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How To Create Emotional Connection With A Woman

Read the article below or watch the video on YouTube.

How to take a woman from HELLO to the BEDROOM by creating an emotional connection:

1) During the first conversation

2) When asking her out

3) On the first date

4) At your place, and

5) During intercourse

Once you learn number 5, you’ll have the skills to give her the best sex she has ever had in her entire life.

Let’s do this…

How To Create Emotional Connection With A Woman

1. During the first conversation

Be careful with this one… It’s powerful… I call it: The Ultimate Playbook

It will make her feel like you are the one guy who truly understands her.

If you are a Player, you will be able to create an emotional connection with women during the initial conversation.

So you can close an immediate date or a bounce back to your place.

If she’s The One, you will share a deep understanding that will give you the foundation to build a strong relationship.

Here’s how it works…

STEP (1)

Ask her this question:

In a relationship, what is the one thing you must have?

In other words, you would prefer to be single if your relationship didn’t include what?

This will tell you what she values most in a relationship.

Then ask her what else her relationship must have to get her top 4 requirements.

Complete this exercise yourself beforehand so you have a better understanding of how to select a top 4.

Here’s a free PDF that lists 168 Relationship Requirements.

Put it on your phone so you can help her with the selection process.

STEP (2)

Ask her to rank the top 4 requirements in descending priority.

Requirement #1 is most important and so on.

STEP (3)

For each requirement, have her answer the following questions:

– What does this requirement mean to you specifically?

– What would it look, sound, and feel like if your partner were supporting this need?

– What actions let you know this need is being met?

– How do you know when this need has been met?

With The Ultimate Playbook, you get to bless her with a conversation on 2 of her favorite topics… Relationships and Herself.

She will love it.

Be sure to complete the 3 steps so you can share your results as part of the conversation.

How To Create Emotional Connection With A Woman

2. When asking her out

A childhood friend taught me an important lesson about how to ask women out and get a YES.

The second he turned 21, he started hanging out at strip clubs… CONSTANTLY.

Most of the time he’d go by himself. This went on for years. I didn’t understand it. I just didn’t get it.

Until one night, I finally went with him and I was like…

Ooooooh… I get it now…

He’d walk into a strip club alone, then walk out a couple of hours later with a stripper.

Do you know the level of GAME you need to have to walk into a gentleman’s club and get an immediate date with a stripper?

They have literally heard it all.

Years ago we created a course together on how to date strippers… It was awesome…

Here’s his secret to asking women out:

Just ask them to do something they want to do.

At the end of a shift, dancers usually need a ride or something to eat.

So he offers to give them a ride, grab a bite, or whatever.

Next thing you know, she’s giving a private dance at his place.

If you want to create an emotional connection with a woman while asking her out, AND get a YES…

All you have to do is ask her one simple question:

So… what do you do for fun?

Then invite her to do something she enjoys doing.

How To Create Emotional Connection With A Woman

3. On the first date

There’s a routine I use on EVERY first date because it’s the Holy Grail for creating an emotional connection with women.

It’s a personality exercise called: The Cube (And it’s incredibly accurate.)

It was a favorite routine for Pick Up Artists in the Style / Mystery community when Neil’s book “The Game” was popular.

Here’s how it’s done…

Ask her to imagine a simple desert landscape – just sand, sky, and the horizon.

In this desert landscape, add a CUBE. Describe the cube.

Let her describe it. If necessary, ask: What size is it? Can you see through it? Where is it located?

Now add a LADDER. Describe the ladder.

Let her describe it. If necessary, ask: Where is it located? Can you climb it?

Now add FLOWERS. Describe the flowers.

If necessary, ask: How many? Is there one or many different types of flowers? Where are they?

Now add a HORSE. Describe the horse.

If necessary, ask: Where is it? Can you ride it?

Now add a STORM. Tell me about the storm.

If necessary, ask: What kind of storm is it? Where is it?

Now tell her what it means…

Here’s a free PDF with an interpretation for each question.

But there’s no need to memorize.

Simply review the interpretations to get an idea of how it works then draw logical conclusions while using it in the field.

You’ll be AMAZED by your accuracy.

The CUBE represents her SELF IMAGE.

Her description of the CUBE is actually a description of her SELF IMAGE.

Tell her what you believe that says about her SELF IMAGE.

