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Are you still active on here Christal?

I'm sorry I haven't been updating. School started again and I have sorta let Tumblr go. I'll get back to it soon.

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I would forever be your slave and slave, even the smallest of your hairs, my mistress. If economically I could travel to you, I would kneel before your Imperial Presence, I would prostrate myself before your Royal Feet, and I would be a slave for / forever, even the smallest of your hairs; Oh divine Goddess. Many times I imagined girls, women, feminine beings (including gimbots, fembots, operated and / or natural transsexuals, dolls, aliens, / s say they have the shape of a woman)), as all-powerful beings, even in the smallest of their hairs. Magical powers, extraordinary strength, invulnerability all kinds of imaginable and unimaginable powers. Capable of becoming gigantic, of moving each and every one of their hair, as if to bind, protect and / or enslave all the infinite

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OMG!  This was TOTALLY ME a few years ago! I was such a dork and into my skateboard and skater friends when I was 13-14. This is pretty much what my silly parents (who I love SO much) were telling me at the time. I was transitioning and Estrogen was added to the puberty blockers I had been on for the first two years (I started male-puberty blockers at 11), so I literally changed from being a Skater Boy to a Skater Girl that summer. BIG changes as female puberty kicked in! 

Fortunately, maturity also kicked in since then and I’m no longer such a little-kid/dork. I like to think that I’ve acquired some refinement in the areas of presentation, class, street smarts, and sexuality... (but maybe you should be the judge - teehee).

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Mmmmmmm.....  so hot!@!! The only thing hotter than two chicks kissing is two trans chicks kissing. teehee!  If you are a really cute tgirl like me, please contact me? I get lonely sometimes, and I don’t like going out and seeing only local who I don’t already know. 

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TRY IT – YOU’LL LIKE IT!

If you’ve been thinking about transitioning for a long time, and you still aren’t 100% sure… JUST DO IT! I promise that you will know very quickly if it is right for you. If you try hormones for a few months and it feels right and you feel better about yourself; then transitioning is what you must do. 

If estrogen makes you feel distinctly better, then you are definitely a female and you need female hormones for your mental and physical health.

If it feels wrong, then now you know and you can stop and put it out of your mind. There will be no harm done. You may have puffy nipples after a few months, but that will disappear within a few weeks after you stop HRT. Note: Staying on estrogen therapy longer than a few months might cause breast buds and permanent tissue growth. 

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“...but it’s better than living in hell.”   It’s 100% better than “…living in hell!” Contact me if you’re a trans teen and have questions! I’m here for you and will try to help. I’m 18 and have been transitioning with HRT for 7 years. Two years of blockers at age 11, then I added Estrogen at 13, similar to natal female hormone timing and progression, and I went through a natural female maturation process. 

Everything that my friends – girls my age – were developing, I was developing too. Hips, breasts, thighs – I started becoming a woman at 13-14 – and I’m still developing (for example, my boobs are still growing (and they’re already a C-cup). I’m incredibly happy with my decision and would never have wanted my life to go any other way! Trans girls rule! - Christal M.

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Something a little different from boy-be-girl...

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MY DISCOVERY OF THE TRANS-FEMININE

In the years before I transitioned from a male to a female, beginning at age 13, I never knew that transitioning was possible. I knew that I was feminine from the time I could think about it. I couldn’t understand why I felt like I should be a girl, but because of some cosmic mix-up, I was instead a boy. Then at about 8 years old, I ran across “RuPaul’s Drag Race” on TV, and I got a glimpse of the fact that some men, at least sometimes, enjoyed dressing and presenting as women.

But it seemed that few of them ever intended to ‘pass’ and live as women. In fact, many of them were not attractive at all. I mean, they were Drag Queens, after all, and they were putting on a parody-entertainment that played upon the femininity of gay men.

I have nothing against drag queens – that’s their thing, but it’s entirely different than MTF transitioning. Drag queens are usually MEN in women’s clothing – not men who have actually *transitioned* to become women (although I’m aware of a few beautiful trans women who started as drag queens in their questioning phase).

