Reasons someone may not have replied that aren’t the bad reasons your brain suggests to you (they’re mad, stopped caring, you aren’t important, etc).
They’re asleep/resting.
They have no service.
They want to take time to form their reply.
They don’t have the energy to reply right now.
They’re working / don’t have access to their phone.
They accidentally opened the notification and meant to reply and got distracted (this doesn’t mean they don’t care either! I do this a lot and I love my loved ones dearly. My brain is just chaotic sometimes.)
They’re in a really bad place.
They’re in a situation where it’s rude to use their phone.
They really just want a break from talking to people.
They are enjoying a movie, game, activity, etc.
Something came up they had to deal with asap.
They may have thought they responded (I’ve gone to check a text convo only to see my message sitting in the typing box and I hadn’t hit “send”)
A lot of the time, to challenge irrational thoughts we need alternative explanations to combat them. Here are some for a situation when a loved one hasn’t replied to you. I encourage you to plan for other situations that come up for you as well.
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No bad takes were found. This is exactly what I'd hoped it would be. My heart hurts and my evil braincells are very happy
So I saw this on a different blog, but give me Kensington lyrics for the Marauders and their friends
Ah, Britt. You can't just send me something like this out of nowhere. You know what this stuff does to my brain. But I'm starting this off by saying I have no idea how many characters I'll actually do.
And I'm continuing it nearly two days later by saying that I've spent hours thinking about this. I've studied. You've thrown me back into my Kensington phase (they really are amazing, just saying. if you've never listened to them, i highly recommend). I've made lists. Charts! No, not charts, mostly because I don't have the patience for that, but I did make lists. Extensively. I did my due diligence, my nefarious and sly friend.
And because I took this very seriously, I approached it from a canon standpoint only, and I tried extremely hard to leave ships out of it. (see how well that worked, huh)
Marauders
I found two definite choices for the whole lot of them together. Fiji and Perfect Family Day
Not all we're building up is indestructible
But all we're hoping for
We'll know how to get it though
We'll know how...
To get in a constant phase
Of digging a heart-shaped grave for ourselves
And
Every night's the same
God has left this place
Left us on his way out
Cover up these stains
Keeping up appearances
Jaded smiles remain
Watching fate take place
We're sulking and we're stumbling through
Grey and spiteful days
I could honestly quote the entire song, really
James
James is also Fiji, just different pieces of it. I think this song is a good way to look at how he viewed his friends and the people closest to him during the war.
A hell of a case you'd make
If only the tides weren't so strong
You're letting it in, all you're darkest ways
Waste it all away
Inside of a king-sized cage
Enough of the comforts of home
But none of it all takes the bars away
Peter
Peter is Bridges, What Lies Ahead (but that one is more because it kind of amuses me), and Island
Yet another ungraceful evening
Another man's faith
An easy foe
And we're off to shiver
In the face of the unknown
Yet another ungrateful weekday
We're caught in a game
Where the winner takes all
And we're off to tell it
As the greatest story told
Though we long together
For the tables to turn
Though we pray together
For the bridges to burn
Still we stay cold
We got carried away by it
We got carried away from home
And
And all I do
Is getting lost in the past
To find where I'd first hear
I was never gonna be somebody
That I was never gonna feel light come around
And
I don't want to blame
I just want to leave this horrid place the way I came
But here we are again
I don't want to wait
For another wave to come and rule another day
I don't want to stay
I just want to wash away this vile and awful taste
But here are again
Got nothing more to say
Only want to leave it an not seek for it again
And I'll be an island
And the shore where I stand
Can't be reached by more than waves
I told my sharks
That I need an island
For I know the violence
And I'll make the same mistakes again
Remus
Our Moony is Storms and What Lies Ahead. And they're both just...so very sad to me.
I don't want to be alarmed
I don't want to know what's coming
I don't want to lie here
Waiting for my end
If I knew how to fight it
I would never go never go dark
I will never be a storm again
But if it's easier now then I'll pretend
And (this one is so very second war to me. and it could reflect on the war itself and the wizarding world...or Dumbledore...or Sirius)
And they rise again as I am told that I should see
Red now
And to fear what lies ahead now
But I know that I will
Do everything for you again
I will do everything for you again
And I bet now
You will see that I will burn what I don't need here
Lily
I only found one for Lily (though if i'd wanted to focus on the whole Snape aspect, i could have chosen so many more), but her song is Uncharted. I feel like it's an accurate way of how she would have viewed all the loss during the war.
No one knows what part to play
It's like the we're in uncharted territory
No one knows another way
It's like all grace in life has parted from me
And all sensible words
All sensible souls
Oh, where do they go?
And why do they leave us now?
And if I could go back again, I'll go back again
If the worst is happening, how does anything work?
Now let me please go back again, I'll go back again
Sirius
Obviously, I found soooo many for Sirius. So very many that I had to tame it down and really narrow my options. Who's surprised? You shouldn't be.
Sirius is Storms just as much (probably more) as Remus is.
Don't want to be alone
But genuine lives won't appear
On the horizon
Oh, what a long wait
If there's no way to find it
Will I ever calm ever calm down?
I will never be a storm again
But if it's easier now then I'll pretend
To leave it all
He's System. He is the entire song.
And all I am trying to gain
I'll seed it then forget how to reap now
So I'll deny it again
How your wrong is my right
How your luck is my doubt
But no, don't ever leave me out
Sirius is Insane.
Scenes of distress
They follow me around 'til I lose again and by then
(You might be calm but my head will explode)
I'm out of moves here
I swallow it down like a poison undefined
That enters my veins like a thread that I can't shake
'Til I cave
It's not the words, not the fear or the doubt
Not the lack of heart that takes me out
It's the knowing that you can't relate when you're insane
It's not the pain, not the bruise or the scars
It's the knowing that you can't relate when you're insane
I know I wait too long
Before I will break a bond
I know my body froze
My greatest loss
He is No Me, and while this song has a very obvious meaning, at least to me, I think so many parts of it apply perfectly to Sirius.
See the fading of the past
The unwinding of the thread
It was all above me
Right above my head
Now it's pouring on me
It's dawning on me
That everything that's golden
Is buried deep in ground eroded
Now start digging there where all the lines meet
Regulus
Ooooh. Regulus is Slicer, no question about it.
What are you aiming for?
I will never be the one to call
When your heart is in need
The coward in me
Will be all that you face
Why do you say no more?
Was the heaven I sold you on
Just a trifling daze?
A glorious cage?
And it was in vain?
Then how do we get
Stone cold, red hot and
And now we're on like a thunder
Soon all ends go dead
Then how will we get away?
I was going to do more individual characters, but this is hard and I ran out of steam. But obviously I couldn't resist throwing some relationships/pairings into it (platonic or romantic, however you choose to look at it). I'm not going to list any lyrics for these because I'm starting to go cross-eyed, but feel free to take a listen to the songs!
Black brothers
These two...oh, these two. They have my heart, they really do. The whole of the Marauders clump is so very tragic from a canon standpoint, but these brothers stab me in the chest every time I think about them.
Regret, Sorry, and Rivals really hits home for them in certain areas of those songs.
Sirius + Remus
This first one mostly comes from a second war viewpoint for me, after they reunite, after the truth is out, while the second is just a general good song for all they've lost.
St. Helena and Uncharted
James + Sirius
I just can't help myself. And it's possible that the first song is more romantic than platonic. Actually maybe more than little unrequited one-sided love sort of thing. The second just sums them up for me, all that they did for each, all that they were willing to do for each other.
Riddles and Ten Times the Weight
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