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Me: I’m over stranger things now

*the new trailer is released*

Me: MAKE THEM GAY YOU LITTLE-

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call this controversial… but the losers.. clearly weren’t straight

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I LOVE BEVERLY MARSH

I LOVE BEVERLY MARSH

I LOVE BEVERLY MARSH

I LOVE BEVERLY MARSH

I LOVE BEVERLY MARSH

I LOVE BEVERLY MARSH

I LOVE BEVERLY MARSH

I LOVE BEVERLY MARSH

I LOVE BEVERLY MARSH

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:3

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Getting a new follower and finding out they’re a terf is kind of like getting a new follower only to realize it’s a porn bot, but a thousand times worse.

Porn bots don’t give a fuck about my content or who I am, but this terf actually scrolled through my blog and thought, “yes, this is a person whose opinions I’d like to see more of.” It makes me feel super fucking gross and that I’m probably not doing enough to support trans women.

So just for the record: trans women are women. The existence of trans women does not detract from my womanhood or the womanhood of anybody else. This is not a blog for people who believe otherwise. Take your transphobia elsewhere.

And, to my followers: please help me stay accountable. If I reblog something that marginalizes trans people (or sex workers or POC or anyone else), please let me know so that I can make amends.

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you know what? i’m about to say it

people on this hellsite hypersexualize eddie because he’s small and y’alls fetishistic view of mlm relationships stresses ‘the small one’ as being a bottom/slut/thot

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eddie kaspbrak

| ”i’m so tired of your illusions rules, they never change and my mind is so abusive from taking on the shapes when it comes to your love, is it unconditional? when it comes to my love, anything is fixable and all this noise is so relentless i need a second to breathe.”

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look at op, that motherfucker is leaking hamburger helper but go off i guess

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im sorry

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bi curious.. aka: it’s hard to figure out who you’re jealous of and who you love

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after seeing “love, simon” i’ve come to the conclusion that i need a girlfriend so hit me up for more details

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not to be that person but i bet if a bunch of sapphic wlw blogs were deleted for being russian spies, you all would lose your shit 

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who wants to be my punk girlfriend with dyed hair and a denim jacket with 13 patches and a myriad of faded band tees

who wants to be my skater girlfriend with snapbacks and high-top vans who can teach me how to actually skate well on my expensive board i never use

who wants to be my rebel girlfriend who pierced her own nose and has tattoos she got when she was 15 on her wrists who will hold my hand at the mall in front of all the older people who look at us weird

who wants to be my cuddly girlfriend who spends all day at the little starbucks inside barnes and noble who always wears sweatshirts and ties up her hair messily so she can keep her hair out of her face

who wants to be my domestic girlfriend who somehow learned how to cook and bake who watches netflix with me until 3 am and lets me braid her hair even though i’m not very good at it

who wants to be my artsy girlfriend who i take to the local art musuems and the zoo to take pictures and shows me her photo albums and sketchbooks full of half-finished doodles while she wears her jeans which always manage to have paint stains

who wants to be my night owl girlfriend who texts me at 2 am and tells me a strange idea she had in the shower and plays the sims for hours on end after a late night snack of monster and cheetos

who wants to be my activist girlfriend who isn’t afraid to stand up for people who can’t and takes me to pride and helps people to see the good in everyone

who wants to be my feminine girlfriend who teaches me how to do my makeup and looks pretty in every outfit she owns who is genuinely excited when i bring her flowers

who wants to be my girlfriend

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You know, it’s constantly bothersome how the primary source of prejudice in Transmisogyny is the inability of the vast majority of cis people to see trans-women as anything other than purely sexual objects.

For the most trans-women, the mere act of existing in a space is considered as a sexual action by the majority of cis people around them. A trans woman (especially if she’s not-white) doing something as mundane as walking down the street or checking into a hotel room can be detained by police under suspicion of prostitution (having any condoms on her person will even be used as evidence against her). There’s the narrative that trans women shouldn’t be allowed in public restrooms because people think that they would only do so to sexually assault or harass cis women or children.