I was actually very depressed when I discovered drag queens as a kid! It meant that I definitely had to suffer in some ‘dude’s’ body for the rest of my life. There was no hope of changing into what I felt inside… I also believed that I was utterly alone in the world. Certainly, no one else could have felt the same way I did… I thought.

But then, at about age 11 or 12, I discovered transsexual internet porn, and I was immediately exhilarated by pictures showing hot women – who somehow used to be men. I mean, they had peens and balls! Not because they turned me on, but because they made me realize the possibilities! When I found out what was possible, I IMMEDIATELY began planning, gathering information, and actually starting my transition (letting my hair grow and getting laser for my peach fuzz). Immediately, as in THAT DAY. 

I learned that it was genuinely possible for a boy to actually BECOME a girl – appearing imperceptibly like a beautiful girl in every way, with soft skin and feminine curves – after they had gone through HRT transition for a number of years (I think it usually takes five years minimum to be fully feminine).

So, besides being lewd entertainment, trans porn serves a practical purpose – that is, making some young woman trapped in a man’s body (like me) realize that it is possible to BE the opposite gender – and be both genuinely attractive and feminine. They can be themselves – with no one being aware that they were born as anything other than female. Guys (this blog addresses MTF only) don’t have to be trapped in the gender with which they were born if it causes them psychological damage (and IT REALLY CAN, I know firsthand), and they don’t have to be drag queens, either!

As we enter the 21st Century, you can actually become, well…  become yourself! The process to do so safely and successfully is becoming widely known. That is a profound and amazing development enabled by science. And best of all – Transgender individual is in the process of becoming widely accepted. Isn’t life wonderful! – Christal M.

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Oh my Gawd, do I love boys checking me out !!!!  Last night I went roller-skating with a group of my girlfriends in the next town over.  I wore a really short, red miniskirt with a cute, white, crop-top sweater, and my hair in a ponytail like the girl in this picture. All the boys were staring at me all night long as I skated! Throughout the night, I had three cute new guys trying to pick me up. What was so incredible was that when I told each of them I was trans, none of them had a problem with it. They were all still interested, and I made out with the cutest one for 20 minutes before the rink’s closing! It was steaming hot!

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I love being the GIRL I am now!  Highly recommended!

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What are you waiting for????

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Dream realized! How about you? Have you started your gender journey yet???

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Such a beautiful couple. Can you feel the love?

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Seeds of love ❤

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OMG, these questions can temporarily kill the soul. But I just realized that since I changed locations and schools following my transition and I’m pretty stealth-mode, I have avoided them. Yaa

10 questions to never ask a transgender person by Laura Jane Grace

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OMG! This meme is right on the nose of what I’ve been thinking so much lately. I avoid all mass-media (and definitely not the Banality Box) if it includes public commentary and particularly talk about politics. The world has gotten so tiresome and mean-spirited, particularly the buffoon who we made the representative of our country to the world. I’m almost ashamed to say I’m American when traveling.

Stay soft!

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QUICK RESOURCE GUIDE FOR THE LGBT COMMUNITY

Some resources are good for everyone

Anxiety

• http://www.adaa.org/ • http://youth.anxietybc.com/ • http://www.helpguide.org/topics/anxiety.htm

Asexuality

• http://www.asexuality.org • http://www.asexualawarenessweek.com

Bisexuality

• http://www.biresource.net/bisexualyouth.shtml • http://www.bisexual.org • http://www.pflagcentralcoastchapter.net/uploads/BisexualityResourcePacket.pdf • http://queerdictionary.tumblr.com/

Coming Out

• http://www.thetrevorproject.org/section/YOU • http://www.hrc.org/resources/entry/resource-guide-to-coming-out • http://amplifyyourvoice.org/youthresource/youthresource-comingout • GLBT National Youth Talkline: 1-800-246-PRIDE (7743)

Depression

• http://www.helpguide.org/mental/depression_teen_teenagers.htm • http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/depression.html • http://us.reachout.com

