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Feminine trans men are men.

"Girly" trans men are men.

Feminine nonbinary people are nonbinary.

"Girly" nonbinary people are nonbinary.

Being feminine or girly does not make you any less of a man

Being feminine or girly does not make you any less nonbinary

Some people might try to tell you otherwise but you know yourself best.

stay strong

love y'all

have a wonderful day

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gnc culture is being trans but performing your assigned gender extremely because you view it as being gnc. (for example, i'm a trans man who was afab but i wear dresses and makeup because it makes me feel more like a boy)

that's so cool of you, anon. genuinely.

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also on the topic of gender-conformity-club, wanted to make sure you're aware they have your blog directly linked in their pinned post.

just sent an ask abt gncc's pinned post and im p sure i made a typo lol so gender NONconformity club* i meant to say

I’m fully aware — genuinely: do you expect me to do something about this one?

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gender-nonconformity-club is a crypto-TERF blog. the fact that they reblog from transmisogynists and that their pinned post specifies the blog is only about cis people and talks about how "gnc people arent 'eggs' who need to be cracked" (referencing the bullshit idea that gay people are being forcibly transitioned) is proof enough.

oh goddammit. i was willing to give them an inch on trying to discuss specifically cis gnc people (because the only people talking about them tend to be terfs and there’s an idea on tumblr you must be trans to be gnc) and gnc people not being eggs (frequently true + the idea presentation must belie one’s true gender has always rubbed me wrong). but i do not and never will knowingly abide by transmisogyny. thank you for letting me know.

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fat boys everywhere: wear that crop top. wear those booty shorts. wear those mini skirts and body suits and skin-tight shirts. wear those sexy clothes-- you can pull it off. you look hot as fuck, and dont let anyone tell you any differently

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gnc culture is being a girl in the way a girl is not a girl

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genderfluid gnc culture is having no fucking idea what you want to do with your hair

a genderfluid friend of mine's just been rocking a mullet sideshave. i don't think it knows what to do either.

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gnc culture is being oohhh sooo sleeepyy

so true. i'm sleepy while typing this.

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gender non conforming people

intersex people

and trans folks in their own way

have existed since time immemorial

and we always will

Here are some from way before my time

(Its a work in prog)

The Public Universal Friend

In Indigenous storytelling and culture

(terfs and queers who’d rather assimilate than support trans/gnc/intersex people can kindly fuck off)

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Help a disabled woman to get groceries for April!!

**URGENT: PLEASE READ/SIGNAL BOOST!!**

Sunday, April 7th: Hello everyone, I’m Gemma, a bi, mentally ill, and disabled woman in desperate need of help, as I'm struggling to get groceries this month!!

For those who don't know, I got a smart meter installed for my gas & electricity on Friday (29th), but the engineer somehow fu#ked up during the process of installing the electrical meter, and cut my power for a few days and it's only recently came back on. I've been compensated by my supplier with credit into my electricity meter.

However, during that time, I wasn't able to cook anything, and my fridge/freezer melted, and the food I had stored there is no longer safe to eat, and I need help in getting groceries. I've only just managed to pay off my overdue rent balance and bills, which hasn't left me anything to get groceries for April, and my PayPal is in the red by £26.49.

If anyone could spare any amount to help me, it would save my life, and sharing helps just as much as donations.

Thank you for all your help!! ❤️

£0/£150!!!

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(warning, this is a vent, but i am also asking for advice genuinely, if you dont have the energy to read that sort of thing now then that's okay, take care of yourself 💙)

How do I get over my fear of correcting people?

I have my pronouns (it/they) on a pin on my bag (it's actually just it/its, but that was the only pin available with 'it' - but I don't mind they/them), I've said that those are my pronouns, and yet when I get misgendered, even by well-meaning people who say "Please correct me if I mess up!", I just don't do it. It makes me extremely uncomfortable to be seen as my agab, even though I present in a way that would conform to it. I'm also scared of changing my name and the things that come with that (telling people I go by a different name, etc). I was selling pins for a fundraiser my school was doing, during a basketball game which I wasn't interested in. I was wearing my aforementioned pin on my sweater, which under it I had on my one item of trans gear that would make me appear less like my agab. Multiple people asked for my name. I had to give them my deadname, because nobody knows me by my real name. I don't want to do that anymore I want to be known by my chosen name I want people to see me as my real self.

you just do it often, i think. you deserve to be addressed with respect. i've found some success in going, "ah, i'm actually 'x', 'y' is just my legal name. long story." if I have to give out my deadname.

would love to hear from others about this though

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when you go on Testosterone and Get top surgery and loving every change to your body. But you find the more masculine your body gets the more you want to express and dress femme. And now you have a closet full of dresses and am working towards bottom surgery.

That's wonderful! I'm so happy for you.

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GNC is being trans nonbinary and on HRT for a hormone associated with your AGAB.

I've been on progesterone since I was 16 for a hormone imbalance, and I consider it my first mood stabilizer. I love my progesterone and I don't plan to switch to testosterone unless I need to for bottom surgery. Progesterone keeps me leveled and stable and I'm so glad that I was put on it, because otherwise I'd be unstable and miserable and in ghe psychward evwrytime I got my period.

hell yeah! i'm really happy to hear that. it's been a while since we recieved this ask --- i hope that progesterone is continuing to work out great for you.

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as a trans boything it’s so fucking hard for me to be gnc in the way that i want to be bc i’ve never managed to look successfully masculine enough that looking feminine at the same time is going to work. that didn’t make sense but you get me?? you understand me?? i can’t look masc enough to look fem, does that make sense??

i understand you. good luck.

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btw i know we haven’t really said anything about this but this is a vehemently pro Palestine blog.

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gnc culture is wearing a soft girl aesthetic outfit but with no makeup, messy hair, and men’s cologne or dressing like a Straight Man (different from a straight man) (sweat pants, baggy sweatshirt, ratty tennis shoes, ball cap) but with pretty feminine makeup and jewelry (i have worn both these outfits in the past week)

that sounds great!

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Expressing my desire to dress as a mix of fem and masc with facial hair and a push up bra but being told not to by a friend and that id just be making trans women look bad

Damn, I hope you get better fuckin' friends. Having facial hair is just something you /have/. All people have it, if in different quantities, and it certainly doesn't make all trans women look bad for you to present in a way that makes you personally euphoric.