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at the risk of being a pure evil mra i do think it’s kind of weird when cis people hop on the “trans men are as bad as cis ones” train. like it’s fine to reblog posts and be Aware buttt….there feels like a line of being overconcerned. But that’s again probably me having internalized transphobia or something for thinking it’s something cis people shouldn’t talk about as much as the actual victims, trans women. I’m sorry women and cis men

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We really need a "like reply" feature because sometimes I don't have a good response when a friend comments on my post but I still want them to know I see and appreciate it

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personal money question

unfortunately I don’t have a job of my own….anyways, how much is 45000~ a year? I know it’s rich, but how high up is it? I want to know how much I can not-spend on groceries and such to help my mom out with what she needs, and hopefully to take some to help other people

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something that helped me in trying to improve my tendancy to overcorrect is to try to quell my panic and ask myself if I'm trying to fix it for me ("I'm terrified of being the bad guy, if I hurt anyone I don't know how to live with myself") or if I'm trying to fix it for others' sake ("What do they need from me in this situation? Have I asked them? Am I giving them the space they need to make their own decisions about their needs?"). It's not always easy and slipping up is inevitable, but I hope this is helpful in your quest to improve these particular emotional reasoning skills

thank you. I’m not scared of being a bad person, i am always a bad person by virtue of my identity & also just being very stupid and not into what other people are. I always care about what other people feel more, not out of anything, i just don’t like myself much and don’t need much to live. it’s just I don’t know how to ask - I’ll always apologize and promise to do whatever they want, and I always say that it’s okay to please be mad at me, and apologizing is the one thing I know how to do well. I just wish I knew why it upsets people more, when I clarify im the only problem. I will try

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Its been so nasty to watch how many trans men i thought were smart and cool and nice and socially aware fall for transandrophobia theory and choose their own egos over trans women. Idk if this sounds performative but I will always drop your ass if you decide to indulge in this shit and I implore you to surround yourself with trans women so you don't go insane in your echo chamber convincing yourself it's totally normal for you to believe trans women who tell you not to be an MRA are "rad fems" and that you should be posting constantly about how trans women are so nasty and evil and tearing this community apart or whatever

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youtube should give viewers the option to grade video essays like it's a high school english class assignment and if the median grade is below passing then they stick a huge png over your video advising that this is a vlog with slide show components. if the youtuber ever goes "umm. I'm not going to attempt to pronounce this" at any point then they're genetically altered to be able to survive underground and let loose in an endless series of catacombs built beneath their home to live the rest of their life as the fabled town troll.

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If you can't cope with the reality of having been wrong, done something wrong, or hurt someone without melting down or having a crisis, you're not safe for anyone to be around, btw. Fucking up is an inevitability of being alive. You literally need need to learn to handle situations in which your actions caused someone else to be hurt, because this is never going to be a thing that just stops happening. Being able to just be wrong, or misinformed, or ignorant, or straight up the one who committed an unforced error to others' detriment while maintaining at least a thin veneer of decorum and reasonability is not optional.

You're not owed forgiveness by others, but you need to learn how to forgive yourself for running afoul of your own value system, otherwise you will render yourself incapable of internalizing when you actually have, thus rendering the value system itself utterly useless at guiding your behaviors, and rendering you effectively devoid of one, besides "I'm never wrong, I'm never the bad guy," I guess. And I'm sure you don't need me to explain how that can only go horrifically, catastrophically wrong.

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personal money question

unfortunately I don’t have a job of my own….anyways, how much is 45000~ a year? I know it’s rich, but how high up is it? I want to know how much I can not-spend on groceries and such to help my mom out with what she needs, and hopefully to take some to help other people

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btw

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Johnny Cash and Ida Lupino in #Columbo 1974 episode, “Swan Song”

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Columbo: Swan Song (1974) Nicholas Colasanto.

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how are you people alive.

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personal money question

unfortunately I don’t have a job of my own….anyways, how much is 45000~ a year? I know it’s rich, but how high up is it? I want to know how much I can not-spend on groceries and such to help my mom out with what she needs, and hopefully to take some to help other people

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YOUNG MOTHER’S LIFE AT RISK‼️

UPDATED 17 July 2025——As discussed previously, Bshaer has contracted a horrible infection due to drinking water contaminated by the IOF invasion, and any day now the infection may spread to her brain. She has already gone two days without treatment, she CANNOT go a third day without a dose or the infection will progress!

She currently needs $100 usd to pay for her next round of medication, of which she currently needs at least 5 doses, 1 dose every day. We are raising funds 1 dose at a time. WITHOUT THESE ANTIBIOTICS, BSHAER WILL DIE.

Please donate anything you can, and share her family's GFM and Chuffed campaigns across all your social media accounts!!

CURRENT: $60,370 out of $60,470 usd on GFM

Need to raise: $100 usd

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& explain……I like to learn:)