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Partner keeps booting my collection of stuffed moths from the bed every time I leave. What's to be done about this?

Edit: /lh

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shout out to fat and chubby regressors and regressors who don't see their body type in any media! youre beautiful and your regression isn't any less valid because of how you look.

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Reblog if your blog is a judgement-free zone!

Regressors of all kinds are welcome here: regressors of color, neurodivergent regressors, fat regressors, system regressors, disabled regressors, queer regressors, older regressors, hairy regressors, regressors who are addicts, mentally ill regressors, fandom regressors, diapered regressors, middle regressors, teen regressors, regressors who do it just for fun, regressors who do it involuntarily, regressors who post positivity, regressors who use their blog to vent, regressors who are also caregivers, permaregressors, regressors who only age dream, regressors who watch content geared towards adults, regressors who don't want caregivers, regressors of all kinds!

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little bug, i'm so sorry your partner isn't supportive of the ways you cope. it's not healthy for them to be so unsupportive of something completely safe and healing for you..if you'd like, you can ramble to me as a response

--teacher cg anonymous

Its otay He don rly wan unerstand it, but I don get mad bc I know he jus don fully know how much dis helps me be safe n not anxious. Oderwise tho he perfect. Am tini around him sumtimes but only wen eepy. I think he knows it but don care. Dunno. Is confusing. ╮⁠(⁠.⁠ ⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)⁠╭乁⁠|⁠ ⁠･⁠ ⁠〰⁠ ⁠･⁠ ⁠|⁠ㄏ

My oder tini fren is a system lil so only get see him sumtimes. Don wanna bring him up front if he don wan be out bc I know dat can be scary so I jus wait for him n talk to him on his own time. I make stuff for him tho all da time! We hav matching bracelet wif a rattle on dem! I hav oder frens who know n support me very much, so need set goal n be mor open wif dem.

Time to talk bout sum happi stuffs bc we needs more cheer in da world I think. (⁠ ⁠╹⁠▽⁠╹⁠ ⁠)

My fren gave me a tub of yarn yeserday! fren also dye my hair dis weeken wen I don hav work anymor. Wan black n red split dye but hav get black n red ombre so look less crazy wen I go to college. I cant wait to go to college bc hav my own room n own space to put up my posters! Can put up my eraserhead poster!!!! Can also be smol wifout mom or anyone finin out bc I be in da dorm wif my own room. Wanna get a lil projector to watch movies on da wall or ceiling. or put pictures up wen go bed. Like stars n space! Gonna bring all my dune books too.

We gettin a dune part three (⁠ー⁠_⁠ー) dey not doin good job wif da movies. Books are better. Is not called dune part three eider! Is dune messiah. But dey callin it part three for sum reason I dunno. old dune movie is better. Da one by david lynch, not da show or new ones. But I giv dem dis. Da man dey put as duke leto in da new one is very much like da book. Dey did dat good. But doesn make it ok to take feyds hair or alia away all togeder! Don like dat dey did dat. (↼⁠_⁠↼⁠)

Otay dis gettin tooooo long. Bye bye!! Peace n love!! Thank u for lisenin!

- June bug

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Reblogging to spread the love and appreciation for middle regressors! <3

A collection of pictures for my 2010s middle regressors

I've been feeling 12 a lot recently, and my childhood was primarily in the 2010s so while regressed I think about this a lot

Also there's just not enough middle regressor stuff

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Literally same thooooooo

Jus wishin I had a cg rn or other tiny frens I could babl to

Other fren is back from germany so he seepin rn n partner not very support of agere so gots nobody to talk to

- June bug <3 (⁠｡⁠•́⁠︿⁠•̀⁠｡⁠)

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RACCOON REGRESSION WORKSHEET!

for a friend!! @thelitledoor :3

🦝.💤🌲..🌙🐾.🪵⛰️..🗑️🌳.

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𝐁𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞: 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬!

NSFW, K!NK OR DUALCOM DNI.

-> Setting boundaries can be difficult, especially when you’re taking care of a teeny. This is a list of common issues I hear from caregivers, with advice on where to start!

• “I think I need a break from caregiving for a bit, but I’m scared they’ll be hurt or upset.”

Reflect on what’s causing you to need this break. Are there other things going in your life that’s taking a toll? Are you overwhelmed by your little’s needs? Once you find the root cause, it’s easier to navigate.

Come to your little one honestly. Don’t try and “soften the blow”. Downsizing your needs will only damage your relationship in the long run. State what you need calmly and directly. Ex: “Work is getting really stressful, and I need to unwind after. You’ve done nothing wrong, but I need to pause and take care of myself for a bit.”

• “I’m not comfortable doing xyz, but they say it’s important to them.”