The LADDER represents her LIFE PURPOSE.

Her description of the LADDER is actually a description of her LIFE PURPOSE.

Tell her what you believe that says about her LIFE PURPOSE.

The FLOWERS represent her SUPPORT GROUP.

Her description of the FLOWERS is actually a description of her SUPPORT GROUP.

Tell her what you believe that says about her SUPPORT GROUP.

The HORSE represents her IDEAL LOVER.

Her description of the HORSE is actually a description of her IDEAL LOVER.

Tell her what you believe that says about her IDEAL LOVER.

The STORM represents her CHALLENGES and PROBLEMS.

Her description of the STORM is actually a description of her CHALLENGES.

Tell her what you believe that says about her CHALLENGES.

If you would like to learn more check out “Secrets of the Cube” by Annie Gottlieb.

How To Create Emotional Connection With A Woman

4. At your place

If you stage your place correctly, when you have a girl over she will start talking about sex without you having to say or do anything.

Here’s how it’s done…

Leave lights on and/or curtains open to eliminate ANY chance of her needing to walk into darkness.

Stock up on food and drinks.

Have toiletry items in the bathroom.

Make sure your place is clean and smells nice.

The bed should be made with clean sheets.

Make sure the place feels warm and inviting.

Be sure to have plenty of condoms.

And place books about relationships, sex, and romance in plain sight.

This is important.

Because of the books on display, the conversation will inevitably turn to sex.

When it does, your emotional connection has been made.

From there, you can easily transition to intimacy.

How To Create Emotional Connection With A Woman

5. In the bedroom

NOTHING will elevate you to Sex God status faster than giving her a Squirting Orgasm.

I’m going to show you step-by-step How To Make Her Squirt.

So you can give some lucky lady pleasure like she has never experienced before in her life.

A squirting orgasm requires G-Spot Stimulation

Her G-Spot is located on the upper wall of her vaginal canal, towards her belly.

You can locate it by inserting a finger about 2 inches deep.

You’re looking for something that feels slightly bumpy and protruding.

You won’t be able to feel it until she’s aroused.

It should feel different than the rest of her vaginal canal.

Similar to the ridges on the roof of your mouth.

Now let’s get into the 6 Steps you’ll need to make her squirt…

(1) PREGAME

Here’s a short TO-DO List in preparation for the main event:

– Have towels or a washable blanket handy

Some women can squirt copious amounts of liquid.

So have something to place under her to protect the area.

– Set the scene

Create a comfortable environment with candles, music… even rose peddles if you think it’s appropriate.

Squirting requires deep surrender.

To do that she must feel safe, comfortable, and relaxed, in a supportive environment.

– Take a shower or bath

If needed, she can take a shower or bath beforehand for additional relaxation.

– Have plenty of time

If she feels rushed it will be hard to relax and difficult for her to reach orgasm.

– Ask her to use the restroom right before you begin

Many women experience an urge to pee during this process.

If she tenses up to hold the urine it will stop her from squirting.

But if her bladder is empty she can safely relax and fully let go.

– Be 100% present

No matter what she experiences be present with her in every moment with No Pressure and No Expectations.

Lastly…

– Trim your fingernails

(2) DISCLOSE

Explain your intentions so she knows what to expect:

Here’s an example:

After we both climax I’m going to stimulate your G-Spot to give you a squirting orgasm.

I’m going to invite you to fully let go so you can experience intense sexual pleasure.

If you feel like you need to pee that means you’re close.

If you pee all over the place it’s perfectly ok. We’ll celebrate it.

There’s no pressure. If you squirt, great. If not, that’s fine too.

And there’s no rush. We have plenty of time.

Let’s just have a great time together and see what happens.

(3) AROUSE

Before she can squirt she must be properly aroused.

There are several ways this can be accomplished.

I like to have sex first, give her an orgasm, then make her squirt.

So that’s the arousal technique we’ll use for this tutorial.

According to the American Psychological Association 67% of heterosexual women fake orgasm.

Other studies estimate the number to be as high as 90%.

So let’s make sure she actually HAS an orgasm.

How?

By getting her involved…

She is the only person in the world who truly knows what gets her off.

So encourage her to participate.

Give her permission to touch and play with herself however she likes.

The more you encourage it, the more she will feel safe doing it.

When you’re having sex take her hand, lick her fingers, and put her hand right over her own clit.

