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I will be what you want me to be

There will be a few more posts that do not contain porn & then I will cease posting on this Tumblr account.

The blog will remain until November 1st

Read the post if you like. My hope is that you do.

I am writing this on my computer but will edit it afterwards to include some photos of me from my phone.

This is a long one but it is a goodbye and they are never easy. I cannot begin to express my thanks to every person who has followed me over the past 5 years. I have shared so much of myself here. Gained and lost friendships. Gained insight into myself and others. Empowered myself by helping others and learned a great deal from all of you. There are 14k+ of you which is difficult to wrap my head around. I hope that I have provided you with something positive in your life. I hope that I have made the smallest difference.

I want you to know I read each and every message in my inbox and it continuously warms my heart. If I responded to all then this blog would be a continuous stream of asks unfortunately. However, I am going to try and respond privately to much of what is backlogged in my inbox over the next two weeks.

If you plan on reading this then read it all. I also have a favour to ask of you & I hope you can do do so, it takes an very little effort and would mean a lot to me, an incredibly inexpensive investment so to speak. I will also share the FIndom component to Locktober for those who want it.

Safe, Sane, Consensual. The three rules of the kink community.

Focus on creating mutually reciprocal relationships, especially when the relationship is heavy with utilizing power dynamics for pleasure. Subs and Dom(me)s please each other in different ways. That is a personal rule of mine to cultivate healthy relationships. It ensures no one person is manipulating another.

Always respect personal boundaries. Remain discreet. Relationships, especially heavy laden with kink, must be built on a foundation of deep trust, pure honesty and complete open and transparent communication. This ensures everyone is respected. It ensures you do not accidentally cross boundaries. It ensures you check in with your partner & do not place them in uncomfortable situations.

Follow these rules in all aspects of life & generally speaking it helps you feel confidant in the fact that you remain grounded, objective, respectful, assertive, intuitive, compassionate & accepting.

To think this way, that other people are deserving of everything I explained leads you to take actions that support your thinking, which transform into habits which eventually change your core behaviour. As human beings we are afforded that fluidity. The ability to take who we are and level up. Be the best version of ourselves we can be.

All of those character traits I just shared, the thoughts and actions that lead to building them, they encompass the model archetypes of what are called the divine masculine and the divine feminine. Both of them. If you want balance in life seek them both.

I am not perfect but this is the script I follow to not only ensure that I can do right by others but also so that I do right by myself and hopefully if I am fortunate then I can inspire others to help themselves in the same way.

Now I need to share why I am leaving.

I am exhausted. I am weary. I believe another outlet would assist me in leveling up, in becoming a better version of myself. There are too many opportunistic, jealous, petty, manipulative "Goddesses" on Tumblr now and what they get away with makes me sick.

I normally hate airing dirty laundry in public so I will restrict many details of the last straw that I have had. Buckle up, this is a wild one. I call this a last straw because it has happened many times in the past with other women. Now I feel I don't need to place myself in the breeding grounds of it

A "Goddess" who became jealous of a former sub of mine decided to gaslight her. This former sub and her partner who had wanted to sub to me, asked me to be a cuckcake while she could be a cuckquean and I developed incredibly close relationships with these women, this other Goddess was offended she wasn't chosen.

She blamed my former sub for making the wrong decision. She tried to interfere in the relationship I had with the partner of my former sub, one that had become incredibly close and deeply emotional. She pressured her to do things that would contravene boundaries of our relationship.

This "Goddess" had it in for me. This began years ago and I wasn't aware of her gaslighting my friend until recently and I wasn't aware of a grudge she has been holding against me either. However, it has spread to other play partners I have had over the years unbeknownst to me.

Quite recently she began grilling a woman who was subbing to me, a mutual play partner we had online, one who has an actual Dom in real life. She wanted to know many details about me and my life. This occurred without my knowledge until recently this mutual play partner showed me a screenshot of this "Goddess" pressuring her to cease contact with me. She was angered by the fact that the sub tagged me in some posts used my name in hashtags. She blocked her for not ceasing contact with me. She also blocked me.

Upon hearing about all of this I created a few posts. You have all seen them and were unaware that the true intent was to send a message. A subtle one which asked her to stop interfering in my life. I merely reblogged some posts from another one of her sub's blog, added a brief caption and the hashtag this "Goddess" hated so much.

My ex sub of years ago that this "Goddess" gaslit for choosing to involve me in a personal relationship she had with her partner was asked by the very same woman to deliver a message to me. My friend tried to be tactful but after pulling teeth I received the message.