There’s the idea that the entire purpose behind transitioning was to trick innocent cis people into having sex with someone that’s secretly a man. Mind you, almost no trans woman would do this for the simple fact that it’s a quick way to get murdered; and this narrative is also played up in the defense of cis-people that do murder trans women in the “Trans-Panic” defense which is completely legal in 48/50 states in the US.

Then there are those that attribute value on trans women based on how fuckable they perceive us to be. Some people see trans women as freaky beings that straddle the line of the defined binary in appearance and due to their personal lack of attraction to us see us as not worth treating as human. Or those whom believe that their finding us fuckable is the goal and that simply saying “Hey, I’d totally have sex with you.” is what we want every cis person to say. But these people still operate view us as purely sexual individuals without and other facets of worth to our lives.

And then there are those that see our transitions as a sort of extreme masturbatory fetish. As if the entire goal of it was some sexual self-gratification. That the whole thing was to take our bodies and change and dress them in a way to get ourselves off with an autogynophilic pleasure.

A couple days ago I came across a post that was a screenshot of a post made by a man. The post was a man comparing a picture of a trans woman that fell in to conventional standards of beauty, to a picture of a TERF whom deviated greatly from those same standards. The man then wrote a caption saying “No wonder TERFs hate trans women.” The implication that trans women are fuckable (and therefore good) while TERFs are not (and therefore bad). A separate TERF had then taken this as a whole and left a comment claiming that the man’s comments of finding trans women fuckable (and therefore good), was proof that trans women were accepted by the systems of the patriarchy and therefore not only not oppressed but an example of trans women’s supposed true goal of being thought of as fuckable whether by men, women, or both. Now they’re both completely off-base because again some random dude telling me he’d like to fuck me is no comfort (and actually rather creepy) and it’s no indication of viewing me as a person, and the TERFs wrong because her statement is almost the same as saying a woman who gets catcalled is less oppressed than a woman a man decides isn’t pretty enough to catcall.

The thing that all of those kind of cis people above don’t understand, is that being a trans woman has nothing to do with any of that, at all. All of those assumptions hinge on the exclusion of the concept that trans women have any personal identity outside of our sexuality. The fact of the matter is that our goals as trans women begin and end with 1)Being comfortable in our own skin. 2)Being able to do so while being treated as human. 3)Living a happy, multi-faceted life. The listed cis people don’t comprehend that simple fact, and until society at large does, transmisogyny will continue to widely persist.

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will byers is 47 today and I could not be more proud of him I love him so much

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Modern henclair headcanons

This is when they’re 22/23 and they live in cheap apartment

- They have the cleanest apartment because they’re not that messy gay couple we know

- “Ur a fuc in gAy” “I know I made out with you 20 minutes before you were this wasted”

- Honestly they are a PDA couple but instead of cute and annoying it’s more like they’re aggressively holding hands

- Vine kings they know literally almost every single vine

- Still giant nerds they have gone to see every single marvel movie because it’s their favorite series

- Went on a double date with elmax to see Wonder Woman and Black Panther

- They have a cat, dog, and bearded dragon

- The cats name is Dart jr cause he was the first pet they got when they moved into their apartment

- their big ass golden retriever is named Diana because they’re unoriginal

- and finally the bearded dragon is named Mr. Clarke

- Movie nights with the Party every Sunday

- Dustin cried/grossly sobbed during Steve’s wedding

- Dustin was Steve’s best man

- Honestly they took the longest time to realize their feelings

- They’re so happy together

- They have so many plants along with their 3 pets and max can barely keep her succulent alive so ???

- Everyone knew they were dating before they told anyone because the romantic/sexual tension disappeared

- They binge tv on saturdays and go hiking with Diana

- Dustin is still chubby and a science nerd and his boyfriend Lucas still teases him about being a nerd even if he is one too

- They make a lot of stoner food (spaghetti tacos cause who makes that when they’re sober, ice cream and tapito/sriracha, and cereal with ice cream)

- They still have a lot of arguments but rarely do they have actual “fights”

- The hand shaking rule is still in place and they still use it

- honestly they’re living their best life out there with their plants, pets, and friends and they wouldn’t change it for a thing