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Oh how I miss the bright sun and the busy bees

-Bear

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Hello friends..!

Hello everyone, it's Bear! Im back and I wanted to apologies for my absence. A lot of stress in my personal life has taken a tool on my mental health. Because of this I have neglected my responsivities as a caregiver and left you and my littles ones in the dark. For awhile logging on to Tumblr made me feel guilty because things just kept pilling and pilling up. I wasn't in the best health and couldn't bring myself to respond to kiddos asking for advice so I would just log right back off.

Though my life hasn't gotten that much easier I miss you all so so much. I want to be able to talk with you and make things for you again. I just have to figure out a way that works for me. I'm going to start by clearing my asks box completely and instead of having it always open, having it open one week then closed the next.

I would love to hear how you guys have been doing! What you been up to, any news in the community I might have missed. Anything.

I miss you

-Bear

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Hey, new follower here! Not to be rude, but I really don't know what your blog is about:"") I'm just following for the cute/kawaii pictures, but do you have a specific aesthetic? Is your blog about a specific topic? Is it about childhood memories and safe for work cute stuff?

Warning! this post may be a bit dark

Hai friend! Thank you so much for joining me on this lovely evening. I guess it is a bit difficult to know what my blog is about since I changed my bio (I'll fix that soon!)

Well, describing my blog is a bit difficult. In a sense I am a caregiver blog. I give advice, I post cute outfit boards targeted towards age regressors and all littles alike, I comfort those who just need a friend, and I tell comforting stories! But being a caregiver isn't all what this blog is about. My goal is to provide a sense of comfort and warmth to kids that never really got to be kids. I, like so many others in this community had a rough up bringing. I never knew when the next bad thing was going to happen, I never had a sense of stability or safety. I know there are more people like me and I just want them to feel less alone. To be able to come to someone and know they won't be judge, that they are safe and will be treated with nothing but love and respect. Though the reason for my blog is a sad one I try to keep the vibes here as cozy as possible!

To answer your other question, the aesthetic im going for is like a warm day at Grandma's house with tea and fresh cookies. Haha something like that.

-Bear

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hello Bear!

i was brave enough to start posting on my blog, but an icky account already interacted with me and now i feel nervous again 😭

Hello dear Zelda. Posting online takes a lot of courage, that was very brave of you. I am so so sorry adult accounts are bothering you. It isn't okay in the slightest. It has become such a huge problem on the age regression side of tumblr. It has nothing to do with sweet babies like you. Some people don't understand how uncomfortable and dangerous it is for kiddos and it is not your responsibility to deal with them. You are all wonderful kiddos just trying to have fun and share your interests with the world. If is isn't too much, Dm the accounts that are bothering you kiddo. Though it might not help, talking and explaining to those adults how unsafe it is has helped them understand in the past. I hope this problem will subside

-Bear

(I am so so sorry i've been absent! I hope you are well my dear)

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The yuckies keep interacting with me Papa, and I was so smol and baby too. I feel so awful, I wish they'd leave me alone. I just wish they'd stop, I tried putting dni banners on every post, even the past ones, and they still wont stop. I dont understand why someone would forcibly expose someone to something like that, especially a minor. Its so gross. Why do they have to make my safe space not safe. I just want to curl up and cry.

Sorry for venting, my mama is asleep and Im very upset.

Hello little one, thank you for talking to me about this. I am so so sorry adult accounts keep interacting with you. That's not fair and it isn't right. There are some not so nice people in this world and some break boundaries they have no right or justifiable reason to break. None of it is your fault, you deserve a safe environment where you can just be a kid and play. Is there a friend you trust that could possibly be a mod for your account? So they could be the one to block and delete those nasty accounts for you.

I'll go threw your account personally and contact any nsfw accounts I see interacting with you. Though it may not help I will do what I can to try to keep them away. I've got your back luv bug. Keep your chin up! ♡♡♡♡

-Bear

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hi Bear,

i am really stressed and scared! my mom is in the hospital and i have had to be home alone most of the day🥺 i am sick with a chronic illness and i also have my period rn, so i feel very icky but i gotta fend for myself, and i'm worried about my mom! it's been a rlly hard day😭 i hope my mom can come home tomorrow but idk yet if she can🥺 i've been trying to distract myself but it's hard, especially at nighttime when my anxiety gets worse anyway :c do you have any advice about how i could try to feel better?

Oh dear, you poor baby. That is a lot to deal with for anyone. I am so sorry things are very stressful for you right now. I hope your mom makes a fast recovery!

It can be really difficult to distract yourself from something so worrying and being sick on top of having to fend for yourself must be exhausting. I know it sounds silly but deep breaths. Focus on your breathing and try to clear your mind even if it's just for a minute. Also stick with familiar things. Stay close to your favorite shows, foods, youtubers, music, anything and everything that brings you comfort. Keeping famiiar at a time like this can help prevent more stress. Stress not only effects the mind but your body as well so please try to keep yourself fed and get the sleep you need if you can.

And the most important thing, please do no isolate yourself. Talk with your friends, check in with family, video call, play social games. You don't have to face the stressful things in life alone.

