anytime i speak up about things that bother me, it gets taken the wrong way or construed in a way im doing it for drama. no, i just want things that bother me to stop. im keeping boundaries.
please stop sending me your crazy parasocial takes on my friends in an attempt to sway me into "stopping it". you do not know these people, you will never know these people. thank you!
i am not these peoples mothers, do not send me asks like this
i get these every single day, i do not care for people analysing my friends and their friendships.
i am not their parents. stop being parasocial. stop sending me stuff like this on the daily about my friends. please.
i am not these peoples mothers, do not send me asks like this
i get these every single day, i do not care for people analysing my friends and their friendships.
i am not their parents. stop being parasocial. stop sending me stuff like this on the daily about my friends. please.
one of my favourite scenes from night in the woods is the proximity scene and i know thats obvious considering its usually the one scene i highlight whenever i talk about night in the woods, but the reason its my favourite is due to the fact you get to see bea and maes relationship from a completely different side. mae begging bea to explain what went wrong with the pair, bea not having the energy and just being completely done, explaining that she was ultimately jealous of everything mae had, and because of the fact bea and mae lost their contact due to.. well.. not being in each others proximity anymore, they both lost sight of each other and what the other one was up to so bea hating mae for throwing everything away because bea was under the impression "college was just too hard" when in reality it was way, way more than that with maes fragile mental state on the line but bea just did not know any of this. the reason i like it is it boils down to the factor we do not know what is going on in someones life, ever, even when they tell us there is still things they will purposely leave out because of factors or reasons they have already weighed out before speaking. its a beautiful, heart breaking scene that just basically shows that we, as humans, have not met even a fraction of the people who love us, and right now if you feel like you havent felt like youve met the people who are forever going to be in your life, maybe its because you are stuck in one place, and when you get the chance to move out of where you are, or leave the current "proximity," youll meet people new and people who arent bound to you by the factor of distance. its just a beautiful scene.
no im pretty normal about it and its a pretty okay game bu- do you think we'd be friends if we werent, like, stuck in the same town like we were stuck together in girl scouts? like uh, is this just.. whats the word?.. proximity?... yeah. i dont know. i honestly dont. my entire LIFE feels like running after something that just keeps moving into the distance while i stay in the same place. and i guess proximity counts for a lot right now.
finally have time for the fireball friday vod and i just wanted to say the transparency joke where you replied your on the opacity spectrum fucking sent me i’m literally pissing myself laughing