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girls be like “i know a place” and then take you here

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Richie: If anything goes wrong, fake a heart attack.

Eddie: What are we thinking? The classic angina? Or something sexier, like a myocardial infarction?

Richie: Just drop on the ground and wiggle.

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the internal turmoil of wanting to smoke for the sex appeal but not wanting ur friends to be mad at you for smoking 

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Poll because I'm curious:

I ask for the "roots" because of this idea that in some "cultures" families are very big, and in other "cultures" they tend to be small, and I want to know to what degree this applies to cousins 😄

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"T makes you a mansplainer" so true! i never shut up about how much i love men and being a man. like have you seen men? especially trans and intersex men? they're literally the meaning of life. some of the most beautiful beings on this planet. i could listen to them talk forever. what? you meant to insult me? oh well haha that sounds like a you problem. anyway i love testosterone. poison? more like self love potion. i love me.

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"If we removed all social expectations for men and women that give people insecurities and labels and gender roles there would be less trans people in the world!"

And what if there were more? What then?

Listen I know it's usually well-meaning allies saying that, but it's really not as nice as you think it is when you imply we exist because of oppressive gender roles, and you hope for a world where there'd be less of us.

(Also it makes you sound like a TERF)

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Have I mentioned how much I love Nick Offerman?

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“Democracy dies in darkness”

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hey friends how the FUCK do y’all date as pre-transition transmasc people.

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“don’t go on testosterone, you’ll get hairy and big” so you’re telling me I’m going to be a bear. why are you threatening me with a good fucking time. 

“what if you start balding!” there are so many hot balding/bald people. why would I care. 

“you’ll get acne” yeah and? I currently deal with acne, and I don’t think that acne makes a person gross. 

“your voice will change!” yup I’m depending on that

“what about your fertility?” my fertility is my business, not yours.

like all these concerns I have already been through with several doctors. very unoriginal. also cis guys deal with these things too. have you considered men are faced with stupid societal and beauty standards, that fact will not deter me from pursuing a more “male” body. 

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im so tired of all this hatred. when will kindness make its way to me?

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Fatphobia in the gay men's community is uh. Rampant and i don't think people really address it that much because thin people don't think it's an issue and fat people are never taken seriously (often because they're fat!!).

Y'all will call any skinny buff man with a bit of chest hair a bear, then label the actual bears as "creepy" or "ugly" if you don't just flat-out ignore their existence.

Y'all will be like "i love men's tits" until a fat man exists and suddenly it's all "we can't promote such an unhealthy lifestyle, because being unhealthy is bad" pretending to care about us while simultaneously calling us undesirable and linking moral weight to physical weight.

Apparently it's completely impossible to show support for fat gay men without being fetishistic about it and i'm fucking sick of it. Do better. i'm not holding you at gunpoint telling you to find every fat man hot. i'm asking you sternly to treat us like human beings. It's not that hard.

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my blood looks more beautiful than yours it's a more luscious red

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fat trans men i need y’all to know:

you can get top surgery while fat

you can go on hormones while fat

you can be in a loving relationship while fat

you can pass while fat

you can be worthy of love and respect and space while fat

you can have a respectful relationship with your body while fat

you can be trans while being fat!!!

being fat will not stop you from being trans!!!

i love you!!!