could blow up a SUN