Tell her you want her help to increase her pleasure.

Tell her it turns you on to watch her play with herself.

This will dramatically increase the odds of her having a REAL Orgasm because she knows EXACTLY what to do to get herself off.

By the way, pay attention to what she does to herself so you know how to get her aroused the next time you’re together.

(4) STIMULATE

After she has an orgasm it’s time for G-Spot stimulation.

With her permission, insert a finger or two and apply slow, gentle, consistent strokes to her G-Spot.

Stroke in and out, left and right, in circles, clockwise and counterclockwise.

Pulsate by pushing and releasing.

The preferred stroke for many women is the “come here” motion.

Stroke as if you are asking someone to come here.

Use dual stimulation: With one hand massage the G-Spot. With the other play with her vagina, clit, nipples, whatever turns her on.

Or you can massage the G-Spot with your fingers and use your thumb on the same hand to stimulate her clit.

Start slow. It takes time for the liquid to build up so she can squirt.

You should be able to feel it with your fingers as her G-Spot becomes engorged.

(5) FINISH

When her G-Spot is enlarged and her body language indicates she’s nearing climax complete these 4 steps:

(1) Shake

Leaving 2 fingers on the G-Spot, lock your wrist, and shake your arm… vigorously.

(2) Feel

Direct her to FEEL the pleasure.

(3) Sound

Direct her to inhale deeply and sound whatever she’s feeling as she exhales.

Tell her it’s safe for her to sound.

Tell her you love hearing her express how she feels.

(4) Let Go

Encourage her to let go.

Continue to Shake, Feel, Sound, and Let Go until she crosses the finish line.

(6) DE-ESCALATE

When she starts to orgasm and squirt, stay with her.

Do Not remove your hand and Do Not stop the stimulation.

Keep going… guiding her even deeper into her climax.

Most men become over-sensitive after ejaculation.

That’s not the case with a woman’s G-Spot.

So stay connected with her and keep going.

Maintain connection with a bit of pressure on the G-Spot and perhaps on the clit even after she has the orgasm.

Ask HER to tell you when to stop.

When she’s ready to stop slow down until you rest in total stillness.

Then remove your fingers in SLOW MOTION.

Finally, ask her what she needs and give it to her.

She may want to cuddle.

She may need a minute alone.

She may want to share her experience.

Be ok with whatever she needs

After squirting there could be an emotional reaction.

She could feel bliss, gratitude, a divine sense of self, intense pleasure, or the process could release negative energy that has been trapped for years.

So be prepared for crying, laughter, and everything in between.

Now that you know how to create an emotional connection with a woman, I have a question for you…

What is your biggest challenge with women and dating?

I will help you fix it For Free in exchange for answering a few market research questions.

Schedule a free call here

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cloud9consultive · 4 years ago

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Dating Advice For Men: How To Seduce Women

Read the article below or watch the video on YouTube.

As an Attraction Consultant, I specialize in showing men how to attract and seduce women.

The Seduction System I’m about to share with you has been thoroughly tested in the field.

It’s based on female psychology and scientific research.

The 7 Steps Seduction System will enable you to seduce women at will. No matter what you look like or how much money you make.

Please don’t take my word for it…

All I ask is that you keep an open mind and test the system for yourself.

If you have any questions along the way feel free to reach out. I’m happy to help.

I hope you find this system to be as life-changing as it has proven to be for me and countless others.

Let’s take it from the top…

STEP 1: How to eliminate the ONE thing that keeps men from succeeding with women...

Have you ever experienced fear or nervousness around women?

If so, you’re not alone…

Before getting into the dating industry, I had a BAD case of approach anxiety.

Every solution I could find required me to get out of my comfort zone.

After all… life begins at the end of your comfort zone… right?

So I approached women despite my fear… and ended up looking like a jackass…

I was rejected, ignored, and humiliated REPEATEDLY.

I tried to play it off like it didn’t bother me.

But the truth is… Rejection hurts.

Instead of asking you to leave your comfort zone or giving you a solution that would require you to take action despite your fear…

I’m going to show you how to completely eliminate it so you NEVER experience fear around women ever again!

There are several ways to overcome fear.

Buddhist monks sat in the middle of the jungle all night surrounded by wild animals to release fear.

Fortunately, there are easier ways to rid yourself of negative emotions.

