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Daenerys and Queenship In ASOIAF

The world of ASOIAF explores the subject of leadership in a wide range of official and unofficial capacities. Daenerys Targaryen specifically is a character used to explore the unique types of queenship, alongside her narrative foil Cersei Lannister. Dany fits the role of multiple kinds of queens. The roles of these different types of queens are so different that they really shouldn’t have the same word describing them. As such, they impact Dany in very different ways.

Queen Consort

The first type of queen Daenerys becomes is a queen consort or khaleesi as Khal Drogo’s wife. The consort doesn’t wield power in their own right. What influence they have is completely dependent on their spouse.

Dany has even less power in her situation since most consorts come from a powerful, ruling family, while the power of her family died before she was born. For instance, consorts like Cersei Lannister, Margaery Tyrell, and Alicent Hightower bring with them the power of their families. That’s the benefit the monarchs had in marrying them to begin with, but that power also gives them a level of protection and influence beyond their husbands. We see Cersei wield that influence with her own guard in King’s Landing and she’s able to protect the reigns of her children through father’s armies. On the other side of that, the wealth, manpower, and resources of Margaery’s family makes her a desirable match for multiple kings while making it difficult for Cersei to remove her directly when she becomes threatened by her. This is a power Daenerys cannot wield since most of her family is dead and they have no land, wealth, manpower, or vassals to support her. She has one knight she thinks she can rely on (who is spying on her) and the guards provided by her husband. She is also younger than most queen consorts as she is sold at 13-years-old as a child bride with no family and political support. In that way she is set apart as a less powerful queen consort than the typical ones seen in the series.

The primary role of any consort is to give the monarch children. They are expected to give them an heir, a spare heir or two, and daughters who might be married to form alliances. Though that last duty isn’t addressed within the Dothraki culture and may not be a priority for them. An additional role for the consort includes appearing at royal events like feasts, ceremonies, and royal progresses as visual support for the monarch or even in the monarch’s place at times. Among female consorts, she would run a separate household from her husband (we see a simplified version of this with Dany’s handmaidens and khas) and could arrange marriages for the women in her household.

Depending on their relationship with the monarch, the consort might act as an unofficial advisor for their spouse and influence their policy. We see Dany doing this or trying to do this with Drogo. For instance, though it was through her decree that her brother (who might be considered part of her household since he has nothing of his own) not be allowed to ride, she has to convince her husband to re-establish Viserys’ status as a rider. Later, after her brother dies, she attempts to convince Drogo to invade Westeros to claim the Iron Throne for Rhaego. This initially fails and is only successful after a thwarted assassination attempt is made on Dany and the baby. Only then is Drogo willing to go to war against the people who tried to kill his son and wife and to make Rhaego king. After a battle against the Lhazareen, Dany uses her guards and her status as Drogo’s wife to stop the rapes that happen in the aftermath. She takes them under her protection and attempts to place them in the best positions she can within the confines of Dothraki culture. Though even this act is only possible with the agreement of her husband.

Other than producing an heir and passively influencing policy, the most impactful role a consort might have would be with charity. They were expected to give money to and organize charitable works. They might even make clothes for the poor and personally hand out alms.

The other queen consorts in the main series include Cersei Lannister, Selyse Florent, Alannys Harlaw, Margaery Tyrell, Dalla, and Jeyne Westerling.

Queen Regnant

The queen regnant is a queen who rules in her own right. She is not just the wife of the monarch or the mother of the monarch. She is the monarch.

The difference between this type of queen and the others needs to be emphasized because all the types of queens are often grouped together as though they were the same. But a queen regnant is far different from the others because her power is rooted in herself, not in a husband or child.

Like ruling kings, a queen regnant would hold court, listen to petitions, create policy, grant governmental appointments, diplomacy between both subjects and foreign leadership, trade disputes, land disputes, taxes, dealing with or assigning someone else to deal with maintaining food, clothing, craft, and weapon supplies, etc. It really goes on and on. It’s not just sitting on a throne and going to balls. Though that is part of it as well to maintain the visual image of power and wealth.

Daenerys spends most of the novels as a monarch. From the time Drogo dies all the way through A Dance With Dragons. We see her give those who remain of her husband’s khalasar the choice on whether to follow her or not to follow her. Those who chose to remain with her became her subjects. From then on, her choices became those of any good monarch: how to best serve her people. As she leads them, we see her making all kinds of administrative decisions to benefit her people. When they arrive in Vaes Tolorro, she immediately starts making the city habitable, secure and productive. While making military decisions, she takes the effects her choices will have on her people into account (a significant reason she took Meereen was because her people would have starved on the march without the resources inside the city). Once Dany becomes the Queen of Meereen, she regularly holds court to hear the issues of the people, she addresses food shortages, attempts to make allies, engages with ambassadors, arranges for medical aid, strategizes for war, negotiates for peace, etc. Daenerys is a queen regnant who actively fills her role.

The other queen regnants are potential ones Asha Greyjoy, who campaigned to claim her father’s throne, and Myrcella Baratheon, was the center of a plot to name her queen over Tommen and who will be queen after he dies.

Queen Regent

This is a type of queen Daenerys never is. A regent is a person chosen to rule for a monarch who is too young, is absent, or incapacitated. A queen who is a regent is either a queen consort given the regency by her husband who will be out of the country, a consort whose husband is too sick to rule, or a dowager queen whose underage child is now the monarch and she managed to secure the regency.

The queen regent of the series is Cersei Lannister, the queen Martin wrote as an intentional narrative foil for Daenerys. She encounters many of the same issues as Dany, both being women in administrative roles who endured exploitation from their family members and abuse from their husbands. Through their choices, we see how different they are despite their similar situations. They’re clearly set up as foils not only to explore different types of women in leadership positions but to also build up to their confrontation later in the series when Dany is revealed to be the younger, more beautiful queen Cersei has been prophesied to fear.

Queen Dowager

The queen dowager is the widow of a king. Along with being queen regnant in her own right, Daenerys is also a dowager queen as Khal Drogo’s widow. This kind of queen can maintain a position of influence if she’s the mother of the next monarch (see: queen regent) or they might be put into retirement, with a high ranking title and possibly an allowance (see: Alicent Hightower after the Dance of the Dragons in Fire and Blood). A title that may come alongside the queen dowager is that of queen mother. This title is exactly what it sounds like: a woman who held the title of queen and is now the mother of the monarch. If the mother of the monarch never held the title of queen, she would not be referred to by this title.

The position the Dothraki culture has for widowed khaleesi is with the dosh khaleen in Vaes Dothrak. The women in that group are forced to stay in the sacred city and are taken care of by slaves. They also maintain a high status and have the gift of prophecy. Despite being a widowed khaleesi, Daenerys refuses the position expected for her and becomes a ruling khaleesi or queen regnant instead. But a vision she saw in the House of the Undying suggests that she will go to the dosh khaleen as part of uniting the Dothraki.

The other queen dowagers of the series include Cersei, Margaery, Alannys, and Jeyne.

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Operators

(Just like my other posts, the info below are my headcanons! These headcanons are inspired by Slenderman’s original and contemporary Mythos, Slenderverse, The Necromancer from the “Creepy Frozen Pasta” comic by LostWight, the Slenderman in “The Seer” comic by Madame Macabre, @the-catcake’s character Red Spider and Slender Doll Ally by @the-slender-doll! I am very open to questions about this species, I am sorry if some of the info below is worded weirdly or I’ve missed a typo. This post does not indicate the final product of the species as it’s still in long development. This serves as a semi-detailed overview and introduction to the Operators.)

(Anyone can use this whole species for their AU as long as credit is given to me. Credit should not be given to me if it is something I based it off of such as the hybrid aging, the Influence, the name “Operator” and the Slender and Necromancer Class. Keep in mind that this info is subject to change as it has changed a lot over the course of the years I’ve worked on this.)

(Side Notes: The Classes, Influenced and hybrids will, hopefully, get their own dedicated posts in the future. Most of the info here is simplified for the post.)

“An Operator’s thirst is never fully satisfied. Even the ones who wish to live in peace with their Influenced are not satisfied but they do not notice due to their ignorance. Our kind is not from this world but we don’t know our true home, perhaps we don’t have one and we keep looking for it.”

- Lord Luxult, a Shifter Operator

In the presence of every Operator lives an uncanny amount of mystique and an other-worldly aura. They are often seen as symbols of power, dominion and control.

Operators are a species that are most known by their psychic capabilities to control other beings via their minds. They generate their own force, known as the Influence, that is regarded as their most defining trait.

Through their iron will and their Influence they conquer their way through the Realms and fight against other Operators for territory, servants and vanity. When an Operator is at the center of operations, others become wary as they have been given a sense of the possible scale of the operation when an Operator is in charge.

Operators come in different types, or Classes, requiring Influenced to fulfill certain specialized roles. Because of this, certain Classes of Operator require their Influenced to be specific species. These species are called Influenced Species, which are tailor made for Operators to use.

Classes

Classes are the way Operators are identified and categorized. There is no “original class” or “main class.” Subclasses exist whenever genetic mutations happen within a Class to the point where they can split off. Subclasses of Subclasses can also exist.

Hundreds of Classes exist and have various differences such as: appearance, birth procedures, behavior, abilities, symbiotic relationships, complexity and Influence control. Each Class has a Base Bloodline that originates from the first ever born Operator of the Class, beings that converted to Operatorism may start their own bloodlines within the Class they got converted into.

Attributes

Operators tend to share common characteristics, mind control being the most prominent. Mutations in the gene pool are also common amongst the species, this leads to variations in a species that asexually reproduces a lot and leads to powers that are unique to an individual. Specialized sicknesses are also common amongst Operators, specifically the parasitic Classes. All full-blooded Operators cannot talk in Human Realm and instead use their Influenced to talk for them or use telepathy.

