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it breaks my heart when i see survivors of emotional abuse who were so harshly invalidated, punished and tortured for their own emotions they now don’t dare to feel,
they have to ask someone else for every single feeling if it’s okay, if it’s overreacting, if it’s logical, if it’s acceptable for them to feel it, if they have a good enough reason to feel the way they do,
it’s fucking devastating, to suffer abuse that makes them doubt their every emotion and makes it unsafe for them to feel it,
they can’t even think about expressing it because even just feeling it makes them guilty!
they’re scared of their own emotions
and consider every emotion that isn’t super convenient to everyone around them to be a burden and a proof of their failure to control themselves and be a proper person
feelings aren’t illogical, they aren’t wrong,
they aren’t here for no reason, they aren’t a failure of self control, they aren’t a burden, they are not an inconvenience!
emotions are generated from actual things that happened,
they are normal reactions to things that actually happened!
if you feel scared, anxious, hurt, overwhelmed, terrified, panicked, even if it seems illogical there’s a very good reason you feel this way.
you aren’t supposed to control how you feel,
you aren’t supposed to doubt your emotions, they are always just a reaction, they do not come from you!
they’re not your failure,
feeling all this is normal and logical under unbearable circumstances of abuse and torture,
feeling all these as a symptom after being exposed to trauma and abuse is normal and humane.
the only reason anyone ever told you that the way you feel is wrong is because they wanted to dismiss and deny what’s happening to you.
they didn’t want you to see the truth.
they didn’t want to show basic human decency to you and acknowledge that something horrible happened to you and caused this shitstorm of emotions you’re going through.
it’s a part of global agenda to deny abuse and oppression is happening and forcing people to act “socially acceptable” while they’re going through torture.
your feelings were right all along.
your feelings don’t have to be socially acceptable.
nothing about you has to be socially acceptable.
you’re not impossible to handle, or too much to deal with, or a burden to others,
you already spent so much energy protecting everyone from what is going on inside of you, it’s been enough of doubt, enough of guilt,
it’s not you who is fucked up, it’s the world who denies validation to your reality.
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Pink Trombone is a clickable simulator of the vocal tract. Click or drag to move the lips, tongue, or soft palate and hear the effects immediately. See also this interactive sagittal section, which has narrower controls but more IPA support.
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A couple is walking in St. Petersburg Square on Christmas Eve. They feel a slight precipitation.
“I think it’s raining,” says the man.
“No, it’s snowing,” replies the woman.
“How about we ask this Communist officer here? He is always right!” exclaims the man. “Officer Rudolph, is it raining or snowing?”
“Definitely raining,” Officer Rudolph replies before walking off.
The man turns to his wife with a smile. “See? Rudolph the Red knows rain, dear.”
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maybe i’m just only able to see my own perspective but I dont’ understand how someone can FEEL like a gender .... like i just feel like a person? idk









[THE GENDERQUEER SERIES]
Genderqueer (.noun): denoting or relating to a person who does not subscribe to conventional gender distinctions but identifies with neither, both, or a combination of male and female genders.
Get informed // talk to others in the genderqueer community // how to become an ally
(Please correct me if something in this post is wrong or offends you!)
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My greatest fear is that I am intelligent enough to know what I want but not intelligent enough to achieve it.
Sue Zhao (via alexbenedetto)
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hotels that understand customer service
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*is stressed and sad* *makes a purchase* *is ok for 9 hours maybe*
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why the fuck I’m crying why I’m always crying mhmmm oh my god, stop fucking crying
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Anxiety attacks aren’t always hyperventilating and rocking back and forth
Anxiety attacks can take different forms, such as:
Unpredictable bouts of rage or irritability
Nit-pickiness (obsessive behavior, which may be a part of OCD), and even a hypersensitivity to disarray, chaos, or any sort of change
Fast-talking, stuttering, stumbling over words
Not talking at all
Sitting rigid, staring into space, almost seeming “zoned out”
Understanding the way our or other’s anxiety works can help to decrease the stigma and help to calm a person faster and get them out of that state. These are just a few, but it gives an idea of the range in which attacks can come.
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anyone please ask your crush out like this
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I don’t dress up for boys. I dress up to stare at my reflection as I walk by store windows.