If you need anything else please tell me. I'd love an update if you're comfortable. I hope all ends well and you and your lovely mother feel better soon.

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🐘Cloudy skies and cozy babies❄

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Hello, Bear! I'm not sure if you've been asked this before but what is/are some of your favourite books? Thank you!

Hello wonderful friend! I am so happy you asked this! I love talking about books :>

So my favorite book is called "The Little Prince" by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. It is a story about never losing touch with your inner child and childhood dreams. It was written in the 40s so it's a difficult read but totally worth it! There is also a movie on Netflix with the same name!

My next favorite book is "Solitaire" By Alice Oseman. This book got me through some of the worst times of my life. The main character is very mentally ill and it's a story about her learning to connect with people. That she really isn't a horrible person that she thinks she is and deserves love just like everyone else. It is a really sad read but it does such a good job at explaining how mental illness can affect the person that has it and the people around them.

Those mare my favorite novels but as a bonus my favorite comic book is the Scott Pilgrim series!

Thank you again for the question!

-Bear

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Hi! Please ignore this if you don't want to answer!

I was wondering if you had any tips or suggestions for finding a caregiver/someone to talk with when little on Tumblr (or somewhere else). I can't seem to be little without talking with someone but I have no idea how to even start!

Thank you! Please feel free to ingore!

Hello luv bug! That is a toughie but I will try my best to answer!

There are only a handful of daycare/community caregiver blogs on Tumblr but I found more daycare accounts over on Instagram!

As far as your own caregiver I would advise finding one around your big age. Try avoid searching things like "looking for a little" Or "little needed" because you may run into some yucky stuff. Instead keep an eye on the "sfw caregiver" tag and see if anyone is looking for a kiddo! Another option could be making a google forum where caregivers can fill out some information about themselves and learn a bit about you. Make sure to get to know them before asking them to be your CG just incase they aren't the right fit.

Please, Please, please be careful my darling. Though I have met so many amazing carers there are always bad apples and some people may have ill intentions. If they ever give you a bad feeling don't ignore it. Trust your gut and be safe.

I hope this helped! Don't be afraid to send another ask if you have anymore questions! Much love friend!

-Bear

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Hihi! It's Freddie who asked for da sharkie moodboard!

Thank you lots 'n lots for making it!! It so perfect n made me very very happy!!

Wanna say I'm very proud of you for closing requests when you needed to, that very brave n I hope you okay! 💕💞✨

Hello my dear, I am very happy you liked your board. It made me realize how much I love lemon sharks!

Thank you so much for the words of encouragement. I really appreciate you kiddo. I hope you have been eating well and getting all the rest you need💙🌔💕

-Bear

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☁Some fluffy friends to keep you warm this chilly afternoon💙

(This includes but not limited to; k!nk of any kind, harm blogs, ED blogs even if pro recovery, gore blogs, and any form of nsfw)

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I am glad you’re able to set a boundary for the requests thing :) good job! Also I love the new winter theme :0

Thank you, thank you, thank you, friend! I really appreciate that.

It wasn't an easy decision and I put it off for awhile. When I did post about it I felt rather sick. I started to think I made the wrong choice but the news was taken mostly well! I was all worried for nothing (as usual haha ( ´ ▽ ` ; )

Also, thank you! I am so excited to do more winter themed things!

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Little preschool Elmo❤

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hi Bear!!! um I told my baba about bein small an he was ok with it!!! and even better is he told me that I could be little around him on Saturday 🥰 but im scared m gonn be shy 🫣 do u have any tips for brand new cgs/littles with cgs?? Tysm!!! ✨️ ~ @pink-crayon-princess

Hello darling! I am so proud of you for telling your baba about you being an age regressor. I know it's not an easy thing to do. I'm happy he is so supportive!

Alright, deep breaths. This person is very precious to you and I'm sure you are precious to him. Keep in mind that he cares for you and isn't going to judge you. Ask him for reassurance. Also having a stuffie to fidget with and some soothing lullabies can't hurt.

As for brand new caregivers, also deep breaths. It can be just as nerve racking. Be patient and know that your kiddo is putting a lot of trust in you. If you don't understand something don't be afraid to ask them. You don't have to know everything right off the bat. As long as you care and support them you'll do great!

I hope you two have fun! Rest easy kiddo.

-Bear

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💐Sweet lavender kiddo💜

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Bad news...

Hello wonderful people, I have some news. I am no longer taking requests. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoyed making them. It's just over time it started to stress me out and they would pile up. It made it hard to log in because I didn't want to disappoint anyone. You all are so lovely and that fact that I could give you little virtual gifs made me happy. I just can't keep up with it. Im sorry.

I want you to know that i'm still here if you need a friend. I am stilling going to post and you can still talk to me through my asks box. I am hoping this change will encourage me to post more. I hope you're not mad.

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I was wondering how you do the yellow tour your seasonal font colours? The app seems to hide the colour or something.

Hello Arietis! It really is a bummer but the yellow text color just doesn't show up on mobile :(

Works on the website version of Tumblr though!

-Bear