They are immune to most stimuli but every Class/Subclass have their own weaknesses. Every Class has their own type of “6th sense” that allows them to be psychically in-tune with their surroundings. All Class Senses can detect any physical beings or objects around them.

Every Operator has a drive to control and feed. This drive is simply named as the “Operator Hunger” and it is practically impossible to fight back against. The Operator Hunger is like an urge or an itch that they have to satisfy. If not, it becomes barely livable to linger with. The only way to satisfy it is to control over beings and to continue to feed and hunt. This solution is only temporary as an Operator needs to indulge more and more. The more they give into the Operator Hunger, the more likely an Operator will lose themselves in it. It’s a vicious cycle that sees no end.

Shifters & Slenders

Slender is a Class of Operator that are most known for their extreme parasitic nature towards their Influenced. Slenders used to be known as Shifter Operators (short for Shapeshifter) until roughly about a thousand years ago when the then new generation became stuck in a slender humanoid form. Slenders should technically be considered a Subclass but the fact that they have fully replaced the Shifters has led to the entire Class being renamed. Their past Shifter bloodline still spiritually lives on in more ways than one.

Slenders are the most versatile and adaptable of all the Classes, making them particularly dangerous. Traditional Slenders usually lead lavish lifestyles often expressed through their attires and their residences.

Necromancers

Necromancer is a Class of Operator that are most known for raising undead corpses to be their Influenced. They are Parasitic Operators. Necromancers are also very sensitive to temperatures due to being made of “organic ice” that is essentially their skin.

Necromancers have to live in extremely cold temperatures which is why they are usually found on snowy mountains, giant ice caverns and frozen valleys.

Recluses

Recluse is a Class of Operator that is most known for being the most reclusive Class of Operator. Recluses become blind once they reach the age of twelve. Most, if not all, Recluses are unaware of the world they live in, much less their own bloodline. These Operators are also known for their camouflage since they coated in plants and flowers that belong to their respective habitat. Recluses are sensitive to extreme weather and climate changes due to them having actual plants on them that become a part of their skin. They are Mutualistic Operators.

Sirens

Siren is a Class of Operator that is most known for having a lot of Siren-like qualities from mythology. Siren Operators are beings that live in the saltwater oceans. These Operators don’t usually claim any territory as they keep searching for prey just above the surface.

Similarly to Sirens in mythology, Siren Operators spread their Influence by using their alluring voice to lure in prey with hypnosis to attack and to feed off of. They are Parasitic Operators.

Elves

Elf is a Class of Operator that is most known for having a lot of Elf-like qualities from mythology. They are also known for being the Class that is the most friendly with their Influenced. Unlike most Operators, Elves gather together in a group and build their own small neighborhoods known as a “community.” They are Mutualistic Operators that spread their Influence by recruiting humans to their community.

Influence

The Influence is an invisible force that is only generated and manipulated by Operators. Its main purpose is to mind control other beings to benefit an Operator. However, the Influence is quite versatile and has since been applied in other ways for different situations. The Influence can also act as an “applier” or “relay” for Operators to use their abilities whenever, wherever and on whatever is needed. Another common usage for the Influence is more marking permanent territory, both for keeping out trespassers and luring in prey.

Influence generating occurs whenever an Operator comes of age, some Classes can’t generate their Influence until later on in their development. Their Influence grows stronger the more they grow and the more they utilize it.

Influenced

Influenced are the beings that are mind controlled and/or connected to an Operator. Depending on the Class of Operator, an Influenced may experience certain side effects. Influenced of Parasitic Operators face erratic symptoms such as migraines, insomnia, dissociation, and feral outbursts. Influenced of Mutualistic Operators may experience similar symptoms but at a much milder rate. An Operator can sense where their Influenced are, what is their mental state, what caused that mental state, and (in the case of a foreign Influenced) detect what Operator is influencing them.

There are certain conditions that stops an Operator from sensing their Influenced. These conditions include: being too far away, resisting their Operator’s mental will, or a change in brain chemistry. The change in brain chemistry is usually caused by certain types of medication and drugs that can affect the brain.

Two Operators, or more, can fight for control over an Influenced in the Influenced’s mind however this will cause extreme discomfort which would result in painful migraines depending on how many Operators are fighting for control and how strongly.

As a side effect, an Influenced may start gaining some of their Operator’s abilities overtime if they aren’t an Influenced Species already.

Aging

Operators are biologically immortal, meaning that they can’t die from old age but by being killed. The more they grow up, the slower they age. Operators as old as 12 are considered children and Operators in their 90s are considered to be in the last years of their adolescence. Through their years of adulthood, they age even slower when they reach 500 years of age.

Operators are considered full-grown adults at the age of 100. This is the age when Operators are able to reproduce. Most Classes can generate their Influence earlier in life however Slenders can only generate theirs at this age.

Only full-blooded Operators from birth properly age like this.

Operatorism

Operatorism is the phenomenon of a being stepping into Operatorhood as a different species. Only full-blooded Operators can turn others into Operators. How the conversion works and how it happens is shrouded in mystery.

The current age of the being that’s being converted dictates how many years they skipped and have to catch up on when they convert. A 20 year old human that has been turned into a Slender Operator will look like a 100 year old Slender since that is the age equivalent. In this example, the former human will have to wait 100 years in order for their body to continue aging. They would also have to wait those 100 years to be able to reproduce.

Operatorism only applies to beings that turn into full-blooded Operators.

Hybrids

Operator hybrids can be a complicated situation. Considering the complicated nature of Operator genes, their hybrids can get very unstable. The only types of Operator hybrids that aren’t unstable are the Operators that are hybrids of other Classes or Subclasses of Operator since it is of the same species. They also have all of the abilities from each Class/Subclass they are, they don’t experience near any negative side effects. They exhibit all the usual Operator attributes.

Operator hybrids are at times difficult to predict when it’s a hybrid with a different species. Human/Operator hybrids are amongst the most hard to predict as well as the most unstable usually. Operator abilities are usually too much for the human soul and will cause the soul to split and develop two or more forms based on the Operator genes. This also causes them to have weak copies of Operator abilities, even then they get very few of them. Operator hybrids with other species cannot generate an Influence nor do they suffer from the Operator Hunger.

Some hybrids suffer from constant necrosis and various other side effects, every hybrid is an individual case. Some are more similar than others.

Aging when it comes to hybrids are also a one-by-one case. If they are undead, it further complicates things. Unlike beings who became full-blooded Operators, how a hybrid ages depends on if they were born or made a hybrid. Those born as a hybrid will age like how their other species would and stop aging when they reach adulthood. Beings who are not hybrids at birth will, similarly, stop physically aging when they reach adulthood. Undeads, who were not hybrids at birth, will slowly age according to how Operators would normally age albeit a bit delayed.

Operator hybrids all have one thing in common: they must possess Operator blood in their body.

Origins & Reputation

Even after existing for thousands, possibly millions, of years, Operators are still regarded as being mysterious. It is suspected by the older members of the species that they are alien in origin. Others don’t know what to make of their origins. To some, they have either always been here or just appeared with no explanation.

Over the millenniums, Operators, particularly the parasitic ones, have dominated over a lot of other species. Slenders especially have gained a fierce reputation. Due to shallow beliefs, many apply the standards and expectations they have for Slenders to the entire species.

This has made them gain their reputation as nothing but malevolent beings who want nothing but everything to themselves and to claim everything they see as their property.

Trivia

Since Operators have the tendency on getting out of control and any individual can possible be a threat, the Council decided to use the same system of identifying individuals with surnames as human society does. Their Class name serves as their surnames to further be specific on what Class of Operator they are. This only applies to the Base Bloodlines.

Operators, particularly Slenders, practice Proxism quite a lot since they use it to further gain control over their Influenced. It also helps them establish hierarchies between their servants.

There are many ways for Subclasses to be made. One of which is experimentation through dissecting and changing a Class’ genes.

Operators cannot impregnate other species through intercourse. Beings born as a hybrid Operator with another species usually happen through weirder means.

For Operators that are hybrids of other Classes, they are only made from birth. Usually by combining the blood of Operators of other Classes and combining the reproduction procedures from each Class involved.

Operators have no known creator. Their origins are completely unknown.

The name “Operator” refers to how Operators, through the mind, can potentially operate an entire being. They used to be known by other names such as “Conquerors,” “Psionic Rulers” and “Masters of the Mind.”

Operator blood is quite unique. They are often named after elements or ingredients of alchemy such as Azoth for the Slenders’ blood.

There is only one species representative for them at the Council which is Councilor Nathaniel Slender, Slenderman’s oldest brother.

[qprsmackdown]

Meowrails (Nepeta and Equius) Propaganda!

For non-Homestucks in the audience: the trolls in Homestuck have a specific kind of relationship called "moirails", which in our terms would just.... be a queerplatonic relationship. While it's not clear whether this was intentional (and it probably wasn't intentional for there to be canonical qpr representation), its side effect is that we do see actual canonical queerplatonic relationships in Homestuck!! Nepeta and Equius (commonly referred to as "meowrails") are considered the peak example of moirails. They're made for each other. Nepeta likes to goof around and be just a sillygoofy little guy and she's the only one who Equius tolerates acting like that, and it's made very clear that they trust and respect each other an awful awful lot. They're so close. They're in love in the most queerplatonic of ways. Trolls have typing quirks and use <> instead of <3 to represent moirails and their typing quirks create a <> whenever they're put next to each other because they're just so happily together. They're together in a long-standing qpr from the moment we're introduced to them until the moment they die, and even death can't stop their qpr from continuing forwards. I cannot stress enough that they're CANON and not only are they canon but they're like. A CONSTANT in canon. Everyone else goes through a bunch of weird relationship shenanigans and the two of them do have other relationship drama but their relationship is like the only one that never has any drama. You always know that Nepeta and Equius are going to be together they love each other and support each other in everything they're made for each other. Meowrails for best QPR 2023.

they are literally the original qpr. cmon now

I love meowrails and I need good things for them.

canonically part of what is basically an alien QPR, arguably the only healthy example of that in the whole comic. they silly RP with eachother and are eachothers closest positive relationship. also they die together. qprs 5ever.

