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hardest thing to learn during recovery is….. some of your misery is your own fault. you have to actively choose to stop wallowing in your own pain & start to recover. that means stop being self deprecating, start taking care of yourself, start eating healthy, start taking your hygiene seriously, even if it’s hard. & it is hard! but you must.

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Jogging around the shinobi nations with Take on Me

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Daily Dose of Levi ♡ ➟ Day 10 / ? ❤️

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Chloe and Nadine progress to more advanced high-fives.

(icymi in the game, Chloe occasionally calls Nadine ‘China’ as a slang term for ‘mate’ - I guess because just ‘mate’ would be too Australian?)

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never change, boys

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jesus christ

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When it’s time to pet your cat

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My advice to people, but especially kids, who are invested in celebrities, be they actors, musicians, bloggers, youtubers, authors, whatever, is to keep your distance. No matter how happy their content makes you, no matter how strong the pull of a special interest/hyperfixation/obsession might be, it’s important to step back every so often.

Do you find yourself following them on all forms of social media? Do you follow their friends and family, who might not even make content themselves? Do you research their lives? Step back. Just because they are famous doesn’t mean it’s okay to engage in stalking behavior.

Do you find yourself getting anxious if you miss a video, or they upload off schedule? Step back. I know they can help you through dark times but you can’t rely on them all the time.

Would you be devastated if they turned out to be a not-so-nice person? Step back. You can only trust them as much as you trust any stranger. Don’t see yourself up to be shattered if they fall off that pedestal you put them on.

No matter how much somebody interacts with their audience, the relationship is still parasocial. Just keep that in mind. Don’t put all your trust in a stranger. It’s okay to enjoy these people and their content, but keep your distance and step back.

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tired butler voice:

My balls are bursting wth anticipation, sir.

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that cliff scene tho

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Louder for the people in the back 🗣🗣

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Kylo Ren in the teaser trailer for Star Wars: The Rise Of Skywalker.

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Sometimes it just doesn’t work out.

It wasn’t anything you did.

There’s nothing you could’ve done.

And it doesn’t say anything about you.

When life goes bad, it doesn’t mean you are.

No matter what life throws at you, you are more.