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At the Crossroads: Trusting the Unknown

There’s a strange, almost sacred, space we find ourselves in when one chapter of life closes but the next one hasn’t yet fully emerged. If I had to describe it, it feels like standing at the edge of something vast and unknown—a little intimidating, a little exhilarating, and full of possibility. It’s not a feeling I’ve always welcomed, but recently, I’ve come to embrace it as a necessary stage…

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When Chemistry Isn't Enough in Dating

There’s something magical about those dates where everything feels just right—effortless conversation, natural chemistry, and a shared sense of excitement for what might come next. I recently had one of those dates. He was handsome, intelligent, and we clicked instantly. We talked for hours, discussing everything from our favorite books to potential future plans. There was even some natural,…

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Dating Disappointments: Embracing Rejection

Recently, I went on a date that didn’t quite spark. We gathered to enjoy live music, a backdrop of vibrant energy and rhythm. It was probably one of the most beautiful dates I’ve ever been on. The audience sat amidst the blooming flowers on a flower farm, the folk singer and her guitar on the front porch of a greenhouse – the sun setting behind it as the moon rose behind us. I arrived with a…

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The Beauty of Diversity: Expanding Perspectives and Belonging | The Clever Confidante

Isn’t it curious how we’re drawn to like-minded souls, even as adults? We’re still navigating high school cliques, seeking familiarity and connection. At work, for instance, we naturally gravitate toward colleagues who share our humor, our rhythm, or even our taste in coffee. It feels easy and safe, like that coworker who gets us. A place where we feel we belong and matter. While surrounding…

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September & October: Balancing Act

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Choose Connections Where You Thrive

A recent realization struck me: the version myself that emerges can vary significantly depending on the company I keep. As I reflected on this insight, I recognized the importance of seeking relationships where I genuinely like the version of myself that appears when I am with them. This understanding highlights just how crucial it is to surround ourselves with people that encourage and support…

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August: Reconnect with Joy

Sorry for the late August post. I've been reconnecting with joy joy and embracing all that summer has to offer, particularly disconnecting from technology. I have so many new ideas for posts for you to be looking for in the future.

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July: Nurture Emotions

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The "If Only" Trap

Teaching high school students, I see how quickly they want to grow up. They think that once they leave high school, their parents’ home, and all the rules, that’s when their life will start. That’s when it’ll all be ‘better.’ Watching this play out year after year, it struck me that high school students eager to graduate are not the only ones suffering from the disease of “if only.” So many of…

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5-Card Love & Partnership Spread

Whether basking in the glow of newfound romance, nursing a tender heart, or simply seeking clarity in matters of love and partnership, this tarot spread can illuminate your path or offer solace to your soul. Love can uplift us to soaring heights or plunge us into despair. And sometimes, maybe even often, we grapple with the feeling of “meh” within the nuance of our romantic…

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Shadow Seeker: Anger, Resentment, & Forgiveness

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Shadow Seeker: Anger, Resentment, & Forgiveness

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June: Embrace Abundance

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Shadow Seeker: Anger, Resentment, & Forgiveness

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Shadow Seeker: Anger, Resentment, & Forgiveness

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Shadow Seeker: Anger, Resentment, & Forgiveness

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Shadow Seeker: Anger, Resentment, & Forgiveness