It's literally canon

MEOWRAILS!!!!!!!!

In canon they’re in a pale relationship/moirallegience, which is sometimes headcanoned as a kind of alien QPR Their queer platonic love for each other is literally insane I MEAN LOOK AT THEM!

Understand that they are so !!!! rotating them in my mind Horse guy and Cat girl who are canonicly in a relationship that isnt like human dating (which also tends to be simplified into friendship despite it not being that)

They're Moirails technically, but that's the word their species uses for qprs. Its literally canon. Their relationship is one of the very few Troll (Troll is the kind of aliens they are) relationships that's genuinely sweet and fairly healthy. They care for each other so much.

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Understanding Bail Bonds: A Comprehensive Guide to Finding a Reliable Bondsman Near You

When a loved one is arrested, it can be a confusing and stressful time. Understanding how bail bonds work and finding a trustworthy bail bond agent can significantly ease that stress. If you're searching for a "bails bond near me" or a "24 hour bondsman near me," you're not alone. Many families find themselves in this position unexpectedly. This blog will guide you through the entire process of bail bonds, what to look for in a bondsman, and how to secure help at any hour of the day.

What Are Bail Bonds?

Bail bonds are legal tools that allow an arrested individual to be released from jail while awaiting trial. Instead of paying the full bail amount set by the court, the defendant or their family can work with a bail bond agent, commonly known as a bondsman, who provides a surety bond to the court. This bond guarantees the defendant will appear in court when required.

When a judge sets bail, it’s typically based on the nature of the alleged crime, the defendant’s criminal history, ties to the community, and potential flight risk. In many cases, bail is set so high that the average person cannot afford to pay it out of pocket. This is where a bail bondsman becomes crucial.

How Does a Bail Bondsman Help?

A bondsman essentially provides a guarantee to the court on behalf of the accused. They charge a non-refundable fee — usually 10% of the total bail amount — and in return, they secure the release of the defendant.

For example, if bail is set at $10,000, the family would pay the bail bond agent $1,000. The bondsman then posts the remaining $9,000 as a surety bond with the court. This allows the defendant to return home and continue life (and legal preparations) outside of jail.

The Importance of a Licensed Bail Bond Agent

When looking for a "bails bond near me," ensure the agent is licensed and experienced. A licensed bail bond agent understands the local legal system, maintains strong connections with courthouses and detention centers, and can expedite the release process.

Moreover, working with a certified bondsman provides peace of mind. They’ll explain the legal responsibilities involved, help complete the paperwork, and ensure compliance with the court's requirements.

Searching for a "Bails Bond Near Me": Local Knowledge Matters

When you type “bails bond near me” into your phone or computer, you're looking for someone who knows the area — someone who can get to work immediately. Local agents are typically more responsive and familiar with the specific protocols at nearby detention centers.

Local bail bond agents often maintain working relationships with law enforcement and courthouse staff. This familiarity can accelerate the release process, sometimes shaving hours off the time your loved one spends behind bars.

24 Hour Bail Bondsman: Why Availability is Crucial

Arrests don't just happen during business hours. They can occur in the middle of the night, on weekends, or during holidays. That’s why it’s vital to find a 24 hour bondsman near me who can assist anytime, day or night.

A 24 hour bondsman near me ensures that no time is wasted in beginning the release process. In fact, immediate intervention can prevent a defendant from being transported to a larger facility, which could delay release by several additional hours or even days.

When considering a 24 hour bondsman, look for someone who:

Answers the phone immediately or calls back within minutes

Has 24/7 access to detention facilities and courthouse e-filing systems

Can send documents digitally for remote signing

Offers transportation or virtual support for out-of-town families

What to Expect from the Bail Process

Here’s a simplified breakdown of the bail process:

Arrest and Booking The defendant is arrested and taken to a local jail where they are booked and processed. This includes taking fingerprints, photos, and recording the charges.

Bail is Set A judge sets the bail amount, which could be within hours or the next morning depending on the arrest time.

Contacting a Bondsman At this point, family members typically search for a “bails bond near me” or “24 hour bondsman near me” and reach out for help.

Paperwork and Payment Once you speak to a bail bond agent, you’ll need to provide information and sign paperwork. You’ll also pay the fee, typically 10% of the bail.

Posting the Bond The bondsman posts the bond at the jail, and the defendant is released. The release process can take anywhere from 1 to 8 hours depending on the facility.

Responsibilities After Bail is Posted

Once a bail bondsman has posted bail, the defendant must follow several rules:

Attend All Court Dates: Failing to appear will result in a bench warrant and possible forfeiture of the bail.

Follow All Conditions: The court may impose travel restrictions, regular check-ins, or drug testing.

Maintain Contact: The bail bond agent may require regular contact with the defendant to ensure compliance.

If the defendant violates these terms, the bondsman has the right to revoke the bond and may employ a bounty hunter to return the defendant to jail.

Choosing the Right Bail Bondsman

When choosing a bail bond agent, keep the following in mind:

Experience: A seasoned bondsman will navigate the process efficiently and reduce wait times.

Reputation: Check reviews and testimonials. A reputable bondsman will be known for honesty, speed, and compassion.

Transparency: The fee should be clear. Watch out for hidden charges or misleading quotes.

Availability: A true 24 hour bondsman near me should be reachable anytime with no delays.

You want someone who not only understands the law but genuinely cares about helping your family in a crisis.

Cost and Collateral: What You Should Know

Most bail bond agents charge a non-refundable fee — typically 10%, but this can vary by state. Some situations may require collateral, such as:

Real estate

Vehicles

Jewelry

Bank accounts

Collateral ensures the bail bond agent can recoup their losses if the defendant fails to appear in court. Once the trial concludes, collateral is returned — as long as the defendant has met all court obligations.

Common Myths About Bail Bonds

1. Bail Bonds Are a “Get Out of Jail Free” Card Not true. The defendant must still appear in court and may face jail time if convicted.

2. You Can Negotiate the Fee In most states, the fee is regulated by law. Reputable agents stick to these rates.

3. Bail Bondsmen Can Drop the Case They can, but only if the defendant breaches the contract — for example, by skipping court or violating terms.

4. Only Rich People Use Bail Bonds Actually, bail bonds are designed to help families who can’t afford the full bail amount.

Final Thoughts

When a loved one is in trouble, time is of the essence. That’s why finding a trusted bail bond agent — someone who’s available, experienced, and local — makes all the difference. Whether you're searching for a “bails bond near me” or a “24 hour bondsman near me,” the right professional can bring peace of mind and swift action during an overwhelming time.

Bail bonds exist to ensure justice is served without unnecessarily punishing those who are still presumed innocent. And a good bondsman plays a crucial role in that balance, ensuring defendants can continue their lives — and prepare their cases — outside of a jail cell.

[suzanelust]

How Granny Flat Builders on the Central Coast Navigate Local Council Rules Better Than Sydney Builders?

Constructing a granny flat is one of the most common methods of introducing a low-cost, versatile living space. For residents, using granny flat builders on the Central Coast tends to translate into easier passage through council regulations than Sydney builders. This can shave hours off your time, create less stress, and ensure your project meets all the requirements.

How Do Granny Flat Builders on the Central Coast Handle Local Council Regulations Better Than Sydney Builders?

The Central Coast Council operates with specific regulations under the NSW State Environmental Planning Policy (Housing SEPP) that make many granny flats eligible for approval as complying developments. 

If your granny flat complies with certain requirements like floor area limits, boundary setbacks, and building height limits, you can obtain a Complying Development Certificate (CDC) without going through a full Development Application (DA). 

This simplifies the process and accelerates it.

Major local provisions are:

Minimum lot size of 450 square metres or larger, residential zoned.

Maximum granny flat floor area of 60 square metres (except for rural zones with some allowable exceptions).

Minimum 3-metre setback from rear boundary and 0.9-metre setback from side boundaries.

Maximum height controls, typically between 3.8 and 8.5 metres, based on zoning and type of building.

Just one granny flat per block, which has to remain under the control of the main property and cannot be subdivided.

Why Are Central Coast Builders Better at Handling These Regulations Than Sydney Builders?

Central Coast builders are experts in local regulations and council procedures, which provides them with several benefits:

Deeper Local Expertise: They know the complexities of Central Coast Council's policies, such as particular development levies, zoning regulations, and typical pitfalls that cause hold-ups.

Experience of CDC and DA Processes: Local builders know when to use a CDC and when to require a DA. It prevents delays and additional expense by selecting the appropriate approval route initially. 

Hard-earned Relationships: Well-established relationships with local certifiers and council officers facilitate easy communication and quick resolution of any compliance issues.

Personalised Designs: They create granny flats that are compliant with both state and local regulations, minimising the chances of non-compliance that Sydney builders who are not familiar with Central Coast details may miss.

How Is It Different from Sydney Builders?

Misinterpretation of local setback and zoning requirements.

Incorrect or insufficient CDC or DA applications, leading to delays.

Misestimation of council charges or other fees specific to the Central Coast.

Designs incompatible with local aesthetic or standards, risking rejection or redesign at significant expense.

What Can Homeowners Do to Make a Stress-Free Granny Flat Construction on the Central Coast Possible?

Select Builders with Local Knowledge: Hire builders who specialise in the Central Coast region and have an established history with local council approvals.

Consult Early with Council or Certifiers: Early consultations assist in clarifying needs and resolving possible issues prior to construction.

Know Approval Options: Understand whether your project is eligible for a CDC or a DA to plan timelines and costs properly.

