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How do you find out if youre a system?

I am not nearly qualified enough to answer that

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i got a post from tales from systok on my dash, then went to the account because why not read for a little bit, right? i look at the pinned and i see that there are two sibling blogs and i decide to check those out too.

imagine my surprise when i find out i'm already following all 3 of you

PFF thats brilliant actually

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this is more a vent more then anything. I used to be “Endo neutral” (I was super uncomfortable by endos but didnt want to say that) and I said that. We lost a lot of friends due to that reason and I so badly wish I could go back then and tell myself that I should’ve just been honest and said I was anti endo. It meant I couldn’t be honest with people about who I really was. But now I’m trying my best to grow. even then it doesn’t excuse what I did.

to everyone I hurt and if your happening to read this, I’m so sorry.

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We told our ex about us being a (suspected) system. And that went fine. Until we broke up and we suddenly got messages from a anon with information only 2 irl people knew. One of em my sibling and the other my ex. This anon also decided to fake claim us and told us to off ourselves and 'release' our alters??? It was a very weird day

R.. release.... your alters..... ?

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Here's one that's currently ongoing!

Our pinned post on our main blog is an introduction with nothing more than our collective names, our pronouns, and a very basic DNI (which happens to include nontraumagenics).

Apparently, it got falsely reported! Because, now, it's marked as mature content despite having absolutely nothing warranting such!

There are only two people that I personally know who I know have our Tumblr main, and that would be our partner and our friend of 6+ years! So, cool! Great!

Either Tumblrs fucky little automod system decided to target us specifically for unknown reasons, or someone got pissed enough at our DNI to potentially mass flag it!

And, if it was intentional targeting, then the only thing they could flag would be that one post, because our blog is for nothing but reblogging! Great! Awesome! Love to see it.

[It's been weeks and Tumblr still hasn't reviewed it; I am Very Upset.]

Ah yes.. mature content..

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Are you okay with outrageously long submissions? I have a huge story with a lot of details

Go for it!

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When my blog was mainly a system focused blog I posted a intro template that said anyone could use it but endos may not credit, which I thought was a good enough sign (along with a big "ENDOS DNI" in description & pinned) to warn endos not to follow, but maybe not because they still followed with "sysmeds dni" in their description and pinned.

Breaking their own DNI I see.

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I didn’t read the blog name lol, it happened on discord oops, feel free to put that on your syscord blog (still insanity though)

I'm not sure which tale this is referring to </3

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we posted a joke about how we are glad to have memory issues sometimes because it like. the only silver lining to a horrible experience. least we wil forget it/how we felt about it/etc. and someone replied "well actuall you are wrong because forgetting things is horrible and i much rather not blah blah blah"

like thats great for you but i never asked about your experience. i cannot be wrong because rhat is My opinion. i am glad i am able to somewhat cobble together a means of surving. im happy to have something helping me through life. so yea sure systemhood can be misery and pain all u wanr but let me be

like i never said being a system is great all i said was sometimes i know i will forget about a bad day i had and im greatful.

like i know it probably wasnt meant to be taken that way but damn man. wth. i wont be replying to it tho, i'll leave that to a more understanding alter to reply to.

Every system is different. Some systems may find comfort in things other systems despise.

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i used to think we were endogenic because we hung out in pro-endo communities, and i stumbled upon s*phie*nw*nderland (*o, i, o) and liked their pro-endogenic "evidence" posts so i followed them. their posts went from 0 to 100 so fast, at first they were just pro endogenic but then they tried to claim that TRANSRACIAL IS A VALID THING?.? using the same bs "evidence" style from their normal posts. looking back it was a red flag that many people in the communities i hung out in supported s*phie cause like what???

Being pro endo is one thing, but being pro transrace is so much worse wtf

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before we knew we were a system, I (main host) asked a pro Endo community on tumblr what my weird symptoms meant (because I had a dream about being plural last year) and they said “oh you just want to be plural! I suggest willogenically creating your system!” And I just sat there like. Your not helping.

..wow. That's.. really bad advice to give someone.

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Okay, this isn't fully my story but I have both headmates permession to share it. So we have a Negan Smith(The Walking Dead) introject who was originally kinda rude, and we have a Chibs(Sons Of Anarchy introject, and since Negan and Chibs ended up becoming best friends, they are dating now.

Someone was talking to Negan and she then stated: "Your just faking. Negan is a bad person and doesn't care about anyone but himself. Plus, Chibs is straight in the show! They don't even know each other." HUN PLEASE. Negan is source-seperated and sure he used to be mean but Chibs has helped him become nicer. Two, neither Negan are Chibs are their source. Stop treating introjects/fictive/factives like their source, they're their own person.

| Sorry for any spelling mistakes. |

I hate it when people act like introjects are exactly the same as their sources and can't change whatsoever

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said smthn on a blog about not liking octocon + being uncomfortable w/using it and some other anon had this whole spiel then said, "My hot take is, you can be upset about octocon being endo neutral, but.."

like. thanks for the permission???? 😭😭😭 they didnt mean it like that but their enTIRE ask came off as so rude lol

LMFAO?? The entitlement is crazy

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Do we have a sysblr story

So, before we deleted it we ran Anti-Endo-Safe-Space. And when we created the blog we were kinda new to sysblr. And because we thought it was fine, we posted in commonly-ran-endo-tags (think #plural #pluralgang #actuallyplural). We thought it was fine until one day we googled our user

We found the start of a group of people calling for us to be slammed with hate because we were "evil, vile spewing bigots". Aaaaand then we got an influx of death threats, links to shock sites, and being told that since we believe systems are disordered, maybe they should make us MORE disordered among more and more things

So basically because for a little while we posted in endo-friendly tags we got death threats anr just horrible things and until we deleted the blog the other week, we still did

BUT ON THE PLUS SIDE

We found some really good friends through sysblr so not ALL bad happened

Oh hey I remember that blog, we used to follow you.

Jfc, people need to stop sending death threats to other people. You didn't know, and it's so fucked up to treat you that way.

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I am making an endo-free system space blog masterlist; inspired by @plague-hybrid and the one I helped them create.

I will be sending asks to multiple community blogs requesting permission to put them on this list. If you own a community blog or would like me to ask a specific community blog if they're okay with being added, please let me know in the notes!

The blogs can be endo-neutral or anti-endo, it doesn't really matter so long as their community is for traumagenic systems only.

I will reblog this with the full list when it's done! If anyone wants to help, shoot me a DM.

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Still thinking about the guy who called someone I knew "sick" for having alters that hated each other in their source dating. Buddy.. alters aren't their source and either way they just. Dont like each other? Why is that problematic?

HELP WHAT

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can you please start tagging syscourse we really dislike seeing it on our feed when just scrolling disorder tags

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Oh! I wasn't aware we didn't tag it in the past, but yea sure. If anyone has anything they specifically want to see tagged, please pop it in the notes.