Tryna get these brothas together because they are destroying the community and then complaining how bad the women are . From the time they start dating playing with the women in community lives like it’s nothing . And then get older and complain how bad the women are like they had no part .
Nah facts it’s a lost art of courting women . When you value women’s company it comes so easy . And they give what you give ten fold . A lot of these dudes really don’t like women , can’t hold conversations, are not good company to be around .
I vet all the women I talk to . Make sure they are right for me . And when we on the same vibe mentally , spiritually, etc then we go in dates . I pay I love that as a man . A lot of these dudes don’t feel pride in being a man treating a lady without getting something . I treat these ladies just because I like who they are and how they make me feel being around them . They be really good people .
Nah facts it’s a lost art of courting women . When you value women’s company it comes so easy . And they give what you give ten fold . A lot of these dudes really don’t like women , can’t hold conversations, are not good company to be around .
I vet all the women I talk to . Make sure they are right for me . And when we on the same vibe mentally , spiritually, etc then we go in dates . I pay I love that as a man . A lot of these dudes don’t feel pride in being a man treating a lady without getting something . I treat these ladies just because I like who they are and how they make me feel being around them . They be really good people .
These are the brothas in the community women be talking about . There are so many but we still blame women for holding down black men . Putting trust in black men . Giving black men Chances . If we really want to change the community we have to change these men or get them out of the community doing harm . They prey on women and children .
We can’t want to be viewed in a good light but have brothas in the community doing shit like this . We can’t expect our women to get abused and be quiet about it . We need to know these things to fix them and protect them. We need brothas doing good rather than worrying about how the world view us . A long as our community view us in a good light because we are protecting and providing , that’s all that matter . Doing good is the only that truly matter.
Anytime you see a black women being loved we should be happy and promote that but instead we show hate . It’s weird af . We say we want black men to be shown in good light and how all black men aren’t the same . Black love is amazing . Black love should be easy and don’t have to go through stuff to just be good .
A lot brothas are obsessed with having our women be beneath them because we lack self worth . We need them to submit to validate us as a man . That submissive bs came from white men and white supremacy. To make white people feel superior they had to teach us to hate ourselves be submissive and cooperative . That if we didn’t we would be the “good black”.
I’ve seen so many brothas turn their back on the community in the name of having a white spouse .