Budget for Development Levies and Contingencies: Include council fees and provide for unforeseen expenses.

Conclusion

Granny flat builders on the Central Coast have a distinct edge over Sydney builders when dealing with local council regulations. Their thorough knowledge of Central Coast Council's requirements, approval processes, and development levies ensures projects are also approved promptly and constructed without expensive delays. For homeowners wanting a hassle-free granny flat construction, local expertise is the key to success. This way, your investment will comply with all regulations while giving you the extra space that you require.

[zubairrasheed]

Tech Products

In the modern world, we often hear the term tech products. But what does it really mean? And why are tech products important for people and businesses? In this article, we’ll explore the meaning of tech products, the different types available today, and how they are changing our lives for the better.

What Does "Tech Products" Mean?

Tech products are tools and solutions created using technology. They are designed to help people do tasks better, faster, and more easily. These products can be machines, gadgets, software, or digital platforms. You might use tech products at home, at work, or even in your car.

Some common tech products include:

Smartphones

Laptops and tablets

Online apps

Cloud storage systems

Smart home devices

In short, any product that uses modern technology to serve a purpose can be called a tech product.

Different Categories of Tech Products

There are many different types of tech products. Here are a few major categories:

1. Consumer Tech Products

These are products made for everyday use. People use them at home, school, or on the go. Examples include:

Mobile phones

Smart TVs

Smartwatches

Bluetooth speakers

Game consoles

2. Business Tech Products

Businesses use these products to manage their work. Some examples are:

Accounting software

Human resource management systems (HRMS)

Project management tools

Video conferencing apps

CRM (Customer Relationship Management) systems

3. Industrial Tech Products

These are special products used in factories, construction sites, and other industries. Examples:

Robotics used in manufacturing

Monitoring systems for production lines

Heavy equipment with smart features

4. Educational Tech Products

Schools and learning centers use tech to improve education. Examples:

Online learning platforms

Virtual classrooms

Educational apps

Smartboards

Benefits of Tech Products

Tech products offer many benefits. Here are some of the main ones:

1. Saves Time

One of the biggest benefits is that tech products save time. A simple app can complete tasks that once took hours.

2. Improves Communication

Tech products like video calls and instant messaging make it easy to talk to anyone, anywhere in the world.

3. Increases Productivity

For businesses, using tech products means more work gets done in less time. This helps increase profits and growth.

4. Better Customer Service

Using tech tools, companies can respond faster to customer questions, solve problems quickly, and keep customers happy.

5. Makes Life Easier

From turning off your lights with a phone app to using maps for directions, tech products simplify daily life.

Tech Products in Our Daily Life

Let’s look at how we use tech products every day without even thinking about it:

In the morning, you might check the weather on your phone.

At work, you use a laptop or tablet to complete tasks.

At home, you stream movies on a smart TV.

While shopping, you use apps to order food, clothes, or even medicine.

For health, fitness trackers count your steps and monitor your heart rate.

All of these are examples of tech products working in the background to make your life better.

How Businesses Use Tech Products

Businesses today cannot run without the help of tech products. Here are some ways they are used:

1. Managing Employees

Software like HR systems help companies track employee records, attendance, and salaries.

2. Handling Finances

Accounting tools help businesses manage money, generate reports, and file taxes accurately.

3. Marketing

Digital marketing tools help companies advertise online using websites, social media, and email.

4. Sales and Customer Management

CRM software keeps track of customer details, past purchases, and support needs.

5. Online Stores

E-commerce platforms let businesses sell their products online 24/7.

Choosing the Right Tech Products

There are thousands of tech products available. Choosing the right one is important. Here are some tips:

Know your needs: What do you want the product to do?

Set a budget: Don’t overspend on features you don’t need.

Check reviews: See what other users say about the product.

Try demos: If possible, test the product before buying.

Customer support: Make sure the company offers help when needed.

Making a smart choice will save you time, money, and trouble later.

The Future of Tech Products

Tech products will continue to grow and change. Here are some exciting trends:

Artificial Intelligence (AI)

AI will make products smarter. For example, AI in customer service can answer questions instantly.

Internet of Things (IoT)

More devices will be connected to the internet. You’ll control your lights, fridge, and security system using one app.

Wearable Tech

Devices like smart glasses or health monitors will become more advanced and helpful.

Automation

Machines and software will take over more tasks, especially repetitive or dangerous ones.

Green Tech

Tech products will be designed to use less energy and be better for the environment.

Challenges of Tech Products

While tech products are helpful, they come with challenges too:

Privacy risks: Your personal data must be protected.

High costs: Some tech products can be expensive.

Learning curve: New technology may be hard to learn.

Dependence: People may rely too much on technology.

It’s important to be aware of these issues and use tech products wisely.

[hotsopt-bring]

Tech Products

In the modern world, we often hear the term tech products. But what does it really mean? And why are tech products important for people and businesses? In this article, we’ll explore the meaning of tech products, the different types available today, and how they are changing our lives for the better.

What Does "Tech Products" Mean?

Tech products are tools and solutions created using technology. They are designed to help people do tasks better, faster, and more easily. These products can be machines, gadgets, software, or digital platforms. You might use tech products at home, at work, or even in your car.

Some common tech products include:

Smartphones

Laptops and tablets

Online apps

Cloud storage systems

Smart home devices

In short, any product that uses modern technology to serve a purpose can be called a tech product.

Different Categories of Tech Products

There are many different types of tech products. Here are a few major categories:

1. Consumer Tech Products

These are products made for everyday use. People use them at home, school, or on the go. Examples include:

Mobile phones

Smart TVs

Smartwatches

Bluetooth speakers

Game consoles

2. Business Tech Products

Businesses use these products to manage their work. Some examples are:

Accounting software

Human resource management systems (HRMS)

Project management tools

Video conferencing apps

CRM (Customer Relationship Management) systems

3. Industrial Tech Products

These are special products used in factories, construction sites, and other industries. Examples:

Robotics used in manufacturing

Monitoring systems for production lines

Heavy equipment with smart features

4. Educational Tech Products

Schools and learning centers use tech to improve education. Examples:

Online learning platforms

Virtual classrooms

Educational apps

Smartboards

Benefits of Tech Products

Tech products offer many benefits. Here are some of the main ones:

1. Saves Time

One of the biggest benefits is that tech products save time. A simple app can complete tasks that once took hours.

2. Improves Communication

Tech products like video calls and instant messaging make it easy to talk to anyone, anywhere in the world.

3. Increases Productivity

For businesses, using tech products means more work gets done in less time. This helps increase profits and growth.

4. Better Customer Service

Using tech tools, companies can respond faster to customer questions, solve problems quickly, and keep customers happy.

5. Makes Life Easier

From turning off your lights with a phone app to using maps for directions, tech products simplify daily life.

Tech Products in Our Daily Life

Let’s look at how we use tech products every day without even thinking about it:

In the morning, you might check the weather on your phone.

At work, you use a laptop or tablet to complete tasks.

At home, you stream movies on a smart TV.

While shopping, you use apps to order food, clothes, or even medicine.

For health, fitness trackers count your steps and monitor your heart rate.

All of these are examples of tech products working in the background to make your life better.

How Businesses Use Tech Products

Businesses today cannot run without the help of tech products. Here are some ways they are used:

1. Managing Employees

Software like HR systems help companies track employee records, attendance, and salaries.

2. Handling Finances

Accounting tools help businesses manage money, generate reports, and file taxes accurately.

3. Marketing

Digital marketing tools help companies advertise online using websites, social media, and email.

4. Sales and Customer Management

CRM software keeps track of customer details, past purchases, and support needs.

5. Online Stores

E-commerce platforms let businesses sell their products online 24/7.

Choosing the Right Tech Products

There are thousands of tech products available. Choosing the right one is important. Here are some tips:

Know your needs: What do you want the product to do?

Set a budget: Don’t overspend on features you don’t need.

Check reviews: See what other users say about the product.

Try demos: If possible, test the product before buying.

Customer support: Make sure the company offers help when needed.

Making a smart choice will save you time, money, and trouble later.

The Future of Tech Products

Tech products will continue to grow and change. Here are some exciting trends:

Artificial Intelligence (AI)

AI will make products smarter. For example, AI in customer service can answer questions instantly.

Internet of Things (IoT)

More devices will be connected to the internet. You’ll control your lights, fridge, and security system using one app.

Wearable Tech

Devices like smart glasses or health monitors will become more advanced and helpful.

Automation

Machines and software will take over more tasks, especially repetitive or dangerous ones.

Green Tech

Tech products will be designed to use less energy and be better for the environment.

Challenges of Tech Products

While tech products are helpful, they come with challenges too:

Privacy risks: Your personal data must be protected.

High costs: Some tech products can be expensive.

Learning curve: New technology may be hard to learn.

Dependence: People may rely too much on technology.

It’s important to be aware of these issues and use tech products wisely.

[lunarsilkscreen]

[Defined Social Classes] {and GENDER}

Let's start on "What is Gender". Gender, for all intents and purposes; is a [Classification] of a [Type of Thing] that [behaves and acts a certain way] and may [hold certain ideals to be self-evident.].

In our Western World; it is most easily described as the [Perceived Relationship] and/or [Actions, Behaviors of, and classifications] of people [under those classifications].

[Slave] is a Gender. [Race] is a gender. [Social Status] is a gender. And this can extend to [People without an assigned sex{for various reasons}].

Because when we care about [Sex] and the [Genderfixation] of it; we only care what it means in relation to [Child Birth].

And so; [Most Women] do not have a gender; because they [cannot give birth].

And while [Men]{Read: People who are used to not existing with a functional uterus} are *used* to the modus-operandii...

[Women] and [Trans Women] seem [Subjectively Opposite].

Because [Men] are not used to having that [perceived social responsibility thrust upon them.]