Michael Singer is the author of the New York Times best-seller, “The Untethered Soul”.

During an interview with Oprah, Mr. Singer shared this release technique:

When you feel a negative emotion (like fear or anxiety for example), instead of ignoring or suppressing the feeling, allow yourself to feel the emotion completely until it goes away on its own.

Negative feelings can’t stand the clear light of awareness.

So give the feeling your undivided attention.

From now on, whenever you experience a negative emotion, allow yourself to feel it – as fully as you can – until the feeling completely goes away on its own.

Do this whenever you feel a negative emotion and you will no longer experience fear.

In the interest of full disclosure, you should know this release technique can be emotionally painful and physically exhausting because it requires you to FEEL negative emotions… which is unpleasant.

If you would like a PAINLESS release technique, schedule a Free Strategy Session and I’ll walk you through it.

STEP 2: Do this to avoid getting rejected and ignored by women you want to meet...

As a single man, the most important skill you can have is the ability to ATTRACT women so they approach you first.

Before learning attraction, dating was a numbers game. I had to go through the NO’s to get to a YES… Like cold calling in sales.

This is COMPLETELY unnecessary because you can ATTRACT women without fake behavior, lying, or altering your physical appearance.

There are, in fact, several ways to encourage women to approach you first… Like Peacocking or using a female “wingman”.

But the most POWERFUL, least-known strategies are advanced techniques, like Transmutation, Channeling, and Magnetism.

You also have a NATURAL ability to attract women.

Have you ever been able to tell someone was happy, sad, angry, or confident without them saying a word?

Of course you have… Because emotions carry energy other people can feel – especially women.

All you have to do is radiate positive energy (like joy, peace, or confidence) and women will find you attractive.

I’m not talking about superficial happiness, like being in a good mood.

I’m talking about emanating positive energy from the core of your being.

That’s what makes it so powerful. People can feel it and you can’t fake it.

Best-selling author Eckhart Tolle released “The Power Of Now” in 2001.

It sold over 2 million copies worldwide and has been translated into over 30 foreign languages.

The author does a better job of explaining it but here’s a quick summary:

Practice mindfulness and you will experience bliss.

Echart spent time in silence, started blissing out, then wrote a book about it.

We exist within the deepest love imaginable.

To experience happiness all you have to do… is nothing… be still, quiet, peaceful.

Happiness is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, everywhere in the world.

To access it, stop thinking and be present.

True happiness comes from within. NOT from anyone or anything outside of yourself.

A research study published by Psychology Today confirms what I already know to be true…

Women are more attracted to men who are high in mindfulness.

Even when physical attractiveness is taken into account.

In short, women prefer mindfulness over physical appearance.

Practice mindfulness and you will literally radiate confidence or joy all the time without thinking about it…

Making you irresistible to women!

To learn Advanced Techniques for attracting women, schedule a Free Strategy Session and I’ll walk you through it.

STEP 3: Do this to realize a 100% success rate picking up women...

Not only will Mindfulness help you cultivate a vibe of joy and confidence women can’t resist, but it will also give you the ability to approach women with no possibility of rejection.

Being mindful increases your access to intuition and intuition improves decision making.

A team of scientists at the University of New South Wales conducted a study on intuition.

They concluded that unconscious intuition informs and even improves decision-making.

Listen… Intuition is NEVER wrong.

To realize a 100% success rate approaching women, use Intuitive Guidance for target selection and you’ll meet the right women, at the right time, with NO possibility of rejection.

To develop intuition, be mindful, but also use it to make as many minor decisions as possible… Like deciding what to eat, where to shop, and when to commute.

Keep a journal of your results. This will help you recognize intuitive guidance.

Once you get accustomed to following intuition, you’ll select the perfect target every time!

STEP 4: What EVERY single man ought to know about meeting women...

Farming is an easy way to add prospecting to your schedule so you can meet more women.

Salespeople farm by marketing in a certain geographic area to find clients.

Your farming efforts will be similar, but instead of hunting for clients, you’ll be creating friendships.

Here’s how it’s done…

Select at least 3 locations to visit regularly. Here are a few suggestions:

– Gyms – Places that offer free wifi – Bars – Volunteer for charitable organizations, or – Attend exercise classes (like yoga, CrossFit, or kickboxing)

Get to know everyone… Men AND women of ALL ages… And build friendships.