You deserve comfort and safety, full stop. Your little’s needs are not somehow above your own. Be firm and clear in what you are and aren’t willing to do—and if you’re experiencing pressure to ignore that, that’s an issue. Ex: “I’m not comfortable with baby talking to you. Please do not ask me to do that again.”

• “I want to regress too, but I feel like my regression is being ignored.”

This is a very common issue I hear from flips who are with another flip. They’re stuck caregiving very frequently, but suppressing their own regression to be there for their little one. This is not okay: your regression is equally as important, along with your need to be taken care of.

Explain your regression needs to your little one. What does your regression look like for you? How often do you wish you could regress? Ex: “I’ve been caregiving for you every night now, but that’s the only time I have to regress. I want to work out a plan so we’re both getting the care we need.”

• “I’m feeling overwhelmed by the emotional weight it requires for me to be there. I don’t want to dismiss them, but it’s taking a toll.”

Always remember that you are not a bad person or a bad caregiver for needing to take a step back. Carrying another person’s emotions on top of your own isn’t feasible, and it’s okay to say that. Ex: “I want to be here for you, but I feel like our time together has just turned into you venting. I need you to reach out for other support too—I can’t be the only person helping you.”

Think about what’s making it feel so overwhelming. Is it the way they’re communicating? Is it that the conversation topics are triggering/too heavy? Are you juggling your own mental health? From there, you can work out what boundary you need to set.

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Enderman Stimboard

Requested by: 🐇🫛 Anon

🎆 - 🔮🪨🔮 - 🔮🪨🔮 - 🔮🪨🔮 - 🎆

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frutiger aero + petregre +agere

do u guys see the vision?

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southern mama who wakes up before the sun, carefully tiptoeing around their baby's crib to get ready. just as they're heading out to start on chores, they feel a tug on their pants.

"momma, i come?" said in the softest, sleepiest voice as their baby wipes sleep from their eyes. she bends down with a smile, ruffling their bedhead.

"get some more sleep, baby. you know momma always comes 'n gets you when it's time for the horses - you're not missin' anything fun comin' now."

the little one whines, "but i wanna see th' cows momma!"

"alright, alright. but when you're sleepy and fussy later, it's not my fault!"

as she's doing her chores, she watches her baby sway sleepily out of the corner of her eye, pajama pants tucked messily into their boots and stuffed animal dangling perilously close to the dirty ground.

eventually, as she's shoveling hay, she realises her baby has disappeared. she looks around and eventually discovers them sleeping peacefully on a stack of (thankfully clean) hay, stuffed animal smudged with fresh mud and clenched tightly in their little arms. she laughs softly to herself, "what did i say, huh?"

[insectbrainedsibling]

Jus wishin I had a cg rn or other tiny frens I could babl to

Other fren is back from germany so he seepin rn n partner not very support of agere so gots nobody to talk to

- June bug <3 (⁠｡⁠•́⁠︿⁠•̀⁠｡⁠)

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Anyone have any tips for getting out of regression block? I've only been able to regress for like ten ish minutes lately before randomly being big again. Tips n pointers, anyone?

- Bugs

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This is so very fitting for me n my blog theme! Love that I came across this!

-Bugs

outdoor kiddo outfit board ! 🐞🌱

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Does anyone else babble, but like... Only in their head? Outwardly I'm all quiet when small but internally I'm just "ababababaaaa"

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Agere/little Reminders

⍟ Agere is NOT s3xual in anyway, shape or form! don’t let people tell you it is!

⍟ IT IS NOT ALWAYS CUTE OR AESTHETIC. SINCE IT IS A COPING MECHANISM, THERE CAN BE AND/ OR LOTS OF EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS THAT TAKE PLACE.

⍟ IT IS FOR ANYONE AS IT IS A COPING MECHANISM. IT CAN BE FOR CHILDHOOD TRAUMA, STRESS, ANITEXY, OR EVEN FUN!

⍟ REGRESSION IS HEALTHY AND SAFE BUT THERE ARE TIMES WHEN IT IS DOING MORE BAD THAN GOOD! EXAMPLE COULD GET WHEN IT INTERVENS WITH YOUR ABILITY TO-DO EVERYDAY "BIG" THINGS LIKE WORK OR/SCHOOL.

⍟ CARGIVERS NEED REASSURANCE, TOO! YES, THEY ARE MEANT TO CARE FOR YOU, LITTLE ONE, BUT THEY ARE HUMAN ASWELL AND EVEN A LITTLE PRAISE CAN GO A LONG WAY.

⍟ !!BIGGEST ONE!! REGRESSION IS / LOOKS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE AND VALID TO ALL! LONG AS IT MAKES YOU HAPPY AND IS HEALTHY... GO FOR IT!!

inspo: wattpad! agere book!