And [Trans Women] tend to [take it for themselves]{consensually} because*most* people don't want it. Even [Cis Women]{defined as a Person capable of giving birth and has not rejected that responsibility.}

<aside>Where does that leave [Trans Men]? As Men. Duh. Having had rejected that definition of [Woman].

I'm not a trans man, do not @me, please instead ask trans men to add to the discussion in ways that [would make it too my attention] because {for all intense and purposes} [It should be here; and is not in the documentation of the [trans agenda] that was handed to me in {loose-leaf stapled Manifesto format}.</aside>

So, that means; That [Gender] exists as a mode of classification and forcing [People] into [molds] in order to [simplify our understanding of how the world works] because [of our stupid abstractions] and our [limited oxygen supply to our brains.]

One way we can expand gender differences is by saying; {people who cannot [read: shouldn't] reproduce with the currently dominant [Gender or Gender:Race]} have to [Do Labor] because they won't [do work rearing children].

Which; obviously; isn't entirely correct.

And, when one factors in; [late stage capitalism] gets really wonky because [why would we pay people to have children?]

And then; People who have children ARE doing labor! Hard labor! And time! Of course!

Which puts us in a terrifying landscape especially to those who are [Pro Life]. Because while those who are "pro abortion"; are doing so because [they cannot afford a child in their life specifically]--[Pro Life] people would *sell* other people's body for their own perceived benefit.

That's [Gender] that's *how* the model works.

And right now; Gender, especially that related to sex--*is* considered "common sense" and "matter of fact by all."

Even those who aren't in the [Religious Dogma] or other [Situation Specific Roles].

It's why there's a plethora of books on the subject such as [Men and/or Women from Venus and/or Mars] or something like that.

Because people; especially married couples--Believe that there is a complete difference in understanding, Knowledge, Intelligence, experience, and *behaviors* unique to their spouse that is not held by themselves.

And; seems to be self-evident between *every spouse* and; created enough space in the [self-help] genre for [being a good partner] that [your partner is expecting].

And while I personally do not believe in [any of that shit] I cannot deny the impact it has had on [my life] as a whole and {supported by innumerable people} that are in leadership, community, authority, and whatever else [roles] that have needlessly tied our [Political Landscapes] *with* [Gender Ideology] which [Belongs outside of a Professional Setting] because {in the professional setting} we're not word about [the labor] that results in [childbirth].

Only that which results in a [payment] of a [resources that will probably be around when we aren't] with which to purchase [resources that deteriorate in time spans of less than a month.]

And so... [Wealth Production]{Money} and [Child Production]{Not Money} are *at* odds; in this [the world we have created.]

And because [Child Production] == [Negative Wealth]{money}; Children are inherently a poor business decision.

Where the fuck was I. I'm definitely stuck in [baby limerence] here...

Also [Children] are *also* a defacto [Gender] separate from [Sex] *because*; and this is the important part of how [Education] and [Politics] works...

They {the children} are seen as [needing to have been taught their "Perceived Gender Role"] and those who grow-up without [having been taught that]> OR> [are perceived to not know "common sense"] enter a Gender we call [Queer].

Because they're *not* following their [Prescribed Gender]>>> and that, my dear readers; is how we got into [this predicament] [in the first place].

Because what *we* know to be true about Society if not about Nature, is that;

1) Society has defined Genders

2) [Today in the West] those genders are prescribed to [perceived owning of certain sex organs] not the actual [owning of such organs].

3) And in the East expands to [Lady Boy] which is a derogatory term for [Trans Women] {even if said Lady Boys are self-defined as feminine men.}

4) Because; they are in the [Gender: Queer] and/or [Lacking the pre-requisite sexual organs] because [why else would they break the] [Gender Law]?

5) We do not like this

6) and still need to operate in society *some how*

7) So what would *you* have us do instead?

I am a [Trans Woman] because society has defined these things;

1) the gender "Woman" has a certain level of societal responsibility thrust upon it.

2) I, for some reason, am perceived as *having* [that responsibility]

3) I ALSO am not perceived as a [Gender: Man] even [without hormone replacement]

4) despite *also* being perceived as having that [Gender: Male]{Authority}

5) and that creates the definition for *what* I am.

Therefore;

The [Gender: Trans Woman] is not the same as [Lady Boy, or Feminine Men] or even as [Queer and/or Gay] because *those* definition *include* the shirking of social responsibility.

And what makes me a [Trans Woman] aside from being a [Feminine Man] is *because* that *I* also retain that [Perceived Male Authority] *despite* my [preferred unaltered behavior] that typically aligns somewhere between the [Gender Spectrum] between [Male and female sexes].

This is why I'm not a [trans-identified man] either and would *instead* be labeled as [Trans-Identified women] had you no other information to go on.

Because [TiM] implies that you do not care, nor accept the social-responsibility, that comes attached to [Gender Role: Woman] as opposed to [Gender Role: Girl] {which I includes adults of all genders that seems to lack an inherent sense of [cost or responsibility] for [things]}

And so; that's *what* I am. A [Trans Woman] *because* I {carry that responsibility} with me the same as a [Woman would carry a child] AND would even [Carry a child] in order to [Save the Species].

AND, because; I have not shirked the duties nor responsibilities that society *demands* of my [physical sex] *either*.

Is that OK with you?

[sahraeyll]

Opening Efficiency: Top Medical Billing Coding Software to Streamline Your Practice in 2023

Unlocking Efficiency: Top Medical ‍Billing Coding Software to‌ streamline Your Practice in 2023

In teh⁤ dynamic ‍landscape of healthcare, the importance of efficient medical billing and‌ coding cannot ​be overstated. With the healthcare sector evolving rapidly, practitioners must leverage technology ⁢to streamline operations. This article ‌will⁣ explore ‌the top ​medical billing coding software of 2023 that can definitely help unlock efficiency in your⁤ practice, enhance ​patient satisfaction, and maximize revenue.

Why is Medical Billing Coding ‍Software Essential?

Medical‍ billing coding software is crucial for:

Accurate patient billing and coding

Efficient⁣ claim submissions

Compliance with regulations

Fraud reduction

Improved ⁣revenue cycle management

Key Features to Look for ⁢in Medical Billing Coding ​Software

Choosing the right billing and coding software⁤ can be a game-changer. Here⁤ are some essential features to⁣ consider:

Easy-to-use Interface

Integration with electronic Health Records (EHR)

Robust reporting and analytics tools

Customization options

Support for multiple insurance carriers

Real-time claim tracking

Top Medical Billing Coding Software of 2023

1. AdvancedMD

AdvancedMD ⁢provides a comprehensive ⁤cloud-based solution ideal ⁣for practices of any size. known for its user-friendly interface, it enables ​seamless billing and ‍coding operations.

2. ​Kareo

Kareo shines with its integrated EHR and‌ practice management features. It simplifies billing processes and offers an easy setup for new⁣ users.

3.DrChrono

DrChrono offers a powerful billing platform‌ that integrates directly with⁢ EHR, ensuring accurate data is transferred for billing and coding.

4. PracticeSuite

This all-in-one solution boasts robust billing, ⁣scheduling, and reports, making it ‍a preferred choice for⁣ busy practices.

5. Athenahealth

Athenahealth’s cloud-based ‌system provides intelligent billing and coding, ensuring that practices remain compliant while maximizing revenue.

Benefits of ⁣Using Medical ‍Billing Coding Software

The adoption of medical billing coding software can ‍lead ​to significant benefits:

increased Efficiency: Automating repetitive tasks saves time ‌for healthcare providers.

reduced Errors: Software minimizes the risk ‌of human⁣ error in billing and coding.

Improved ⁤Cash Flow: Faster ⁢claim submissions lead⁣ to⁣ quicker payments.

Enhanced Patient Communication: ‌ More accurate billing results in better patient relationships.

Practical Tips for implementation

To maximize the benefits of medical ⁤billing coding software:

Conduct thorough‍ training ⁣sessions for your staff.

Customize the software to⁤ fit ​your practice’s ⁤unique needs.

Regularly update the software to comply with the latest regulations.

Utilize support and ​resources provided by the software vendor.

Real-World Case Studies

here are a couple of examples of practices ⁣that have seen improvements by adopting ‍medical billing‍ coding ‌solutions:

Practice ⁣Type

Software Used

Results Achieved

Small Family Practice

AdvancedMD

Reduced billing cycle by 30%

Pediatric Clinic

Kareo

Increased revenue by 25%

First-Hand Experience with Medical Billing Coding Software

Transitioning⁣ to the right medical‍ billing coding software can be daunting. ‍After switching to Kareo, dr. Sarah, a family physician,⁣ noted:

‍ ⁢ ​ “The⁤ learning curve was minimal. With Kareo, I could see a‍ significant reduction⁢ in billing errors and a faster claim turnaround. It’s been a relief to⁢ know ⁣that I ​can focus more on patient care than‍ paperwork!”

Conclusion

In ⁤2023, utilizing medical billing coding software is essential for any practice aiming to optimize operations and enhance patient‌ satisfaction. By choosing the⁤ right software ⁣and implementing it ‌effectively,you can substantially improve your practice’s efficiency,revenue cycle​ management,and​ overall‌ performance. Explore the options mentioned and take the first step towards a more streamlined practice today!

https://medicalbillingcertificationprograms.org/opening-efficiency-top-medical-billing-coding-software-to-streamline-your-practice-in-2023/

[sasubaeuchithot]

Hey there! Surprise, surprise, I've returned! But with a very different type of Ask this time around! I'm looking for some of your insight on this!

A while back, I read what I still consider to be a pretty shitty interpretation of Sasuke's character, as well as Naruto's, Itachi's, Sakura's and Kakashi's relationships with/understanding of him.

According to the post, Naruto primarily chased after him out of guilt, so that he could become Hokage and achieve never-ending validation, without the belief that he failed his best friend.