Once you complete Steps 1 and 2, this will be easy to accomplish.

Radiating positive energy doesn’t just attract women. It attracts people in general…

Guys want to be your friend, girls want to get to know you better, even children strike up conversations.

Your goal is to be one of the “in crowd” at all of your farming locations so people greet you like Norm from Cheers every time you enter the building.

STEP 5: The dirty little secret no woman would DARE tell you...

Once you start farming, you’ll meet lots of women.

Friend Zone all the girls you’re not interested in romantically.

YOU put girls in the Friend Zone, NOT the other way around.

It’s important to build strong friendships with these ladies because of this little know fact about female psychology:

Melissa Burkley of Oklahoma State University in Stillwater conducted a study with 184 heterosexual students at the university.

The most striking result was that 90% of single women said they preferred attached men over those who were single.

You don’t have to be in a relationship to take advantage of this dynamic.

Being with a girl (or a bunch of girls) is just as effective.

I’m sure you have been out with a group of your buddies in the past.

How many women took notice when you walked in with a bunch of guys?

Now, imagine being out somewhere with a group of attractive women.

I can tell you from experience, there will be SEVERAL girls who can’t take their eyes off you.

Plus, hanging out with girls is WAY more fun than hanging out with a bunch of dudes.

Spend time with your female friends often.

Your lady friends don’t need to do anything when you hang out.

Their presence alone is enough to attract other women.

REVIEW: Here’s what it looks like when you go out armed with the 5 Steps you have so far...

Your energy is amazing. People feel confidence and joy emanating from you.

You’re hanging out with a bunch of girls having a blast.

You intuitively select the perfect target. She’s INSTANTLY attracted to you because of your vibe and female companions.

She approaches you, makes eye contact, and smiles – letting you know she’s interested…

Now what???

In a word… Seduction.

It’s time to seduce your target.

The word “seduction” has multiple meanings.

In terms of sexual attraction, it means: To “attract” someone or to entice someone to sexual intercourse.

There are 3 parts to the Seduction Equation:

(1) Attraction (2) Instilling sexual desire, and (3) Having intercourse

STEP 6: What you MUST know to avoid "Attraction Killing" conversations...

For seduction to work, you must have a conversation to initiate Part (2) of the Seduction Equation.

You could talk about the weather, ask about her job, where she’s from, sit in awkward silence wondering what to say next…

Or, you could flirt and banter like a pro, use wit and humor to increase sexual desire, and be one step closer to completing the seduction process.

Numerous research studies discussed in the 2013 book “Mating Intelligence Unleashed” by Dr. Glenn Geher and Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman confirm the fact that women find wit and humor incredibly attractive.

Here are 10 conversation tips based on wit and humor to get you started…

TIP #1: The Open

Some women you attract will be skilled at starting conversations, but most will just smile and make eye contact.

So you’ll need to initiate the conversation.

Some of my favorite and most effective openers start with a compliment.

The intent is NOT to impress her.

You give sincere compliments without needing or wanting anything in return because that’s the kind of person you are.

With that said, here are a couple of Compliment-Question Openers:

1) You have the most beautiful energy. Do you practice yoga or meditation?

2) That is an amazing outfit. Are you in fashion?

I love opening in this way because her answer always leads to an interesting conversation.

TIP #2: Frame Control

Frame control is IMPERATIVE because it dictates how the relationship will unfold.

When you have frame control, people are “playing by your rules”. They accept your leadership.

You MUST control the interaction to increase attraction.

If you let her control the direction of conversation, attraction will plummet because you’ll be like every other guy… a pushover.

For sexual tension to grow, you must be the cause – not the effect.

A common tool for testing your frame is the statement, “I have a boyfriend”.

Humor is the perfect rebuttal. Here’s an example:

HER: I have a boyfriend.

YOU: I have a math test.

HER: Huh?

YOU: I thought we were naming things we could cheat on.

YOU: I’m just kidding. I don’t want you to cheat. You’ll have to break up.

HER: I can’t do that.

YOU: OK, we’ll do it your way. I’ll be your lover on the side. But I already feel cheap and used like you just want me for my body.

Never let her change your frame. The next tip will help you maintain frame control…

TIP #3: Fractionate

Fractionation is the process of rapidly changing someone’s mental state to intensify the interaction.

