#emotionallymanipulative

[joelekm]

7 Signs You're In An Unhealthy Relationship | Spiritual Sense

In this video, delve into the unmistakable signs of an unhealthy relationship, be it with friends, family, co-workers, or bosses. The speaker outlines seven crucial indicators, ranging from a refusal to address issues to the toxic practice of gaslighting. Discover why it's essential to recognize when someone constantly sees the worst in you, lacks empathy, and maintains an air of superiority.

[lucaswarmhotchocolate]

I'm not gonna lie there is nothing worse in my life than not being able to convey to others how fucking ridiculous my mother is. I wouldn't say she's abusive, but by god do I think she is toeing the fucking line like it's an Olympic sport. if I had my way I don't think I would ever see her again for longer than like. 20 minutes at a time. Her moods swing a million times in one minute, she'll be showing me memes one second and then berating me for not ever doing anything or helping out around the house the next. she is allowed to vent to me whenever she wants and if I can't handle it I'm emotionally manipulative, but if I wanna vent to her then I have to let her "fix" my situation for me or I'm just looking for things to get mad at! she will literally become upset when I'm not "reframing things positively" but if she does the exact same fucking thing that's fine. She is a walking conglomeration of contradictions and is basically the personification of a victim complex. I have never said this before and meant it but by god the more time I spend around her the more I think I actually fucking hate her. It's just been so bad recently I've developed a *fear response* to the sound of doors opening and her regular fucking voice. I'm like actually so fucking sick of living when it's around her. I've fantasized of living on my own since middle school but I've never felt so utterly helpless and trapped in this house before as I do right now. She is constantly threatening to take away various things (wifi and electricity mainly) and I never know if she's actually going to follow through or not. she berates my brother and I so much, tells us how we never help her and she can't deal with us on her own! she needs help! and fuck us if her constant complaining about needing help makes us feel like burdens, she doesn't mean it like that, and then she goes around and reposts gentle parenting memes on her instagram. She will send me neurodivergent positivity posts and then freak out when my severe fucking ADHD prevents me from being a regular daughter who can do a job and school and also clean and take care of her brother and also the cats and also take care of my mom herself because oh no, mom's in burnout! she's struggling so hard! but her struggles are inherently more valid than mine and it's not that bad I can do it! and when I inevitable fail to do everything I'm lazy and I take my mom for granted and i should help more! i need to help more! i need to do everything, be a parent and a friend and a sister but most importantly a daughter, so that my mom can send me silly memes about how every eldest daughter is basically a mini mom! and I need to respect mom but also be comfortable around her and also not jump when she yells or cry when she's mad at me because life is so hard for her and nobody respects her at work and YOURE ACTING JUST LIKE YOUR FATHER and oh my GOD, why are you crying? huh? the neighbors are gonna think someone's trying to fucking kill you or something! you're so ungrateful! you're emotionallymanipulative! you're abusing me! oh my god hey look at this funny cat video lmao, you'll love it

[mikumylove]

just #emotionallymanipulated my mom by hugging her when i was sad 😎

[kimberzilla]

You see his pan cute face just before i leave #nicu #emotionallymanipulative #premie #32weeker #kimgarethbb1