Itachi saw him as a means to his own end, that being the reason why he tortured him to the point of no return.

And Sakura was the closest to genuinely loving him, although she herself was deeply flawed in her perception of him too.

The overall and simplified gist being that Sasuke left Konoha because his autonomy was constantly undermined by those around him, and no one truly tried to understand him.

No one saw him as his own person.

He felt objectified, like he was put on a pedestal, and Orochimarou, albeit disgusting, was the only one who offered him a choice.

His quest for revenge wouldn't have been as relentless had it not been for Itachi's manipulation.

Now if you ask me, these all pretty much miss the mark on, probably, all accounts.

So much so that I'd actually written 8k words in response (still not even halfway done with that).

Now I'm telling you all this, because, one: I kind of need some sort of validation that I'm not actually insane for feeling so... weirdly offended by this??

Tell me I'm not crazy and that this take is exactly as wildly inaccurate as I feel like it is.

Two: The segment about Itachi in the original post got me thinking of how exactly Sasuke would have turned out, if his older brother simply left without. Ruthlessly torturing him.

Did his manipulation really shape some fundamental aspect of Sasuke's chemical makeup? What exactly would have changed in what, at least led to, Sasuke's core ideals had it not been for Itachi setting him up for a life of anger?

Is it a disservice to Sasuke's core being/conviction to insinuate that it was merely a product of his older brother's torture?

Every time I revisit this line of questioning, I can only say yes. It is a disservice.

In that, even without Itachi's actions post-massacre, I physically cannot picture Sasuke not endlessly hunting Itachi down for answers.

I can't imagine Sasuke would've stopped until he got to the bottom of it, because he's simply too full of love and loyalty for his clan.

And once he did, he'd seek revenge just as he did in canon.

Itachi ensured that Sasuke had no other choice, but Sasuke's path after the eradication of his family was his own, first and foremost.

Fundamentally, I don't think that Sasuke would've been any different. I can't imagine him not ending up where he did by the end of the second battle.

No matter which way I slice it, Sasuke was inevitable.

And I've been thinking about this for months on end (I'm writing a thesis in response to that og post atp), and I'm way past the point of being able to scope how far off I'm at with this one, and I need an outsider's perspective. Big time.

Thank you so much for listening to me ramble like this for the millionth time!

I'll try and break this down and not miss anything.

First thing, Naruto definitely did not chase after Sasuke out of guilt. guilt is a feeble thing. if it was just guilt, he would have been swayed by Sakura when she "confessed" to him and said he could forget about the promise. no, Naruto loved Sasuke (platonically or romantically is irrelevant) with his whole heart, and genuinely was hurt to see him walk down such a painful, lonely path. we see Naruto consistently going against what everyone, included two kages themselves, said about how chasing after Sasuke was directly hindering his ability to become hokage. Sasuke always ranked more important to Naruto than becoming hokage; there's no way naruto was motivated by anything but pure love for sasuke.

and Itachi uh. was an idiot lol. he genuinely did love Sasuke, and he wanted to set Sasuke up to be the hero of the Uchiha by becoming the one who killed the Uchiha's murderer. remember, itachi died fully having made sure Sasuke would never know his truth. he wanted Sasuke to go back to konoha a hero. Obito was the only reason that didn't happen. Itachi was fucked up and dumb as hell for the whole thing, but he did genuinely believe he loved Sasuke more than anything. it's just that he was stupid. Itachi was too manipulated at such a young age to like. be normal. but yeah, him choosing Sasuke to be his murderer was selfish beyond belief and incredibly fucked up.

i do kind of agree with them though that if itachi hadn't tortured him, it would have been more likely that Sasuke would refuse to let go of the loving older brother that he knew Itachi to be, thus would never seek to murder him in revenge. the torture gave Sasuke much deeper PTSD. if itachi hadn't tortured sasuke with the tsukuyomi and said all the bullshit to him, Sasuke might have left the village not to kill Itachi, but to get answers. Itachi needed to completely break the "kind older brother" narrative to quell any second thoughts Sasuke had. itachi would not have been able to handle answering sasuke's questions, so he tortured him in a way that would prevent him from asking them.

i also don't disagree that Sasuke is a product of his trauma. it's impossible for him to not be. i think you can argue semantics about it, but it is a huge core part of who he became. though I do argue that the greatest attribute of his character is his love, not his trauma. the issue here is that the trauma and the love are deeply intertwined. human beings are always a product of cause and effect, and torture is one HELL of a cause.

i think the specifics may have stayed regardless though. a lot of sasuke's trauma had more to do with the village, and what the village did to his family. i think had itachi killed himself as well, or if say some other person was responsible for the killing of the Uchiha, once sasuke traced it back to the village being the one to give the orders, he would have attempted to usurp the village all the same. but sasuke considers the way the village used itachi to do its dirty work even more heinous than had some random nin done it, especially considers them the most at fault for itachi planning his death by sasuke's hand.

so you're both kinda right on that front. sasuke still would have been hellbent on getting revenge on konoha had itachi not tortured him, but because itachi did torture him, he's much more extreme about it. torture does too much psychologically to not seriously affect a person. but like, if itachi didn't torture sasuke, sasuke would have been more likely to chase after itachi for answers rather than revenge, and that may have led to itachi not dying at all, which would make sasuke not as extreme in his actions to make konoha pay for their crimes. i can't see him ever not wanting revenge on konoha, though.

(and Sakura never actually loved Sasuke as he was- she loved the person she pretended he was in her head. she was the character we see objectifying him the most lol)

[nithya-r]

Filing for Mutual Divorce in India: Your Simple Guide

Divorce can be tough, but if both partners agree to separate, a mutual divorce (or Mutual Consent Divorce) can make things easier. In India, this type of divorce allows couples to end their marriage without the stress of a long court battle. Here’s everything you need to know about the process, costs, and what to expect.

What is a Mutual Consent Divorce?

A mutual consent divorce is when both spouses decide to end their marriage together. This approach works well for couples who can agree on key issues like how to divide their property, who will take care of the children, and if there will be any financial support.

Legal Framework

Different laws in India cover mutual divorce depending on your religion. Here’s a quick overview:

Hindu Marriage Act, 1955: For Hindus, Sikhs, Jains, and Buddhists.

Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872: For Christians.

Parsi Marriage and Divorce Act, 1936: For Parsis.

Muslim Personal Law: For Muslims.

Special Marriage Act, 1954: For interfaith or civil marriages.

While the specific rules may vary, the process is mostly similar across these laws.

Requirements for Mutual Divorce

To file for a mutual divorce, you need to meet certain conditions:

Separation Period: You must have been living apart for at least one year.

Agreement: Both partners need to agree that the marriage cannot continue.

Joint Petition: Both parties must sign the divorce petition together.

Where to File

You can file your mutual divorce petition at the Family Court in the city where:

You last lived together as a couple.

Your marriage took place.

The wife currently lives.

Choosing the right location helps simplify the process.

Documents Needed

Having the right documents is crucial for a smooth divorce. Here’s what you’ll need:

Marriage Proof: This can be a marriage certificate, wedding photos, or any valid proof of marriage.

ID Proofs: Aadhaar cards, PAN cards, or other government IDs for both partners.

Marriage Invitation Card: To prove your relationship.

Mutual Agreement (MoU): A document outlining how you’ll divide property, child custody, and financial support.

Income Proof: Salary slips or proof of income if financial support is involved.

Steps to File for Mutual Divorce

Here’s a simple step-by-step guide to filing for mutual divorce:

Draft the MoU: Create a document that lists all the terms of your divorce, including how you’ll divide property, custody arrangements, and alimony.

File the Joint Divorce Petition: Submit the petition to the Family Court, along with the MoU. Both spouses must sign it.

First Motion Hearing: After filing, a hearing will be scheduled. The judge will check that both partners understand the MoU and agree to the divorce.

Six-Month Cooling-Off Period: The court usually requires a six-month waiting period. This allows both parties to reconsider their decision. If you’re sure about the divorce, you may request a waiver in special cases.

Second Motion Hearing: After the cooling-off period, you’ll have a second hearing. If both partners still agree, the judge will issue a final decree, officially ending the marriage.

Costs Involved

The cost of a mutual divorce in India generally ranges from INR 15,000 to INR 30,000. This includes:

Legal Fees: For drafting documents and legal representation.

Court Fees: For filing and hearing costs.

Mutual divorce is usually cheaper than a contested divorce since it requires less time in court.

Timeline for a Mutual Divorce

The entire process typically takes 6 to 18 months. The timeline can vary based on the cooling-off period and how quickly court dates are available.

Final Thoughts

While a mutual divorce is designed to be straightforward, it can still feel overwhelming. That’s where Zolvit comes in. Our team of divorce legal experts is ready to guide you through each step, ensuring everything is handled correctly. With our help, you can focus on starting your next chapter with peace of mind.

If you’re considering a mutual divorce, reach out to Zolvit today and let us make the process as smooth as possible for you.

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GRE Quantitative Reasoning Overview On Question Types and Tips

The Quantitative Reasoning section of the GRE tests your ability to interpret and analyze quantitative information and solve problems using mathematical models. Before you start preparing for the test, it is very important to understand the format of the test. This blog will introduce you to different question types, which will significantly boost your confidence and performance. The Dilip Oak’s Online test screenshots will also give you a good idea of what these formats look like when you take the GRE computer-based test.

Here’s a breakdown of the various question types you’ll encounter and tips on tackling them.

Multiple-Choice Questions (Single Answer)

These are the traditional multiple-choice questions where you select one correct answer from five options.

The options are in the form of radio buttons, as they only allow a single selection.

Multiple-Choice Questions (Multiple Answers)

These questions are accompanied by checkboxes and require you to select one or more answers.

You must choose all correct answers to get credit; there is no partial credit.