To fractionate:

– Change perspectives. Point out something in the environment then come back to you and her.

– Change intensity. Rotate between being serious and funny. Show different sides of your personality.

– Change topics. Be prepared to jump into several different topics of conversation. Be unpredictable.

I like to use something in the moment for my topic of conversation.

Then I’ll throw in lines to fractionate, spice up the conversation, and build sexual tension.

Here’s an example of a line you can use at any point to fractionate the conversation:

YOU: I’ve known you for 5 minutes and there are already 3 things I really like about you.

HER: Really… What are they???

YOU: I love your smile. Your energy is amazing. And I’m not going to tell you the third because you’ll stop doing it.

No matter how much she begs and pleads, NEVER tell her what it is.

This will intensify her interest in you and the conversation.

TIP #4: Flirting

During your initial conversation, subtlety and innuendo are best for triggering desire.

As you know, women are not as direct as men when it comes to sexual arousal.

Watch a porno then read a romance novel and you’ll see the difference.

To flirt effectively, hint at something sexual to give her dirty thoughts without saying it directly.

Questions are perfect. Here are a few examples:

1) What qualities do you find attractive in guys?

2) What do you think makes for an absolutely fantastic kisser?

3) When you’re really attracted to someone, how do you know? In other words, what signals do you get from yourself inside that allow you to realize you’re really attracted to this guy?

TIP #5: Misinterpret

At some point during the conversation, I’m definitely going to misinterpret something she says.

Example #1:

HER: Where are you from?

YOU: I live nearby, but you can’t come over. I hardly know you.

Example #2:

HER: How old are you?

YOU: How long have you been into older men?

This usually leads nicely to a girlfriend story…

My first girlfriend was 5 and I was 6. Ever since I’ve had a thing for younger women.

It didn’t end well. Her family just moved away. She never even said goodbye.

Technically, we’re still going out so I shouldn’t even be talking to you right now.

TIP #6: Accusations

When she pays you a compliment or challenges you, accuse her of hitting on you, flirting with you, having a dirty mind, or attempting to seduce you.

Example #1:

I appreciate the effort you’re putting into this whole seduction thing. Most girls don’t try this hard.

Example #2:

Do you act like this with all guys or just the ones you’re attracted to?

TIP #7: Push-Pull

To Push is to express disinterest in a girl.

To Pull is to express interest in a girl.

I prefer subtle push-pull statements set up by an accusation.

For example, after she replies to my open, I’ll playfully say:

(SET UP)

YOU: You better stop talking to me like that.

HER: Like what?

YOU: With your sexy voice.

HER: I’m not using a sexy voice.

(PUSH-PULL)

YOU: You have a beautiful smile. I can hardly take my eyes off you. But how can I ever trust you if you won’t tell me the truth?

For the last 3 tips let’s shift gears and cover a few conversation options that will have her hanging on your every word…

TIP #8: Book Review

Read a book about romance, love, dating, or relationships.

Then, after you open a set, say this:

I just read a book about relationships and I would love to get a female perspective…

Tell her about the book, share your thoughts and feelings, and ask her opinion… She’ll love it!

“Relationship Magic” by Susan Bratton is perfect for a Book Review (the entire book is only 40 pages).

TIP #9: Demonstrate

Demos include:

– Magic tricks – Palm reading – Handwriting analysis – Rune reading, and – Tarot cards

This stuff is absolutely fascinating to women.

After opening a set, you can easily segue into a demo by saying something like this:

You seem like the kind of person who likes to learn about herself. Let me show you something really cool…

Then go into your demo.

Out of all the demos, palm reading is my favorite.

I prefer demos that don’t require props because they are more natural.

On top of that, girls love getting a palm reading.

It doesn’t matter if they’re scientists or religious fundamentalists. They love it…

When you’re with a girl reading her palm, she blocks out the rest of the world and concentrates on what you are saying.

It doesn’t matter if she’s surrounded by her best friends or other guys…

It’s all about you and her, sharing a warm, intimate, connection.

During a palm read, you’re already in Keno because you’re touching… You’re talking about her innermost thoughts and beliefs… She’s riveted… She’s smiling… Blushing… Looking deeply into your eyes… Searching for understanding…

At the end, the fact that you are destined for intimacy is explicit.

