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Lilah was one of the compelled woman Stefan was shown with Rebekah at the bar in 3x3 before they made her husband drink her blood. I found it interesting how unlike other cases in the show when Stefan bit her there was no initial pain and she showed pleasure the entire time and the scene had sexual connotations. Also as she was leaving with her husband when he asked her to wait and stay she obeyed without him having to compel her and he only looked her husband in the eye and compelled him. She didn't show any objection to being cut and having her husband drink her blood so it seems Stefan compelled her to do whatever he wanted her to do.

They like to flip back and forth with their biting. The biting and the nails to the back isn't just about expressing enjoyment, but about pleasing the partner. Some people like pain in the bedroom. I know Damon seems to. He's flirting with Rebekah while she's torturing him.

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tbh, I wouldn't be able to handle magnified emotions. I'd probably be more dangerous than Damon.

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Like anxiety. I get so anxious that I have severe panic attacks. And if anyone has ever watched the show Sopranos... I'm just like Tony. Half the time I'm collapsing into a sweaty mess because it feels like I'm having a heart attack. That's emotion for you.

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Stefan stans say he takes rejection respectfully and that he's husband material but the way he grabbed Rebekah's arm from behind when she rejected him in a bar wasn't normal or realistic. If someone did that to a stranger at a bar in real life they'd be seen as creepy. Lightly tapping her shoulder once and awaiting her response would've been more respectful of him to do instead of coming across entitled. Yes she was attracted to him but attraction alone doesn't deem she's emotionally available to be with him.

He takes rejection better than Damon because he's not written in his humanity like Damon is. Fans don't get that Damon's humanity is written parallel to Stefan's bloodlust. He's meant to go off the rails when he's feeling negative emotions like anger, pain, guilt, fear... rejection. That's why Elena always pushes Damon when he's feeling these particular emotions. She knows him better than his haters do. Everything is written according to the side they hide. What does Stefan hide but his vampirism. He hides it from Elena from day one. That's why his bloodlust is an issue while his emotions are in check. What does Damon hide but his humanity. He hides it from everyone. Even with Elena, he's often pushing her out so he can feel in private. That's why his emotions are an issue while his bloodlust is in check.

If fans wanna make true comparisons, they should compare Stefan's bloodlust to Damon's emotions. Only then are they being real with the show and its characters. Damon can no sooner stop killing someone impulsively than Stefan can stop himself from ripping a head off. His emotions are his vampiric curse. They're magnified, and he feels them to the extent that he's likely suffering their physical symptoms. Rage isn't just an emotion. I'm talking about increased heart rate, increased respiration, blood pressure, even the body's temperature rising to the extent that people sweat. This is all with rage. That's why I tell fans Damon is being literal when he talks to Elena in season 5. "Despite every nerve in my body wanting to break something or hurt someone..." I'm not just speaking as someone educated in mental health, I come from a family well experienced in it. I just don't talk about my mental health all that much because I shouldn't have to. Millions of Americans suffer from emotional and mental health issues, so Damon should be one of the most understandable characters on the show. But he's not because people think in boxes.

Had Stefan approached me in a bar like he did Rebekah, he'd be on the floor covered in his own blood.

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This wedding dress is pretty too.

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get to know me meme: favorites movies [3/5] TITANIC (1997)

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A slowly collapsing prairie home.

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Hannibal (2013-2015)

Will putting Hannibal's hand on his waist

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I love 1x14 because it's insane what Elena does.

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1x14 follows 1x11 because everything Stefan does to Damon... it all circles back around for the sake of Elena getting both sides. She sees her trip to Atlanta through Ben and Anna.

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Like... from the moment Damon catches up to Elena's crash in the road, it's best to imagine him with Vicki, and you'll start to see the parallels. "You just don't wanna die, do you?"

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1x11 is like this... episode-long parallel Elena has with Vicki in 1x6, only Damon is real with Elena. She's getting his human side rather than his vampire side like Vicki does.

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It's important to pay attention to Vicki because Elena has an insane amount of parallels with her. I'm stating this now before I start 1x6.

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This season 1 TVD promo has Stefan walking next to Caroline at his right and Elena at his left. Elena is at Damon's right:

https://twitter.com/Ch_Forbess/status/1331262925651255298?t=RSw6ebe89ve_ORU7P51KKw&s=19

I started shipping Steroline in season 2 because they have insane chemistry once Caroline becomes a vampire. I started shipping Delena in the first season, but it's later in the season. I was waiting on something specific from Damon before I could ship them.

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I have a headcanon that this picture is Klaus showing up to Damon's wedding reception as his guest as a ghost. Do you think Damon would have a best man after Stefan died? I think Alaric would be his best man if he were to have one. What do you think Delena's wedding would look like?

https://64.media.tumblr.com/d9c9897795df2e3e1527f38333eb7547/tumblr_mmwc2dnxHI1qhp2ojo1_r1_250.pnj

Rustic. Dark blue for Damon and his best men, Alaric and Matt. Lighter blue for Elena's maids, Bonnie and Caroline. Their relationship is built on trust, so I also like the symbolism for blue flowers. Elena's hair like 1x19, but with less curl. I like wedding dresses that have the neck and shoulders exposed. Low-cut. Like this...

Stefan would be at their wedding because she'll wear the necklace. A horse-drawn carriage across the Wickery Bridge.

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Even their death and transition is written opposite to each other, and all for the sake of Elena's relationship with Damon. I should collage it.