I was ordered not to interact with any sub or play partner this "Goddess" has nor reblog any content from any of their blogs.

At first I laughed. Yet then I realized that this woman had manipulated my friend into a position of high discomfort. This woman lacked the courage and conviction to deliver the message herself and manipulated my friend. This was a landmine intended for me. A juvenile, "mean girl" high school form of Intimidation. I'm supposed to set it off & my friend is the collateral damage intended to catch hell from me while this "Goddess" hides.

This all occurred during the week after I lost my aunt and over last weekend when I went to her viewing and funeral. I had some impulses as to how to put this "Goddess" in her place yet tried to open diplomatic channels of communication via my friend out of respect for my friend and her alone. Over the course of a week I have only been met with the same disrespect, jealousy & manipulation that these faux Goddesses use to prey on men.

The difference being that I know the playbook. Girls have been trying to use this on me since middle school. I know the offense, I know the excuses, I know how they use the DARVO method to gaslight others better than they know it themselves. I know their counters. I know how their narrow minds work. I know they hate taking accountability for their actions. I know that it is rare that any of them ever change.

This space has become too toxic & what I see around me is not reflective of who I am or of a community that shares my values.

I hope everyone reading this knows that is not representative of them. I adore my followers. Each and every one of you! I only ask that people treat others with mutual respect, follow the rules of the kink community, leave bigotry at the door & if you can to speak up for those who need help & do not have a voice others listen to. Just be a decent human being. It really is not that difficult.

The title of this post is "I will be what you want me to be"

You see, this "Goddess" is not unique and neither is this situation as it has played out many times in the past. That is why I simply labeled it the last straw. Women are often either largely drawn to me or largely intimidated by me. There isn't much of a middle ground. For those who are intimidated their insecurities shine brightly. Jealousy is a constant and there are always sins I have apparently committed that they use to justify their behaviour.

One incredibly common one is that I try to force myself as THE Alpha Female over every other woman. That I actively interfere in their lives. Which is complete bullshit. You can see in this most recent example that I quite honestly had not even thought about this woman in years, let alone taken actions to interfere in her life or lock horns and fight for some imaginary TOP DOMME position which she had convinced my friend was my intent all these years. She wants me to be the Queen Bitch. Then I'm to blame for her insecurities. Trust me, I've been down this road far too many times in my life.

So I have decided to give her what she wants.

At any time over the past 5 years If you have found solace or purpose in advice or guidance I have given or joy or ecstasy in posts I have created for an audience I appreciate perhaps you can do this favour for me. The time and energy I have put into helping others come to terms with their sexuality & their roles in a sexual hierarchy, the understanding that everyone is intrinsically equal as human beings & that sexual roles do not define your self worth, that committing yourself to explore your sexual identity should be met with happiness and the thrill of adventure and not constant shame and guilt that others have placed upon you to make you feel less than others; if this teaching of mine has permeated your thoughts or positively affected you then I hope you will opt to do this favour for me.

Reblog a single post that @collegecuckcake25 has posted & add your own brief message. Or send a DM if you want to be more discreet.

Simply let this "Goddess" know how you personally feel about the predators on Tumblr. The manipulation, the guile, the gaslighting, the shaming, the denial of their actions. How they take healthy relationships with fetishes, with people & with the kink community & exploit them for their own ego & gain.

Please help me absolve her of all accountability for her actions.

Finally, a favour for yourself.

I ask all of my friends to do this. I appreciate all of you.

- Get a washable marker.

- Every day when you wake up write a single adjective on a mirror. One positive character trait that you possess.

- Breathe slowly and reflect on that word for a minute.

- Before you go to sleep look at it again. Reflect on it.

- Do this every day. Do not erase the words.

- On October 31st take a photo of the mirror describing you.

- Take one last time to reflect before erasing them.

Those words, those character traits are inside of you and part of you, and each and every day we get to decide whether or not we activate them. Whether or not we utilize them. We get to decide to create even more. Words can be written and erased but the more we reflect on them the more they become part of us. Thoughts become actions. Actions become habits. Habits become behaviours. Our behaviours become our identity. Our identity shapes the life we lead.

We all are accountable for what we choose to activate deep inside ourselves. It isn't easy. We can't be every positive aspect of ourselves all at once. Some days we can't affect positive change. Some days we don't have the emotional bandwidth yet we always can reflect on what is inside. We can reinforce what is there.

Albert Camus said "Sometimes, carrying on, just carrying on, is the superhuman achievement."