The interaction that occurs within a well-done palm read makes it extremely easy to flirt, banter, and escalate.

From there, all closing options are at your disposal…

You can:

– Number Close – Kiss Close – Sex Close – Shop Close – Meet Up Close – Bounce Back Close – Immediate Date Close

It’s completely up to you.

TIP #10: Question & Answer

In the book, “How to Win Friends and Influence People,” author Dale Carnegie gives a detailed commentary on how to accomplish what the title suggests.

Again, the author does a much better job of explaining it but here’s a quick summary:

Ask questions and be genuinely interested in the answers.

That is all you need to do to have an amazing conversation.

Please don’t make it feel like an interrogation, job interview, or like you are completing a questionnaire.

Just show genuine interest and ask questions to learn more.

Here are a few sample questions to get you started….

Interest Questions:

What do you do for fun?

What’s your passion? What are you into?

How do you like to spend your free time?

Fantasy Questions:

If you won a million bucks and had to blow it in a month, what would you do?

When you really want to cut loose, escape, and indulge yourself, what kind of things do you imagine doing?

If you could go anywhere in the world, where money, time, and the law were no problem, where would you go?

Escalation Questions:

Occasionally, I think a girl just needs an evening of passion. If that were to happen, how do you think it would start?

What do you like to do after sex? Cuddle? Smoke a cigarette? A cigar?

Where’s your favorite place to be touched?

At this point, you have attracted her, created an emotional connection, and built sexual tension…

Now Ask Her Out Like A WINNER!!!

Next up… how to get laid… If that’s something you’re interested in.

If not, go ahead and skip the last step

STEP 7: Do this to sleep with a woman you just met...

If you do these 3 things well, you’ll sleep with her the same day you meet or on the first date.

1) BOUNCE BACK

During the date, or the initial conversation, talk about something she’ll need to come back to your place to see or experience.

As part of your Date Plan, execute a planned location change, then say:

My place is on the way. Let’s stop by to X.

X is something you mentioned earlier that can only be done by going back to your place…

Like seeing your art collection, your view, or your wine collection.

When you get to your place, add an honest time constraint to make her more comfortable.

Here’s an example:

You can come in for a few minutes to ___ but you can’t stay long. I have to ___.

You can come in for a few minutes to see my art collection but you can’t stay long. I have to get up early tomorrow.

2) STAGING

You’ll need to “stage” your place before having a girl over.

First… lighting. Make sure the place is well lit.

Leave lights on and/or curtains open to eliminate ANY chance of her needing to walk into darkness.

– Stock up on food and drinks.

– Have toiletry items in the bathroom.

– Make sure your place is clean and smells nice.

– The bed should be made with clean sheets.

– Make sure the place feels warm and inviting.

– Be sure to have plenty of condoms.

– Place books about relationships, sex, and romance in plain sight. (THIS ONE IS IMPORTANT!)

And don’t forget…

“How to Live with a Huge Penis” by Richard Jacob.

This book is a must-have for the coffee table.

Last but not least…

3) PHASE SHIFT

To Phase Shift is to transition to intimacy.

When you get to your place, give her a tour, and show her whatever she came to see.

Because of the books on display, the conversation will inevitably turn to sex.

From there, Phase Shifting can be done by increasing kino and turning up the sexual tension with the use of a story.

As you know, romance novels are perfect for getting women sexually aroused.

Because your place is staged, you just happen to have a few lying around… How convenient.

Flip to a page where things begin to heat up and start reading.

Then let nature take its course.

The 7 Step Seduction System

Here’s a quick recap:

STEP 1: Permanently eliminate fear and nervousness so you can experience the success with women you truly desire.

STEP 2: Build a vibe of joy and confidence women can’t resist so they approach you first.

STEP 3: Use Intuitive Target Selection to realize a 100% success rate picking up women.

STEP 4: Implement a Prospecting Plan so you can make new friends and meet more women.

STEP 5: Reverse the Friend Zone so you can hang out with beautiful women and be the guy other women approach and ask out.

STEP 6: Flirt and banter using humor and wit so you can get women aroused with a simple conversation.

STEP 7: Execute a Bounce Back, Stage your home, and Phase Shift so you can sleep with a woman you just met.

There you have it… A proven system for seducing women.

I hope you enjoyed this post as much as I enjoyed creating it for you.

Goodbye for now and God Bless!

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