thesmolgoblingf

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A lot of feminists act like being a tradwife is whats expected in society, and they're going against that by being career oriented, but really, at this point, it's the other way around. At least for me, it is.

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how ironic is it that housekeeping and childcare cost so much money but when a mom does both she’s “just a stay at home mom”

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Tradlife Discord Server

I have made a tradlife discord server for those 18 years and up.

We are a small community thusfar, but we age-verify everyone who joins. We have many other anti-raid protections in place to keep the trolls out.

It is a SFW server, so anyone looking for some kink roleplay can look elsewhere.

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methinks you are a closeted non-binary lesbian ♥️ hope you find yourself pookie be proud

Me thinks your actually deranged. There is no such thing as non-binary, you're either male or female. And as for the lesbian part, definitely no thank you

[thesmolgoblingf]

Tradlife Discord Server

I have made a tradlife discord server for those 18 years and up.

We are a small community thusfar, but we age-verify everyone who joins. We have many other anti-raid protections in place to keep the trolls out.

It is a SFW server, so anyone looking for some kink roleplay can look elsewhere.

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Thank you @speedylovestarlight and everyone who got me to 250 reblogs!

“You want a dystopian future for all women!”

Firstly, I already know and have expressed that my lifestyle choices are not right for every woman and not every woman is right for the lifestyle I’m choosing.

What is so dystopian about the following?

A loving couple getting married

A safe home

Garden-fresh food

A family unit with strong bonds

Well-educated and happy children

A knowledgeable appreciation of nature

A sense of community

National pride

Escaping “the grind”

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“You want a dystopian future for all women!”

Firstly, I already know and have expressed that my lifestyle choices are not right for every woman and not every woman is right for the lifestyle I’m choosing.

What is so dystopian about the following?

A loving couple getting married

A safe home

Garden-fresh food

A family unit with strong bonds

Well-educated and happy children

A knowledgeable appreciation of nature

A sense of community

National pride

Escaping “the grind”

[thesmolgoblingf]

methinks you are a closeted non-binary lesbian ♥️ hope you find yourself pookie be proud

Me thinks your actually deranged. There is no such thing as non-binary, you're either male or female. And as for the lesbian part, definitely no thank you

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Imagine being so deluded by social media that you try to foist your views on someone else.

If I were to assume the gender and sexuality of anyone in the alphabet crowd, I would be burned at the stake.

This is terminally online hypocrisy.

methinks you are a closeted non-binary lesbian ♥️ hope you find yourself pookie be proud

Me thinks your actually deranged. There is no such thing as non-binary, you're either male or female. And as for the lesbian part, definitely no thank you

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Am I the only one who goes through my followers list and blocks the porn bots?

I don’t like having artificially inflated numbers, nor do I like having my account associated with such accounts.

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My favorite tradwife deactivated, which is sad. She was kind, her content was relatable, and she wasn’t a fetish account.

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I can only imagine OP’s thought process went something like this:

“Those women want happy, healthy, functional relationships in which they are loved and protected… something must be wrong with them!”

Do you think a lot of consumers of tradwife / tradfem content are people who had broken homes / dysfunctional families? Like they never knew what a healthy domestic dynamic looked like, saw twenty something influencers cosplay as models in 50's Vacuum cleaner advertisements and thought "That must be what a real, godly marriage looks like."

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I would love to love electric vehicles, but I keep seeing videos of people paying more than a tank of gas costs to charge up their vehicle to have half the range of my 2005 Pontiac Grand Prix has.

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If you’re going to try to come for me for my opinions on the public school system, at least use the right form of “your”. 💕

One of the main arguments of the pushback I’m getting on deciding to homeschool my children just reminds me of this tweet:

There are so many people telling me that my children won’t know how to read, write, or do math. It’s like they forget that I know how to read, write, and do math.

Teachers aren’t super humans who are blessed by the gods to impart knowledge. Anyone can teach, it’s not something you need a degree and a license to do.

Think about how many jobs you’ve had where someone had to train you how to do something but they weren’t a teacher.

Think of all the times you had to tinker and figure something out for yourself with little to no guidance, you were literally teaching yourself.

And wasn’t there a news story that broke about how students won’t need to demonstrate proficiency in math, reading, and writing to graduate? Oh, that’s right, there was.

What’s the point of sending my children to school then, if they won’t have to display these three vital skills to get a diploma? Where’s the basis of your argument if this is the direction schools are heading?

Public and private schools serve as 13-15 years of indoctrination to sell college burnout, deprive students of critical thinking, training obedient worker drones, and creating mindless consumers. My children will have no part in that.

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It’s very funny how people fall for stereotypes as fact. It’s wild to see the assumptions people draw about me based on what little they know about me.

Because I aspire to be a stay at home mom and a homemaker here are some things people have (incorrectly) assumed about me in no particular order:

I’m anti-vax

I’m against modern medicine

I’m a Republican

I’m a descendant of the passengers of the Mayflower

I’m Christian/Catholic

I’m straight

I’m neurotypical

I’m rich, or at the very least, middle-class

I’m an anarchist

I don’t believe in sunscreen

I think the moon landing was fake

I’m a Holocaust-denier

I’m Jewish

I like football

I have parents

I am violent

I am weak

I am a misogynist

I am a white-supremacist

I was homeschooled

I don’t have a degree

I’m a racist

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I think raising boys with a disgust for their own maleness is a really, really terrible idea.

So many women say they can't find a good guy, and it's like ?? Are we surprised. We made them hate themselves, destroyed their role models, and told them pretty much everything that makes them distinctly male is actually a huge problem.

How gross are we that we allowed this to happen? How detestable and disdainful a thing. Shame on us.

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Hi I have a question I hope you don't mind:)

So I recently realized that I want to be a housewife, but I live in a country that is really "influenced" by radical feminism meaning everything that has to do with femininity or being a housewife is looked down at or your being declared for "wanting to give up your rights". So my question is where do I find men that actually want to be a provider and don't fetishize it.

Hey! That's definitely how it feels in the US sometimes too. I feel like I got extremely lucky with my husband so I'm not sure exactly how helpful I'll be lol.

I tell women in the US to give military men a chance lol. In my experience the majority of them just want someone who will take care of them and put of with the insanity of their job. My husband has said that a lot of his coworkers are a little jealous of everything I do for him. They want to be able to come home to someone who will help calm their anxiety and not make them stress about a ton of things on top of work. They want stability.

I'm from a super rural area where farm wives are pretty common, so if you're not afraid of getting dirty and doing some hard labor sometimes, farmers are generally good guys too. Depending on the size of the farm they have/work on they might not be able to afford for you to stay home. A part time work from home job or something with really minimal hours outside the home might be necessary.

Blue collar men in general tend to just want a woman who will put up with their job and take care of their home so they can just focus on family when they're not working. Depending on what they do, their jobs are also often well paying enough to support a housewife, but you may need to work a few hours to help.

Finding out if there are certain professions in your country where housewives/sahms tend to be popular can be a place to start, but you can make it work in almost any career field if you're willing to be frugal, learn how to budget, and live within your means. Pay is also often less when you first start a job, so just because they can't afford for you to stay home right now, that doesn't mean they never will.

I'm sorry this is kinda all over the place (I'm still going through newborn sleep depravation a bit lol), but I think a lot of men want to provide for their family. There are probably a lot of guys who don't think they'd want a housewife (my husband didn't at first), but once they have you at home taking care of things they'll never want you to work again lol. Be picky with who you choose. He needs to have respect for the work you do, and be willing to step up and help when you need it. I hope some part of this is helpful.