Eating Disorders

• http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/find-help-support • http://www.helpguide.org/mental/eating_disorder_treatment.htm • http://www.eatingdisordersanonymous.org/

Family and Friends

• http://theparentsproject.com/home/ • http://community.pflag.org/ • https://www.genderspectrum.org/

Gay and Lesbian

• http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=730&Itemid=336 • http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=726&Itemid=516 • http://www.pflag.org/fileadmin/user_upload/Publications/Be_Yourself.pdf

Healthy Relationships

• http://www.scarleteen.com/article/relationships • http://www.breakthecycle.org/learn-about-dating-violence • http://www.thehotline.org/ • http://www.asexuality.org/home/relationship.html • https://rainn.org/ or call 1-800-656-HOPE

Homelessness

• http://www.ourtruecolors.org/ • http://fortytonone.org/ • http://nationalhomeless.org/ • http://www.aliforneycenter.org/

I Have A Crush

• http://us.reachout.com/facts/factsheet/do-i-want-a-relationship • http://us.reachout.com/facts/factsheet/maintaining-a-happy-relationship • http://gayteens.about.com/od/crushes/

In School

• http://www.stopbullying.gov/ • http://www.glsen.org/ • http://www.gsanetwork.org/ • http://www.campuspride.org/ • http://www.athleteally.org/

International

• http://suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html • http://www.befrienders.org/ • http://iglhrc.org/ • http://ilga.org/ • http://www.iglyo.com/ • http://transactivists.org/ • http://www.oraminternational.org/ • https://www.nomorefearfoundation.org/faq/

Mental Health

• http://www.nami.org/ • http://www.reclaim-lgbtyouth.org/ • http://www.aglp.org

Out and Proud

• http://www.glbtnearme.org/ • http://www.outloudradio.org/ • http://www.transadvocate.com • http://www.genderfork.com

LGBTQ and Religion

• http://www.hrc.org/topics/religion-faith • http://www.pflag.org/fileadmin/user_upload/Publications/Faith_Families.pdf • http://www.transfaithonline.org/ • http://www.religionfacts.com/homosexuality/index.htm • http://www.religiousinstitute.org/lgbt-equality/

Christianity-specific

• http://believeoutloud.com/ • http://www.gaychristian.net/ • http://www.gaychurch.org/ • http://www.welcomingresources.org/

Islam-specific

• http://www.muslimalliance.org/ • http://www.imaan.org.uk/ • http://theinnercircle.org.za/ • http://mpvusa.org/ • http://www.well.com/user/queerjhd/

Judaism-specific

• http://www.keshetonline.org/ • http://www.nehirim.org/ • http://www.jqinternational.org/resources/jewish-lgbt-organizations/

Self-Injury

• http://www.helpguide.org/mental/self_injury.htm • http://www.siriusproject.org/alternatives.htm • http://everyoneisgay.com/self-harm/ • http://www.safe-alternatives.com

Sexual Health

• http://www.plannedparenthood.org/ • http://www.scarleteen.com/ • http://www.sexetc.org/ • http://www.aids.gov/ • http://youngwomenshealth.org/ • http://www.youngmenshealthsite.org/ • http://cdn0.genderedintelligence.co.uk/2012/11/17/17-14-04-GI-sexual-health-booklet.pdf • National Abortion Federation Hotline: 1-800-772-9100

Suicide

• http://www.afsp.org/ • http://www.save.org/ • http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ • http://www.befrienders.org/

Substance Abuse

• http://www.samhsa.gov/ • http://www.drugabuse.gov/ • http://www.ihra.net/what-is-harm-reduction

TRANS* AND GENDER  IDENTITY

Gender Identity

• http://genderqueerid.com/ • https://www.genderspectrum.org/ • http://www.thegenderbook.com/

Intersex

• http://inter-actyouth.tumblr.com/ • http://oiiinternational.com/ • http://www.apa.org/topics/intersx.html#whatdoes

Trans*

• http://transstudent.tumblr.com/ • http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=731&Itemid=177 • http://www.imatyfa.org/ • http://www.wpath.org/

PLEASE REBLOG

source: The Trevor Project