Numeric Entry Questions

Numeric Entry questions require you to enter your answer in a box rather than selecting from multiple choices.

The answer can be in any format: whole numbers, decimals, or fractions.

Quantitative Comparison Questions

Quantitative Comparison questions ask you to compare two quantities — Quantity A and Quantity B — and determine the relationship between them.

You’ll choose one of the following options:

Quantity A is greater

Quantity B is greater

The two quantities are equal

The relationship cannot be determined from the information given

General Strategies while preparing for the Quantitative Reasoning section of the GRE:

Understand the Basics: Review fundamental math concepts, including arithmetic, algebra, geometry, and data analysis.

Strengthen your concepts: Focus on understanding concepts rather than just memorizing formulas.

Practice Mental Math: Quick calculations can save time, so practice mental math to increase your speed.

Practice Regularly: Use practice tests to familiarize yourself with the question formats and time constraints. Identify your weak areas and devote extra time to those topics.

Manage Your Time: The Quant section is timed, so practice pacing yourself to complete all questions within time.

Tips for acing the Quantitative Reasoning Section of the GRE:

Double-Check Work: If time permits, double-check your calculations to avoid careless mistakes.

Use Scratch Paper: Work out the problem on scratch paper to avoid mistakes when transferring your answer.

Estimate and Simplify: Look for ways to simplify the expressions or use estimation to compare the quantities quickly.

Plug in Numbers: Substitute values for variables to test the relationship. This is particularly useful if the question involves variables without specific numbers.

Move on: Don’t spend too much time on any one question; move on and come back if time permits.

Use the On-Screen Calculator: The GRE provides an on-screen calculator for the Quant section. Use it for complex calculations, but don’t rely on it for simple arithmetic: mental math will save you more time.

Stay Calm and Focused: Keep calm and maintain your focus throughout the test. Anxiety can lead to simple mistakes.

Mastering the Quantitative Reasoning section of the GRE requires practice, strategic thinking, and a solid understanding of basic math concepts. By familiarizing yourself with the different question types and employing effective strategies, you can improve your performance and achieve your desired GRE score. Happy studying!

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Can I Transfer Bike Insurance Without Transferring RC?

When you sell or buy a two-wheeler, there are several formalities to complete, one of which is the transfer of the Registration Certificate (RC) and the bike insurance policy. A common query among buyers and sellers is: Can I transfer bike insurance without transferring RC? This blog aims to clarify the relationship between RC transfer and bike insurance, and what steps you need to take to ensure a smooth transition.

Understanding the RC and Its Importance

The Registration Certificate (RC) is an official document issued by the Regional Transport Office (RTO) that serves as proof of registration of the vehicle. The RC contains essential details such as the owner’s name, vehicle type, chassis number, engine number, and more. It’s illegal to drive a vehicle without a valid RC, making it a critical document for ownership and usage of the vehicle.

The Role of Insurance in Vehicle Ownership

Two-wheeler insurance is mandatory in India under the Motor Vehicles Act, 1988. This insurance protects the vehicle owner against financial losses arising from accidents, theft, or damage. There are mainly two types of bike insurance policies:

Third-Party Insurance: This covers damages caused to a third party bike insurance in an accident involving the insured vehicle.

Comprehensive Insurance: This covers third-party damages as well as damages to the insured vehicle, theft, natural calamities, etc.

When you purchase a two-wheeler insurance policy, it is tied to both the vehicle and the registered owner. This is why both the RC and the insurance policy must be in the name of the same person.

Can I Transfer Bike Insurance Without Transferring RC?

In short, no, you cannot transfer bike insurance without transferring the RC. Here’s why:

Legal and Practical Reasons

Policy and RC Alignment: Insurance companies require the RC to match the name on the insurance policy. This alignment ensures that the rightful owner is covered in case of any claims.

Claims Processing: If the RC is not transferred, the new owner cannot file a claim under the existing insurance policy. The insurance company will verify the details on the RC before processing any claims.

No-Claim Bonus (NCB) Transfer: When the RC is transferred, the previous owner can transfer their No-Claim Bonus (NCB) to a new policy if they buy another vehicle. Without the RC transfer, this process cannot be completed efficiently.

The Correct Process for Transferring Bike Insurance

To ensure that you are properly covered and compliant with legal requirements, follow these steps:

Transfer the RC: Visit the local RTO with the necessary documents to initiate the RC transfer process. This typically involves submitting forms, proof of sale, ID proof, address proof, and paying a nominal fee.

Inform the Insurance Company: Notify your insurance provider about the ownership transfer. Provide them with the new RC and other required documents.

Submit Necessary Documents: You may need to submit a copy of the sale deed, Form 29 and Form 30 (duly signed by both buyer and seller), the original RC, and a valid Pollution Under Control (PUC) certificate.

Pay Transfer Fees: Some insurance companies may charge a nominal fee for the policy transfer.

Get Confirmation: Ensure you receive written confirmation from the insurance company that the policy has been successfully transferred to the new owner.

Benefits of Online Insurance Management

Managing your two-wheeler insurance online can simplify the process of transferring policies and making updates. Many insurance providers offer user-friendly portals where you can:

Update personal details

Track the status of policy transfers

Renew your insurance

Access and download policy documents

Using online services can save you time and help ensure that your policy is always up to date.

Conclusion

Transferring bike insurance without transferring the RC is not feasible. To enjoy uninterrupted and valid insurance coverage, ensure that the RC transfer is completed promptly. By following the correct process and keeping your insurance policy updated, you can safeguard your investment and enjoy peace of mind on the road.

When looking for the best deals and convenient options, consider searching for 2 wheeler insurance or bike insurance near me to find the most suitable and affordable policies. Remember, proper documentation and timely updates are key to a hassle-free ownership experience.

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ZING Powers HCP Engagement

Against the backdrop of changing policies, mounting regulation and skyrocketing costs, pharmaceutical companies are investing heavily in their organization’s digital transformation. Everything from how R&D is conducted to how brands connect with HCPs and patients is being reinvented. And for pharmaceutical sales operations, improving prescriber engagement is the top priority. But unfortunately, many of the current solutions ignore one very important thing: what prescribers want when it comes to the pharma-physician relationship.

During a recent P360 masterclass1, double board-certified physician Dr. Mandira Mehra confirmed that, from a doctor’s standpoint, communication with pharma reps has become inefficient. Although an integral part of a physician’s work, she noted that the process of accessing or contacting reps can be very frustrating.

“Physicians want engagement at their own pace, at their own time, and they want to initiate it,” said Dr. Mehra. “I still have a stack of business cards with the information of 20-30 different pharmaceutical and medical device reps. I cannot think of any other industry that would do that—if I order food or call a cab, everything is streamlined and really done through the phone.”

Dr. Mehra isn’t alone when it comes to wanting a more convenient, digital-first pharma-to-physician relationship. Physicians now prefer digital communication to all other modes of engagement. In a survey conducted by Accenture, 87% of providers2 reported a preference for virtual, or a mix of virtual and in-person, meetings with pharmaceutical reps. In addition, the online HCP community Sermo found that 67% of its users3 felt pharma companies could improve communications with physicians and provide better support for prescribing decisions with on-demand access to reps.

That’s why we developed the ZING Engagement Suite. ZING is a comprehensive unified communications as a service (UCaaS) solution that enables compliant HCP engagement by enhancing existing communication channels with tons of features, including text messaging, two-way voice and video calling, onscreen collaboration and form sharing, inbound communications with QR code scanning, artificial intelligence (AI) assistance, signature capture, easy access integrations and more.

How intelligent bots and QR codes can improve HCP engagement

Strengthened with several enterprise-grade features, ZING is a robust unified communications as a service (UCaaS) platform that enables pharmaceutical sales teams to engage with HCPs via multiple modalities without barriers. In addition to all the features listed above, ZING enables sales teams to deploy intelligent bots and use QR codes to make communication easier. Here’s how those features help improve HCP engagement.

Intelligent bots: ZING can power pharma reps with automated responses to inbound requests (e.g., co-pay card requests). And when needed, reps can seamlessly transition back to themselves. The bots can even be personalized for each territory, rep and brand.

Intelligent bots improve HCP engagement by:

Removing compliance issues

Giving HCPs instant access to what they want, when they want it

Eliminates missed follow-ups when out of the office or out of reach

Removing white space issues

Simplifying access to reps and important drug information

QR codes: ZING makes it easy for pharma reps to provide HCPs with QR codes, which is a type of barcode that can be read by a smartphone. Like links, QR codes enable instant text, call or video communication. The QR codes can even be personalized for each brand. And they can be programmed to connect directly to the appropriate rep.

QR codes improve HCP engagement by:

Removing the need for business cards, which are easily lost

Making it easy to keep contact information up to date, even with turnover, etc.

Making it easy for HCPs to remember what drug goes with which rep

Streamlining communications

Eliminating the need for emails, phone calls and in-person visits

Compliance enabled HCP communication

83% of the pharmaceutical executives we surveyed said compliance is their top priority. The reason being is that compliance-related violations cost companies millions of dollars each year. But with the ZING, avoiding compliance issues is a breeze. All the messages, digital assets and replies sales teams send to HCPs can be preapproved by compliance and preloaded into the system. That way, nothing gets out that isn’t already approved.

In addition, ZING’s intuitive user portal, which can be branded and completely customized, offers administrators a simple way to track individual messages, link clicks, digital asset views and more. And all of ZING’s data can be stored for up to 10 years and pulled into a report for legal upon request. The data from the system also integrates back to sales profiles in existing CRM systems.

ZING makes HCP engagement easy

With the ZING, pharma teams can exchange compliance-enabled two-way unified messaging with healthcare professionals without barriers. There are no apps for end-users to download and there are no subscriptions for them to deal with. To HCPs, ZING offers a seamless, hassle-free experience that’s seen as nothing different than their normal method for receiving texts. To do this, ZING uses native text messaging on an HCPs iOS or Android device with pre-built integrations with major CRMs.

