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I literally love her.

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I’ve learned to only seek validation from myself. When I live by my own standards, I feel happy and joyful and pleased with my choices. When I live by other people’s standards, thats when regrets or inadequacy or anxiousness enters the premises.

It really just comes down to, like, why wouldn’t my standards for my own life be good enough? What does other peoples wishes have to do with me? I like it, I’m enjoying the process, it makes me excited, I’m not hurting myself or anyone else, I’m not being a nuisance to society, I’m not stepping on anyone to get ahead, so there’s no reason why I shouldn’t be content with living by my own standards. And when I see others out and about, the need to judge them or feel judged by them just disappears. We aren’t living by the same standards because we are not the same. Our lives are different, our needs are different. And that’s perfectly fine.

This goes for how I choose to conduct my life and also simple things like my standards for beauty and appearances.

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Love the way this is put together aesthetically it’s so cute :(

PICK A KISS

Inquiry: "What is the current energy of this relationship?"

Welcome to my PICK A KISS reading. Please note this reading mentions Astrology along with Tarot. If you are not too familiar with Astrology, you may skip over that part. However, it provides extra context into the energies at play.

💋⎯ reading info;

Three piles (kisses) to choose from. pick which one you are the most drawn to.

Each pile goes over the current energies of the two people involved. you can be a couple or this can be someone you have an emotional connection with.

kiss one

cards: the devil, page of cups, wheel of fortune, 7 of wands

This relationship is currently navigating through a complex terrain marked by temptations and potential pitfalls (The Devil). These two may be facing challenges related to addictions, unhealthy attachments, or codependency, which are testing the strength of their bond. Despite this, they are exploring new emotional depths and creative possibilities together (Page of Cups). They are in a period of emotional growth and development, where they are learning to express their feelings more openly and connect on a deeper level.

The relationship is also experiencing significant shifts and changes (The Wheel), indicating a phase of transformation and evolution. This could bring both opportunities and challenges as they adapt to new dynamics. Despite the challenges, these two are determined to defend their relationship and stand their ground (7 of Wands), showing resilience and determination in overcoming obstacles and maintaining their connection.

💋⎯ astrological synastry: Mars conjunct Pluto, Venus opposite Pluto, Neptune square Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars, Venus in Partner's 8th house.

kiss two

cards: the sun, the empress, 8 of cups, king of wands

This is a relationship that radiates happiness, positivity, and vitality (The Sun). These two bring out the best in each other and enjoy a sense of joy and fulfillment in their partnership. The relationship is nurturing and abundant in love and creativity (The Empress), fostering a supportive and harmonious environment.

However, they may be at a crossroads where they are contemplating making changes or seeking deeper meaning (8 of Cups). This suggests a period of introspection and evaluation, where they may be reevaluating their priorities or considering new directions for their relationship. Despite this, they are led by passion, creativity, and strong leadership qualities (King of Wands), indicating a dynamic and inspiring partnership where they take charge of their shared journey and pursue their goals with enthusiasm and determination.

💋⎯ astrological synastry: Sun conjunct Moon, Saturn trine Moon, Venus trine Jupiter, Lilith conjunct Moon, Sun/Moon in Partner's 7th house.

kiss three

cards: the lovers, ace of pentacles, knight of wands, 3 of wands

The relationship between these two is a deep and meaningful connection, marked by love, harmony, and mutual understanding (The Lovers). They are at a pivotal point in their relationship where important choices and decisions lie ahead, shaping the course of their partnership. The relationship is entering a phase of growth, stability, and material abundance (Ace of Pentacles), symbolizing new beginnings and opportunities for prosperity and security.

They approach life and their relationship with a sense of adventure, enthusiasm, and excitement (Knight of Wands), embracing new experiences and challenges with passion and courage. These two are optimistic about the future and focused on building a successful and fulfilling partnership (3 of Wands), indicating a shared vision and determination to create a rewarding and meaningful life together.

