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I once had a guy tell me i have become the thing he hated the most: a feminist. Thank you for loving me so much, brother.
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I once had a guy tell a classmate (after she joked about wanting to forego college and marry rich) that she was "too much of a fatass to land a rich man". This guy was our high school debate teacher.
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I once had a guy tell me he could see the women shopping in a very expensive handbag store, and that he liked to call them "marriage whores" because - his logic- they were probably all married to someone wealthy, stay at home, thus their husbands paid for the bags. (This was someone with a degree who insisted his gf marry him or there's be no point to the relationship.)
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I once had a guy tell me that it was like a slap in the face to god when I said I wanted to get a breast reduction.
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I once had a guy tell me that my thighs were fat, but it's okay because guys like that. He then proceeded to slap my ass.
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I'm going on a brief hiatus - a mental health break. Until then, the asks have been turned off. See you in a bit.
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I once had a guy (who i thought was my friend) touch me inappropriately during a class. I told him to stop it and he just kept going and going. He would stroke inside my thighs all the way up to my breasts. I got the courage to tell the teacher and I found out that several other girls had complained too. The teacher removed him from the class and eventually was suspended.
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My boyfriend jokes about how he will rape me and also told me I should be glad that he didn't just 'shove it in all the way' when we has sex for the first time.
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i once had a guy say that he thought i was 'punishing him' when i wouldn't let him grope me while we were watching a movie.
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I once had a male teacher tell me to "be careful about using that word" when I said I was a feminist because "I don't think you understand what it means".
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I once had a group of guys walk past me as I walked my dog near my house and rowdily they told me they were going to rape my dog before talking about my arse/breasts (I was wearing baggy clothes) and what they'd "like to do to me", I was on the phone to my boyfriend and needless to say I was pretty terrified, I was just glad it was day time.
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I once had two guys tell me that they felt really bad for the pedophile in "Hard Candy", and that my conviction that he deserved what he got was super mean.
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I once had a guy tell me that I'm overreacting on the topic of sexism for mentioning male privilege and he wanted me to reassure him he's not part of the problem - apparently so he doesn't have to question his own behavior and take responsibility for his actions. Not acknowledging male privilege obviously isn't sexist.
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I once had a guy (my boyfriend at the time) tell me that breasts existed for guys to play with. He would often grope me without my permission and get mad when I objected to it.
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I once had a guy tell me it was "sad" that I was going to grow up and become a woman because "they're all shallow and dumb and obsessed with stuff like make-up". That guy was my little brother, and he said to me around my 16th birthday (I remember there was some generic mean popular girl on the show he was watching). Now that he's a teenager, I have to put up with more outright get-in-the-kitchen stuff, and we don't get along nearly as well as we did when we were little.
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I once had two guys torment me in high school because of my thick pubic hair, calling me "monkeyc*nt". They only knew about it because they pulled down my skirt and underwear in the bathroom one day. I eventually had to switch schools because of bullying, and was told the boys couldn't be punished because they hadn't "really done anything" (of course, if they HAD sexually assaulted me back then, I probably would have been called a liar).
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I once had a guy tell the whole school that I ate used pads and tampons out of the garbage can in the girl's bathroom. I was really spending most of my day in there crying because my mom was dying of leukemia, and his group of friends made fun of me for that, too, always asking me if she was dead yet and how they hoped she was in pain. I lost my last hiding place and eventually stopped going to school.
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