I believe that is true. Ordinary life can be pretty complex. When we can't be at our best we can reflect and we can hold ourselves accountable for what we are doing.

As promised, over the next 16 days this Queen Bitch will be privately responding to as many backlog of asks that she can. If you have any asks to send I will do my best to answer, I truly will.

And finally for all the Findom perverts that I love, I have your task

You are going to make a tribute this month except it will not be to me. I do not care if it is $10, $100 or $1000. I will be creating a post that has a list of independent, strong, creative, empowered women that you will be "tributing to."

The list will include musicians, businesses, artists, writers and more. No false idols. No fake Goddesses. People truly deserving of praise.

I am moving on to another chapter in my life & perhaps that will mean taking advantage of a different online platform or some other outlet that will help me grow. If I have any sort of idea before I close this Tumblr I will make a post to let everyone know.

In this bittersweet moment I want you all to know that I owe you gratitude for these five years. Long time followers who have read much of my writing know that I enjoy helping people. To do so I have needed to help myself, I have had to reach higher, dream bigger & achieve more. By asking for help you enabled me to empower myself in ways I had not realized I could.

Thank you,

xox

Mia

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Hi miss, I uhm... Saw your reply. May I....please, please pleeeease cum before my date? Please miss pleeeease I only want to so I can please her and show her the respect she deserves as a woman. I'm a service top. I just want to make her feel good and make her cum. If I could hold my nut after 18days denied when fucking her I wouldn't need to beg for permission to cum but I know I'll bust if I slide in her rn. I know I'm just your subby slut most of the time but i do switch when granted permission and it helps me in my life to find balance and peace. I pretty much always want to be under a woman but occasionally I like to serve them in another capacity before getting back under control. She just needs some good dick and I don't wanna let her down.

So please please please let me cum and allow me to serve this woman Miss 🙈 I promise I'll lock up again right after and stay denied until you say so.

There are many ways to pleasure a woman without penetrating her with your cock. If you absolutely must as a last resort you may however I have suggestions to begin with. Make it your duty to set a new bar. One that exceeds what other men have done for her. One that she will measure all future sexual encounters by. Pay attention fellas.

Dedicate time to foreplay. Know that it is an artform. You are creating an experience so take pride in your work. Do not rush anything, even when she becomes so horny she tries to force your hand you must stay the course. Create desperation and anticipation.

Kiss her, deeply and passionately without haste. Explore her body with lips and hands. Map out the topography of her naked body with your fingertips without making contact with any intimate part. Trace circles around her breasts without touching her nipples. Drag your nails lightly down her abdomen to make her shiver. Grasp her neck gently and caress her throat with your thumb while your lips glide along her collarbone and up along her neck. Remove all your clothing and hers during this time except for your underwear. Lean into her with your hard cock from time to time.

Then without any warning direct full attention to asserting dominance that is purely aimed towards pleasuring her. Don't get her to suck your cock or even touch it. Make sure she can't concentrate long enough to do so.

Grab a fistful of her hair to begin with and sharply pull her head back. Keep a sharp gaze locked onto her eyes and kiss her. Move down along her neck and onto her breasts and do not take your eyes off hers. Slide down to force your head between her legs. You should have a hunger for her pussy like nothing else. Worship it as though it is the last thing you will ever experience in your life. Keep your eyes on hers. Utilize the dominance that makes her aware that you own her clit with the attention to detail that tells her you worship it.

All of that should last no less than an hour and a half. If she hasn't came by then at least once then you have permission to fuck her. If she does cum don't stop working her clit and labia. Wrap your arms around her waist and legs if her hips are buckling and she is trying to escape the overstimulation. Push it for 30-60 seconds to see if you can spark another orgasm before the first one ends and if so continue. If not then give her a break.

Be attentive. Fetch some water for her to drink. Run a face cloth under cool water. Place it at the base of the back of her neck. Allow her to wipe her wipe her face clean and breathe. When she has caught her breath slowly begin again. She'll understand that the refreshments mean that she is in this for the long haul.

If you must fuck her then and you cum prematurely she will be craving your cock. Wondering what it would be like to have it inside her first and next time you get together she will drain it with her lips and pussy without you needing to drop a hint.

P.S. if you are the guy that sets the bar her BFF will know every single last detail by end of the next day. How long it lasted. What order you worked on her. How much attention you paid to her. How desperate she felt. How many times she came. The size of your cock. Your endurance. How dominant you are. What positive triggers you hit. EVERYTHING. The rest of her inner circle of friends will know within a week.

xox

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