💋⎯ astrological synastry: Mars/Venus conjunct Jupiter, Venus trine Uranus, Venus conjunct North Node, Mars in Partner's 5th house.

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I need to take my cats advice and relax

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“i can’t do this anymore” says a girl who is not only going to do it but do it well

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Not them making another account and coming back to me 😍😍😍 love you!! MUAH! 💋 @poopityscoopityloopp

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Keep in mind that this advice was black and white on purpose. No hate to you whatsoever but I’m incredibly intentional about the words that I use. Relationships are hard in the sense that we need to step outside of ourselves when we open ourselves up to be vulnerable for others and need to use intention in the way we go about problem solving, communicating and acting (if we do not already have these skills within us) but like I said, “love is not supposed to be traumatizing or difficult to nurture or upkeep” and neither are relationships. When things become difficult for us and are no longer in alignment with us and we continue to stay in those positions and pour our energy into them, they become toxic. Thank you for your added perspective and your reblog!! <3

You know what I realized…How conditioned this generation has been into staying in relationships that aren’t serving us or aren’t working. All the time I heard during my teen years from others or on social media about relationships, “I want to be in a relationship where we don’t just break up we sit and “work it out”” or “nobody leaves, we stay”.

Normalize leaving when you witness disrespect. You or not obligated to stay in relationships that are unhealthy or that are creating issues within yourself and within others. Contrary to popular belief relationships and love are supposed to be easy, marriage is not “hard”, love is not supposed to be traumatizing or difficult to nurture or upkeep.

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“Hope doesn’t come from words it comes from actions.”

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naomi backstage at chanel

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Everything we have or take for granted used to be impossible at some point

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self-love is unapologetic.

I felt called to share this message with you today. self-love is unapologetic. self-love is unconditional. Self-love does not apologize to others when it does not look it's best or look like what others expect it to look like, self-love does not apologize or victimize others when it's time to turn inwards and do for itself. Self-love does not sacrifice itself to appease others. self-love does not criticize itself or refuse to offer itself grace or forgiveness for making honest mistakes or not always having the answer. self-love does not believe that it is incapable of coming into alignment with the highest form of it's self, self-love does not do others a favor by choosing people who do not love love enough to honor it, care for it, and create a safe space for it. self-love does not beat itself up or treat itself negatively for not adhering to standards that was created for it by people who had no intention of valuing it or not honoring it in the first place.

do you know what I mean?

some of us live our entire lives sitting around trying to adhere to ideas and fit into molds that were created with zero good intentions because we forget often that these things are not real and that they are just things we are conditioned to believe. Self-love is the realization that whatever you are or whomever you are, love does not love you any less for existing as is and it does NOT lie where you are not accepted, not desired, not respected, or not valued. worth and value does not lie in anything that defines your value by the rhetoric or perspective of the world or others.

you are a person of value to someone who loves you REGARDLESS of anything, this includes yourself as well!!!

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You know what I realized…How conditioned this generation has been into staying in relationships that aren’t serving us or aren’t working. All the time I heard during my teen years from others or on social media about relationships, “I want to be in a relationship where we don’t just break up we sit and “work it out”” or “nobody leaves, we stay”.

Normalize leaving when you witness disrespect. You or not obligated to stay in relationships that are unhealthy or that are creating issues within yourself and within others. Contrary to popular belief relationships and love are supposed to be easy, marriage is not “hard”, love is not supposed to be traumatizing or difficult to nurture or upkeep.

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When tomorrow you have to wake up and go to work like you did the day before and the day before that :(

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lmfao this is hilarious but it speaks volumes to how much power we hold and how capable we are even without us being aware that's the case. I've received a lot of messages lately about imposter syndrome and not being fully aware of our potential and how much we're able to do with the things that come naturally to us. we receive a compliment or someone tells us how powerful we are and we still have no idea because we're not tapped into that yet. I love the Godfather, well actually more like al pacino BUT i digress