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I’m so BORED… I don’t wanna passively do something like read or watch I WANT TO DO SOMETHINH 😭😭😭

If anyone knows games or other activities u can do w only one hand lmk (shoulder surgery arm sling moment)

I can’t even draw or sit at a table this big ol sling gets in the way 😭😭😭

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conspiracy theory

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big fan of a character seeking comfort in the arms of the thing that’s going to kill them. and i am psycologicalily normal too.

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Surgery done!! I did it :3

This was my first time but I was very brave KFJFJF

My shoulder surgery is today… 😢😭 everyone wish me luck 👏✨

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My shoulder surgery is today… 😢😭 everyone wish me luck 👏✨

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reblog to remind prev they're not a bother and their presence is wanted <3

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*shaking, covered in blood and dirt, dark circles under my wide and crazed eyes* i can be normal about the media i like

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welcome... to Nothing Park

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^ shoutout citizens of this nation

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the last and least important rule of acting is to be yourself

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I think it's important to understand that discussions around amatonormativity usually aren't (or shouldn't be) asking people to see their individual romantic relationships as less important, because wanting a long-term monogamous romantic relationship isn't inherently amatonormative.

Amatonormativity is about the bigger picture of how society treats romantic relationships. It's about placing romantic relationships at the top of a hierarchy and then claiming that most meaningful close and intimate connections to other humans are only accessable through them. Amatonormativity is the assumption that everyone wants to end up in a monogamous long-term romantic relationship and then decrying anyone who wants a relationship that doesn't fit into that very narrow category.

Every individual person has to figure out for themselves which types of relationships they desire or don't desire and how much importance they want to give them. Amatonormativity criticizes the fact that that's not a question you are normally asked in the first place, because the answer is always assumed.

I think if in the end someone decides to prioritize their romantic relationships, they will still have defied amatonormativity simply through consciously making that decision, and through not assuming the same for everyone else. To me, dismantling amatonormativity is about deconstructing the assumed hierarchy of relationships, giving people the chance to actually think about what they truly want, and opening the pathways for those possibilities.

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any kind of burger counts if you consider it a burger

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One week until my shoulder surgery… 🥲

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stuff sucks bad sometimes but at least theres trans women out there