(via gunsounds)
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What the signs don't tell you (sun or moon)
Aries: they're afraid the people they love will get sick of them. Aries people will try to make themselves exactly what the world is looking for and get disappointed in themselves when they can't add up to societies standards. They will tell themselves that is doesn't matter, but love is a huge chunk of who they are and what they need.
Taurus: all they want is to be accepted. taurus people will do whatever they need to get noticed or get the attention desired, no matter what this includes. taurus people would often rather be viewed as perfect, even if that puts their own happiness at line.
Gemini: they are lonely. Geminis are often viewed as social butterflies and yet they feel completely isolated from everyone and everything. Often times they just want to be seen for who they are and not what they have to pretend to be.
Cancer: they don't always mean well. Cancer people are often known as being able to forgive and forget easily, but that does not mean they do. cancer people can hold onto something for years, yet act as if it's forgotten to avoid drama or trouble.
Leo: they are afraid. Leos are afraid of themselves and the world around them. They want to be carefree and so they create the illusion that they are. And yet they always seem to hesitate, even if it's just for a fraction of a second, when you ask them a question about themselves. They are just a lost as you.
Virgo: they want to be bolder. many virgo people act extremely innocent and childish, but crave to have more of a wild side. virgo people often find satisfaction in bringing on an appearance different from how they feel they are. they tend to adventure into a wild side to experience things.
Libra: they need to save themselves. Libras are comfortable with accepting help but not in this department. They feel that they must be the ones to make themselves happy in the end. They just want to find their own strength. To them, love is important but not nearly as important as being independent and stable.
Scorpio: they are never satisfied with the present day. scorpio people will always want to go back or to go forward. many scorpio people will take this out by acting as an age other than their own, by either dressing older and doing things uncommon for someone their age or trying to bring everything into nostalgia, mimicking their former self.
Sagittarius: they are lost. Sagittarians often feel alone and confused. Every direction is a good direction to them and so they always stay in one place debating on where to go and what to do. They wish they could lead a thousand lives in a day and quietly punish themselves because they know they cannot.
Capricorn: they are insecure. Capricorns are always seen as the hardworking, heartless people of the zodiac. Most of the time they go along with this stereotype even though it makes them feel like half a person. They want to experience things they believe are out of their reach. They need someone to show them the way.
Aquarius: they are infatuated with worlds they can never belong to. Aquarians tend to travel all over the universe in their minds. Because of this, they often lose their sense of self and end up feeling like they don't belong anywhere. They need a place to feel safe, but not bored. They need the whole world but they know they'll never have it. That's their biggest challenge in life: finding a way to cope with the small amount of sky they are given.
Pisces: they will never be satisfied with who they are. they will always feel as if there is something wrong and they are experts at pointing out their own flaws. a time a pisces does not want to change something about themselves is an extremely rare time.
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Quarry turned into luxury swimming pool. (Gifset via: orboLOOPS5)
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A message to anyone who doesn't think The Arts are hardcore as fuck:
You’re wrong.
If a dancer sprains their ankle they’ll just wrap it and smile through the pain as they do crazy-ass jumps and turns and shit on it. Like, how even, Id be crying and falling over but they look like fucking deities
Theater kids rehearse for hours every day. HOURS. Like, 8+ hours on a SUNDAY for gods sake I don’t see no football player doing that tbh
Don’t even get me started on music kids. Not only do they have to have SUCH A HIGH TOLERANCE FOR BULLSHIT but reeds are fucking hell and strings fillet your fingers into little strips of flesh. Ew, I know.
And like the art kids (painting and sculpting and that shit) holy hell do they have patience. Anyone else who stares at a canvas for 6 hours consecutively would probs go insane and commit mass murder. And holy hell batman paint hurts like a soda can up your ass when it gets in your eyes like nooooo
Makeup artists have to deal with your ugly ass faces and somehow (probs by using black magic) turn trashcans into gods.
Then there’s photographers who will literally sometimes crawl down drainpipes or fall head-first out of trees to get a nice picture. I wouldn’t do none of that shit wasted as fuck, let alone sober.
Conclusion: Art ppl= hardcore as peaches
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