ZING also makes it easy for pharma IT teams in terms of data management and integrity for things like territory alignments, roster changes and other specific data integration needs. Compliance can track every communication, end-to-end. And managers can measure activity and results with ZING’s powerful dashboards.

To learn more about all of P360’s innovative products, visit P360.com.

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How does the relationship advice Max gave relate to childhood trauma?

I HOPED SOMEONE WOULD ASK LETS GO

so this is the advice she gives to el, right? what i'm going to go into here is max's trauma about her parents' divorce and her feelings on her stepfather.

this is quite long so i've divided it in parts for you: part 1 which has two sections ('the divorce' and 'emotional abuse') and part 2 which has one section ('conclusion'). the first two sections are basically explaining what happened within max's family, the conclusion is how it all affects max and a tl;dr of sorts.

ALSO THIS IS NOT BILLY HARGROVE FRIENDLY, GO AWAY BILLY STANS

TRIGGER WARNINGS: discussions of divorce and emotional child abuse (nothing graphic)

THE DIVORCE

so, the first question out of the way: can divorce cause trauma? the answer is a quick and easy yes, especially in max's case.

in the book runaway max, which is probably at least half-canon, max describes both her parents. her mother seems to be quite weak-willed, but still seems to just want the best for max. however, it is clear that max doesn't get nearly as support as she needs from her. max is an incredibly understanding and kind child, because she understands that her mom isn't really the supportive type, more like someone who takes care of her without the emotional support part. (NOTE: susan is NOT abusive. one of the reasons why she can't support her daughter is because they understand the world, themselves and each other in drastically different ways: susan cannot reach out to max because she doesn't understand her, and therefore cannot give her the emotional help or support she needs).

sam (max's father) on the other hand clearly understands max much better and doesn't question her boyish style or how she's Different than others (which could be autistic coding but thats for another day asjhshjs). in this case, he could be there, but he isn't, being too busy for her.

we can assume that max, as she was so young, was not given a talk about the divorce as a whole after the divorce had actually happened, given that her mother doesn't really seem the type for big, emotional conversations. she most likely got a simplified version of what was happening and why she'd be seeing her dad less because she was so young (around 8-9 based on max/billy's memories), which lead to misunderstanding and, as her father understood her more, she was naturally defensive of her dad (which is why we see her quick to defend him in the bus talk), and naturally a little resentful of her mom, especially considering she didn't truly grasp what had actually happened due to being so young.

this resentment would grow when susan starts dating again: in runaway max, it's mentioned that susan had flit from boyfriend to boyfriend, each of which eventually leaves because of personal issues (gambling, debts, etc). max sees this as a kind of betrayal to sam, and a complete change in what her family had been like - she would later know, around s2, that the cracks had always been there, and it was just a matter of time, but for now she's too young to think that her ex-family was anything but perfect, so she holds resentment towards her mom and starts to put her dad on a pedastal, as well as thinking that men are liars and cheaters.

EMOTIONAL ABUSE

then susan marries neil, and with him comes billy. max, at first, was hopeful that she'd have a family again after her last one broke, only to be let down very quickly. here's a heartbreaking excerpt from runaway max:

billy doesn't treat her like a sister: in fact, he insists she's not his sister constantly, and emotionally abuses her.

'yes, yes, anthony, but what is emotional abuse?' i hear you cry. here's a definition from google itself:

Emotional abuse involves controlling another person by using emotions to criticize, embarrass, shame, blame, or otherwise manipulate them. While most common in dating and married relationships, mental or emotional abuse can occur in any relationship—including among friends, family members, and co-workers.

the parts in bold are the parts that are relevant to max herself and billy's abuse of her. here's some symptoms and signs of emotional abuse, as well as some examples of said symptoms, taken from healthyplace.com:

you'll notice that billy has almost all the signs and shows off many of the examples given, particularly in episode two. there's this great post by @madcleradin (hey sierra, tell me if you want be untagged) with my reblogs to show the examples themselves and this is the root of max's self hatred and self blame, but the very short tl;dr version is that his abuse of her affects her perception of others and herself in a negative way.

neil also plays a role in this - max probably thought he was just another one in the list of shitty boyfriends, except when things started getting more serious, she started to get confused, though she was happy when told that she was going to have a family again, because at the time she was still in the mindset that 'family = comfort' because again, she was never told what caused the divorce, which lead to her thinking it was sudden and doesn't alter her view of what 'family' just yet.

she was excited to have a comfort, excited to have someone to talk to other than nate (her best friend), because she still associates family with comfort. but when billy abuses her, at first she's confused on why family would treat family like this. that's when her view of what family means does a 180º.

because they told her that neil and billy were family, she started associating the word 'family' with violence, fear and control. as she grew up, this just got planted more and more deeply within her, all while she still resents susan a little for a) leaving her dad and b) marrying neil and bringing him and his son into their life, a decision which has only lead to fear and pain on max's half.

CONCLUSION

you may be wondering what any of this has to do with max's advice to el. well, dear anon and readers, i am here to tell you.

in this, max isn't seeing mike as how she remembers him, and is thinking back to all those times those shitty boyfriends of her mom did the same thing, not realizing that it's not like that because mike genuinely does care about her and because they're fourteen (yk how when you're young you don't feel young until you look back when you're older? yeah that) it's not that deep yet. max has been thinking and calling the shitty boyfriends pieces of shit for years.

NOTE: max does NOT think mike is a bad person, nor does this mean she hates him. she just thinks what he did is shitty, but she clearly thinks he can make up for it (note how she says 'if he doesn't fix this, doesn't explain himself', which i doubt any of the boyfriends of her mom did). this is NOT a mike hate post, he's one of the characters of All Time, this is just about max's trauma !!!

now, this obviously isn't her talking about lucas (see here why honesty is a vital part of why lucas and max are friends), so max is almost definitely referring to her mom's boyfriends and can't see that mike isn't like those guys, as mentioned above.

this is straight up projection. really, all of max's lines regarding mileven this season are just projection, but this really shows. i cut out the part where she says that if he doesn't explain himself, then el should dump his ass because that, as mentioned above, is because mike is still her friend (if tentative because yk).

she doesn't understand why her mom can't just up and leave neil, and so when she sees el who she probably subconsciously parallels to her mother (in runaway max, her book, she describes her mom as "her personality changing into every guy she meets", so she's scared of that happening to el) and so she unintentionally projects her desire for susan to break up with neil onto el.

she wants susan to break up with neil, but as she can't have that and she has trauma from living in close quarters to an abuser she's dealing with her trauma this way.

NOTE: she is NOT using el only for her own gains. she genuinely thinks this is good advice, if only because of her warped perception of love and her mother's (failed) relationships.

this line is also evidence of max projecting onto el and mike, except this time she's not projecting her mom onto el, but instead herself. we know, via scenes in season two, that billy is extremely controlling of max. he gives her unspoken and spoken rules (unspoken would be don't speak back, don't blame him, etc etc; spoken would be the threat of what he'd do if she 'disobeyed' him). she has been controlled for a good near-half of her life via rules, especially considering we can presume neil also controlled her (although much less than billy did). she's been so roughly handled and controlled using rules, rules which she has to go by to survive in that household, that she literally can't see the tons of rules put on el being for her safety, because that's never how it's been for her.

a tl;dr of that paragraph: rules have been used on max with malicious intent for so long that max cannot recognize that the rules on el are for safety and come from a plce of love.

and a tl;dr for this whole essay: all of max's advice stems from her childhood trauma from her parents' divorce, her mom's boyfriends who were liars, and her abusive stepfamily

hope you liked this extremely long essay.... and aren't too upset when you asked for a page and i made you a book shshjshjhjss

yeah this was very long but i loved talking abt it, slr i've been busy but i've been excited to get this finished.

also... if im gonna be honest most of this was just me looking way too deep into what were actually just jokes abt female humor by the duffers and ik that but also like. its a trauma thing because max's experience of love and men is very different and shapes how she views them so ofc her relationship advice was off

anyways if youve read all that i'm platonically in love with you

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mag 111 - family buisness

i really, really like this episode. i might not like gerry quite as much as other people do, but he's still a great character and he's super interesting

in many ways, he's a pretty tragic guy, isn't he? not even because of his death, because in a way that is one of the more, idk, comforting parts of it? at least he got to die in a way unrelated to the entities that followed him throughout his entire life. though, then gertrude still bound him to it permanentely. he never trusted her, but it's still a sort of betrayal. or at least she proved him right

mary and gertrude are both hypocrites. which is not a bad thing, to be clear. it makes them both into great characters. it just also makes them into not very great people. still, gerry's and gertrude's relationship is so fascinating because even if i do believe they cared about each other, it's nowhere near enough to outweigh the fact that gerry never felt any trust or comfort in her or that she primarily saw him as a tool. and it's not like he has anywhere else to go - this has been his entire life and leaving is just to hard even if he is clearly so fucking tired of it all. even after a mundane death he cannot escape what followed him through life

yeah. i'm kinda getting why people like him so much

i remember being so excited about finally getting a walk-through of the entities! i love world-building, i love lore, i love exposition. the entities are such an interesting concept and i love how flexible they are. a lot of things with these types of supernatural/magical categorization systems end up feeling very simplified and in general pretty meh, but getting this very 'it depends on who you ask' defenition of it all is great. i think the colour metaphor especially helps visualize it all

the fact that the fears is basically just a social construct rather than any inate law of the universe is also great because it allows people to play around with their own definitions of it. i love seeing any sort of alternate classificacation system for them. i in particular like looking at the overlaps and deeper themes of them, and although gerry's explanation is rather quick and simplistic (for time's sake, of course, this is already the show's longest episode) it is a great jumping off point for a deep dive into how the entities really work