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time-to-write-and-suffer · 2 months ago

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Like honestly my main problemo with mainstream kink culture is that like. I'm sorry but you will never convince me skinnyhot cishet girlies being pounded into literal submission by a bigstrong cishet man in a "playful" recreation of extreme patriarchy is subversive. Straight women crying about being "shamed" for liking booktok alphas and reclaiming their sexuality just doesn't move me as an argument for feminism when the shit they write/read is just straight up hetero rapefic. Good for you for getting off but getting off isn't inherently radical or progressive.

Like I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry dude you need to at least fuck him in the ass on the reg for me to care. Like if you're just being a femsub girlbottom then I don't care how reclaimed and empowered you feel and I won't celebrate you for bragging about it.

I won't cheer for you if he spits on you or chokes you or whatever else you're into just because you personally get off to it. I don't care. It's not a power move. Come back when you idk. Put thang (man) on a leash. Release a song about breaking in a male dom like a horse. And then we'll talk subversive.

#gays and lesbs do whatever you want forever #also also my MAIN main problem is the insistence that like this behavior is toootally apolitical and so is whatever you get off to #like we've all been convinced that things are always political and intersectional and society affects the individual #but when it comes to kink it's suddenly ��ummmmm. this has NO implications anywhere ever!!!” it's like. no i don't think so man #same with religion #you can't be like “SYSTEMS OF POWER AND PROPAGANDA” and then be like “umm except if you criticize these things. then you're um. fascist.”#not even criticize but like. discuss #like fine man you can enjoy your maledom fantasies as a straight woman. but when somebody goes 'haha ok. why is this so popular though'#'why this specific kink' the answer shouldn't be WHY ARE DO YOU HATE FEMALE DESIRE!!#excuse me ma'am why are you calling YOUR specific desires #'female' desires. answer quickly #god this is such a minefield cuz i get the importance of kink in queer spaces and all that #and as much as i joke i don't wanna kinkshame cuz everybody has kinks and/or preferences #but like. i'm so tired of extremely normative mainstream things being celebrated like they're subversive!!!#also as mentioned in the replies a lot of the mainstream alphadom stuff isn't even actually kink. it's just parroting that shit #for monetary gain #in a garbled and twisted way #authors who don't have that kink regurgitating it back all scrambled to an ignorant audience #so yeah man i can't see it as subversive if that's the thing that PRINTS YOU MONEY #the thing that you create because it's LITERALLY POPULAR

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