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I have this big goal in my life, and because of this I care so much about what work will I take in the near future. This big goal I'm referring above is "to live a life with no regrets." It's quite big but with God all things are possible.

I'm at the age of 18 but it's like I'm still not capable of doing things alone, all of my decisions are lame, there's a lot of mistakes, mistakes are part of our lives but it's not good to just tolerate it. these are the reasons why I can't decide effectively I still don't trust myself. And I know if I stay like this and at the same time still eager to achieve that goal I can't conquer anything. Like what I said above it's really hard for. Me to decide but now I need to move forward. I decided to reverse this mindset, I need to grow, I need to trust my self, I need to think logically. Throwing those words really challenge myself but I don't want to hesitate anymore knowing that this decision can really help me because "if I don't take risk, I'll never know the answer."

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#Day 4 (4th grading)

#Grow&trust

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They said as a daughter it is our obligation to help our parents but they don't know that in order to help them wholeheartedly we need to love them first. In my case I really care about my family, they are the treasure that I don't want others to mess up because they are reason why we grow righteous, we're happy because they care about us, we respect people because they thought us, we have moral because they discipline us for our own good. But if the parents is the complete opposite of these then that will reflect really bad to the child. In this world we need home and for me home is not a house or establishments but it is our family. Status or problems are not valid reasons to mishandled the child because at the very start it is the parents duty to guide them onto the right path.

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#Day 3 (4th grading)

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In a society we have different goals, ranks, position and traits but we are common in one obligation and that is to help each other as a human being. God want us to follow him but in order to follow God we need to treat each other as friends. We can't achieve something big or small without teachers, without others. All we see right now like our phone, books, foods and establishments are someone's work. Look at yourself in the mirror and remember what people do to you to become beautiful, successful and healthy, it's your family, friends and strangers made you like that. Be thankful to others even they treat you wrong because you can acquire something beneficial if you reflect upward. What ever the circumstances without people, we are nothing.

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#Day2 (4th Grading)

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"Love is not a game that children play. "

-Till I met you by Leah Salonga

Love is special to anyone. In my own words love is a medicine, it can heal pain, worries, hatred and anxiety. Showing love means everything to someone it can save someone's life and even nation. Our world is already in hazardous and dangerous state, there is war in some places, hatred and crab mentality is everywhere. However there's only one can save as from all of those and that  is LOVE. Love is not only for couples, for family or in a certain group but love is for everyone, and all of us deserve it. If you love a person truly then it can turn into kindness, happiness, hospitality, humanity, peace, faith, generosity and all the good things. If love vanished in all of us? What else can save us from the bad things? I guess there is none. Love is not a crime for you to avoid, we can save lives if we love truly.

"It's not a bad thing to love each other in fact it can give us peace and hope. "

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Our mind manipulates us all, it's hard to fight challenges if we're living the life full of what ifs, too much doubt, too much fear to take another steps towards fulfillment. It's okay to feel miserable sometimes because we cannot avoid that especially if where frustrated and down but please don't stay in that way forever, find answers! Find yourself, find your happiness, find that missing piece in you because that's what it should be. Life is like that, problems are package in our lives and we can't deny it.

My friend. We can be much better than this present us, don't be scared to step forward and take risk because there is something surprising blessings and joyfulness waiting after your sorrow. "It's okay to not be okay," that's what they said and it is actually true. You can't find something exciting or surprising without experiencing problems, stress or challenges, problems are blessings in disguise if we live the positive side of it.

Life is always forward my friend so let's stand up and forget the negative past and move on with willingness. ❤️

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#Grade 12STEM 11

#Day 6

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No body wants stress. Stress can cause great damage to ourselves, both mind and body. Stress is like a treasure hunting, you need to solve the problems first to have the treasure or the reward. If we don't fight stress we will suffer and it'll become anxiety however if we fight stress we will suffer but only in a short period of time and at the end we earn a treasure, a treasure that makes us better, a treasure we deserve. It's a choice for you to decide. But I hope that no one will choose the negative side because I truly believed that there's a solution to any problems, you just have to find it.

If we're battling against stress we don't have any choice but to fight. If we give up then we will fall, but if we fight we will prosper.

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#Grade 12STEM11

#Day 5

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Challenges is normal and inevitable, those who doesn't know how to deal with challenges call this as a problem and remains like that forever. But those people who know how to deal with challenges call this as a blessings. Challenges can be either hard and mild but no matter what happens you need to find the positive side of each challenges and save yourself from failing. If you exercise that kind of mindset you will become a better version of yourself. You see? Problems is always a challenge but challenges is not always a problem. Why? Because we can avoid problems if we are just willing to fight it back seriously and in a good way.

Remember that: "Night is so dark and negative. Without the moon and stars that shines so bright, we cannot see its beauty ."

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#Grade 12STEM 11

#Day 4

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We cannot stop our selves in becoming adults that's why it is our duty to adjust and develop ourselves for change just to fit in in this world. Things are going to be complicated because adolescence is when we seek answers to our questions, curiosity occurs and the truth will always matter. We establish goals and plans for our future, we are becoming mature and we start to value things in this stage.

Adolescence is like an adventure. Step by step, little by little we are changing, we expand our thoughts, we need peers to flourish and this level is where we discover anything and learn new things. This stage is exciting yet exhausting, But if we just put our developing selves in to the positive light then what we've been through and what we've been risking will be all worth it, someday.

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#Grade 12STEM 11

#Day 3

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We cannot conclude anything without understanding others. We cannot achieve our goals and desire without the help of others. Anyone might found this inadmissible but we are truly dependent even if we say we are tough. "We cannot live without each other's care, love, work and help. " And for me, this is exactly the definition of life and I also believe that communication is the only way to survive.

-Good night. 🌃

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#Grade 12STEM 11

#Day 2

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Life is not easy to handle. In order to be contented and have a peaceful life we undergo our selves through process, we need bases, comparison and we need our critical thinking to obtain the life of serenity. (most of us wants that) But it doesn't mean all of your life will be going to be like that up until the end, of course not! Once you know how to control and maintain your mindset then that is the biggest achievement you will ever have.

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#Grade 12STEM 11

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