its-a-bi-guy
Hey! It's a bi guy!
A bit about me - I'm a bisexual person in my thirties. Pronouns: They/them Bisexual: Means I am attracted to 2 or more genders.
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Funny how people say T makes you more aggressive/angry/violent when it was like 100% the opposite for me
I was way more aggressive and emotional and toxic as a teenager with no T than an adult taking T (also let’s be real there is endless other factors into why I got better but this is a core reason)
Testosterone helped me be able to actually handle my emotions, to process them and not be overwhelmed by them constantly.
So no, T doesn’t make you more aggressive or angry or violent or whatever other nonsense some red pilled bucket for brains is regurgitating at you.
Allow yourself to feel your emotions, to work through them in a safe way. You deserve to be angry and upset, and there’s nothing evil or wrong with you for being that way!
And it’s okay if you are an angry aggressive trans man. That doesn’t make you a bad person either.
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So Dinosaurs — that weird TGIF sitcom made by the Jim Henson company — did an actual gay episode back in the day. It is the subject of the most recent installment of Gayest Episode Ever, where we break down every weird euphemism for homosexuality. It’s wild.
Gayest Episode Ever: SoundCloud / iTunes / Google Play / Facebook / Twitter / Spotify
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Thomas Edison would have loved generative AI and i mean that in the most insulting way.
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I know people mean well when they say it but hearing the phrase “you know your body best” as someone with chronic illness is so funny, like man no I don’t I ain’t got no clue what that fucker’s planning and I’m scared to find out
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Listen to me: You get good at things by being bad at them. You learn by failing. You gain competency and a sense of mastery by failing at something many times and in many interesting ways.
The sooner you are able to laugh at your own failures, to enjoy the process of messing up, the easier life will be. Because you'll no longer be afraid of learning.
And once you're no longer afraid of failing, you can learn anything.
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I'm a big fan of wizards-as-programmers, but I think it's so much better when you lean into programming tropes.
A spell the wizard uses to light the group's campfire has an error somewhere in its depths, and sometimes it doesn't work at all. The wizard spends a lot of his time trying to track down the exact conditions that cause the failure.
The wizard is attempting to create a new spell that marries two older spells together, but while they were both written within the context of Zephyrus the Starweaver's foundational work, they each used a slightly different version, and untangling the collisions make a short project take months of work.
The wizard has grown too comfortable reusing old spells, and in particular, his teleportation spell keeps finding its components rearranged and remixed, its parts copied into a dozen different places in the spellbook. This is overall not actually a problem per se, but the party's rogue grows a bit concerned when the wizard's "drying spell" seems to just be a special case of teleportation where you teleport five feet to the left and leave the wetness behind.
A wizard is constantly fiddling with his spells, making minor tweaks and changes, getting them easier to cast, with better effects, adding bells and whistles. The "shelter for the night" spell includes a tea kettle that brings itself to a boil at dawn, which the wizard is inordinately pleased with. He reports on efficiency improvements to the indifference of anyone listening.
A different wizard immediately forgets all details of his spells after he's written them. He could not begin to tell you how any of it works, at least not without sitting down for a few hours or days to figure out how he set things up. The point is that it works, and once it does, the wizard can safely stop thinking about it.
Wizards enjoy each other's company, but you must be circumspect about spellwork. Having another wizard look through your spellbook makes you aware of every minor flaw, and you might not be able to answer questions about why a spell was written in a certain way, if you remember at all.
Wizards all have their own preferences as far as which scripts they write in, the formatting of their spellbook, its dimensions and material quality, and of course which famous wizards they've taken the most foundational knowledge from. The enlightened view is that all approaches have their strengths and weaknesses, but this has never stopped anyone from getting into a protracted argument.
Sometimes a wizard will sit down with an ancient tome attempting to find answers to a complicated problem, and finally find someone from across time who was trying to do the same thing, only for the final note to be "nevermind, fixed it".
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"hey why are all the barrier garments like linen shirts or chemises or combinations going away?"
"oh we have more washable fabrics now! you don't need to worry about sweat reaching your outer clothing when you can just chuck it in the washing machine!"
"cool!"
[100 years later]
"so uh all of those new washable fabrics are leaching microplastics into our water, and the constant machine-washing wears garments out faster. they're also not really sturdy enough to be mended, so we keep having to throw them out and now the planet is covered in plastic fabric waste that will never break down. also it turns out that the new washable fabrics hold odor-causing bacteria VERY well. so could we get those barrier garments back please?"
"sorry babe linen now costs $100000/yard and since it's been so long without them, nobody knows how to adapt barrier garments to the current styles anyway"
"..."
"maybe try this new $50 undershirt made of Special Sweat-Wicking Plastic Fabric! :) :) :)"
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I'm begging everyone not just to tag for spoilers, but to use the specific tag "dragon age spoilers" instead of 17 variations for the rest of us to try to filter
Literally every other spoiler tag would be unneeded if we could all use this. We're only tagging for one game, so we don't need multiple tags with multiple spellings and abbreviations of spellings. There's nothing "dragon age" that we're spoiling that isn't "the veilguard" so we don't need tags specifying which game. Just "dragon age spoilers" would cover all of us 💜
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want to be clear that if i ever talk about a headcanon and then later discuss a headcanon that is directly contradictory to the first one, that’s because headcanons exist in a quantum state where they are all simultaneously true and not true up until the point where i discuss it in detail, in which case that is the one that is true in that instance. schroedinger’s headcanons
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