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Indoril Nerevar

My version of this man, exactly 1 week!

Transmasc and has albinism!

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can you not post nsfw :(

you come into my home uninvited and tell me how i should arrange my furniture? what a fool you are. skeleton divine death blast

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had an enlightening conversation recently

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No one:

Me: HD eyes.

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say cheeeese//2017

10/16

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Azura's golden boy

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Ah yes my favorite part

*yeets blush on Nerevar's face*

Anime man

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Say it louder, because this conversation needs to be started and held. I'm tired of this too. /genuine

“No one owes you, an autistic person, an explanation of why something is a social faux pas. If they say they don’t like it all you should do is shut up and accept it”

Okay have you considered I can’t turn my autism on and off and I don’t owe them to act allistically???

Like for context this was said to me bc I explained to other autistic ppl why pointing out things especially to strangers is considered rude. Like “you have diabetes neck, you probably have autism” is a statement an autistic child might make and to them it’s a neutral statement of fact akin to “oh wow it’s really cloudy it might rain soon”. But to other ppl it’s invasive and rude whether they know they have autism or not and regardless of if they’re right. And the explanation I gave was “it’s rude to point out things abt ppl that they can’t fix in 5 minutes bc it makes them feel self conscious and anxious”

Does someone owe some random w autism an explanation? No. Hence why I decided to look it up and research it myself. Social rules do not come naturally and intuitively to us. Just saying “don’t do x bc other ppl don’t like it” ISNT FUCKING HELPFUL. I don’t like ppl insisting on direct eye contact and I don’t like not being able to stim, but guess what? My boundaries are constantly violated bc our society has deemed my comfort as optional. Just not liking something is clearly not a good enough reason.

Having a reason helps autistic ppl understand the problem better and evaluate the next steps to take, especially if were low empathy (I’m not I usually have inappropriately high levels of empathy). Explaining that being out in public and having things abnormal or “wrong” about you pointed out you can’t fix immediately makes you feel anxious and like you shouldn’t be around other ppl at all even if you have stuff to do outside and thus ruins your day might help and autistic person go “ohhhh I see. You have things to do outside and I pointing this out might not be giving you a solution to a problem but just making it harder for you to complete basic tasks by producing anxiety. I will point stuff out in other people less, even if I think I might be correct”

Also like. Where the fuck did I say someone owes me an explanation to this problem??? I provided my own explanation so other autistic ppl don’t have to demand answers from an allistic or not get one bc they think the social rules are intuitive and don’t know how else to explain it. “Well regardless of the explanation you should—“ how about allistics stop demanding fucking eye contact w me when I’m trying to buy a fucking coffee or else that is supposedly a “clue” I am secretly a sociopathic serial killer who personally hates them or whatever the fuck their brains make up as an explanation for simply not wanting to make eye contact bc it makes me uncomfortable

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Autism acceptance includes accepting all autistic manners of communication.

That means supporting autistic people who talk in a "very childish" way. (I do this a lot irl)

Autistic people who do "TV talking" (this means talking like a character from your favorite media,basically talking in quotes and copying their speech patterns,as far as I know)

Autistic people who use echolia.

Autistic people who are very awkward/quirky when they communicate.

Autistic people who are overly technical,or have very sophisticated and articulate speech.

Autistic people who mumble.

Autistic people who talk really fast.

Autistic people who can't control their tone of voice/inflection.

Autistic people who talk in a monotone voice.

Autistic people who use different kind of sounds,or body language to communicate.

Autistic people who talk slowly and draw out their syllables.

Autistic people who use a lot of sentance fillers.

Autistic people who use Aac devices,communication cards,etc etc.

Edit: acceptance of nonverbal autistics is also necessary. Nonverbal people deserve love,respect,acceptance,accommodation and support.

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Pretty boy, beauty boy...

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house of troubles? more like house of troublemakers

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Accident on the mascara front!!! But it's still a vibe

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Yeah that adds up lmao

@xcoffeepostx, @queer-ghosts, @babyblueetbaemonster, @thalwhore, @fools-throne, @hassildor, @blossom-adventures, @libartz, @theguartist and i invite all of my friends and mutuals I forgot who are also into dnd! I am so excited for this sorry

I was expecting anything but not Bard

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Talym Rend and his son Novos

Art for The Elder Scrolls: Legends

Art Direction: Jonas Andreassen

Artists: Marisa Oh, Joe Meehan, James Strehle, Reza Ilyasa, Bogdan Merica, Luis Lasahido

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Pov they're listening to you infodump

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Finally doing what I had planned for years, AHEM

My headcanon version of Nerevar has some degree of albinism, leaving him mostly unaffected except for photophobia (extreme intolerance to light, but also him not liking to wear a helmet because that way he sees even LESS), lightly impaired vision and a variety of sun burns, but he looks so cool so no one bats an eye.