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how do y'all not let the things you like consume your entire being

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Today is a great day, to have a great day!

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No crumbs left.

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Sometimes self-care is, actually, NOT getting onto the computer and little treats and watching youtube videos. Sometimes those things are self-care, but sometimes they're also avoidant behaviors.

Sometimes self care is waking up and just. Fucking getting in the car. And driving to the bank. And the store. And buying the cat litter. And changing the cat boxes you've been avoiding because your brains been stuck in a hole. And picking up the trash you've been piling up. And getting a load into the wash. And mowing the lawn before the village council sends you a formal complaint and potential-fines warning.

Like its hard and annoying to do because it sucks. It sucks so much. But if I don't start working on this pile of bullshit I've let build up because it stinks and i was stuck in deer-in-headlights mode, I risk letting it turn into fuckery. I do not have the patience for fuckery that I once - foolishly! - thought I had.

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reminder that there is no shame in going back to therapy. difficult situations, feelings and thoughts come up in life. you deserve help to process them.

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This is your reminder to go get your oil changed ‼️

You do not want to ruin your car or stall in the middle of the highway!

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the world isn’t so bad. it has you in it, after all.

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the whisper of turning pages feels like a secret conversation with history

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it’s okay to look back and realize you were in the wrong. it’s more than okay to realize you could’ve been more honest, more courageous, more empathetic. we can’t change the past or fix everything with a single apology towards ourselves or other people, but we can learn to make new choices that better suit our beliefs & values, choices that reflect our growth. keep moving forward, keep working on you. in case no one has told you today: i’m proud of your progress, proud of the person you are becoming. 

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Dave Rygalski is THE blueprint. Best boy out there.

Did Dean ever read the entire Bible in one night to win the approval of his girlfriend’s mom? No, no he didn’t. Dean could never comprehend a girlfriend’s mom not liking him.

Did Logan ever run across Star’s Hollow just to briefly see Rory and then run back while on a break from playing hymns for her mother? No way he would’ve done that, especially considering that he only visited Star’s Hollow once the entire time they dated. He would’ve hired a private driver, maybe, but he never would’ve run.

Did Jess ever try to win Rory’s mother’s favor multiple times and refuse to give up? Did he agree to let Rory pretend date someone else in an elaborate ruse to eventually get them together? No, Jess would get too jealous.

Dave is superior, Lane deserved better than Zack and I stand by this.

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© 𝖡𝗈𝖻 𝖱𝖺𝖽𝗅𝗂𝗇𝗌𝗄𝗂

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— Sylvia Plath, The Journals of Sylvia Plath

[text ID: Outside it is warm and blue and April.]

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ive gotten so much mileage out of this tweet. every time i see something on the internet that makes me mad i just think to myself "people in real life: hey man how's it going" and i keep it pushing

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My favorite sex position is when you love them and they love you back.