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found family dynamics i adore:

the entire gang shares 1 (one) braincell which they takes turns passing around

unwilling teammates gradually grow on each other

Area Man Forcibly Adopted by Several Children

bonded over shared trauma

none of us have actual families or homes to go back to anymore, but at least we have each other

“every single one of these guys has tried to kill me at least once, but we’re cool now and i’d trust them with my life”

redemption arc comes with bonus new family and friends (bonus feature is non-negotiable and eventual acceptance inevitable)

i WAS going to leave the group and go my own way as soon as this job was over - and i would have gotten away with it, too, if it weren’t for my meddling heart!

villains with Feelings™

Officer I Swear I’ve Never Met Any Of These People In My Life (But If Anything Were To Happen To Them I Would Kill Everyone Here And Then Myself)

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I heard too many sounds at once and now I am a bitch

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Goro Takemura. Reblog if you agree.

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things people do that i find very cute

𖠿 when they see a footprint somewhere and just put their foot right in it so it lines up 𖠿 when they see chalk on the street and just have to read it / do what it says 𖠿 when they go to throw something away and they take everyone else’s trash as well without saying anything or being asked 𖠿 when they make playlists for each other (or when they’re like “this song reminds me of you”) 𖠿 when they leave follow-up messages like “i had fun today” or “let me know if you got home safe” or “i’m still thinking of you” 𖠿 pinky promises 𖠿 when they drop someone off at home and wait until they’re inside to leave 𖠿 when a small child gives them something and they excitedly play along 𖠿 the little voice when they’re talking to pets 𖠿 when they laugh so hard that it’s just quiet and their whole body is laughing with them 𖠿 when they find out they can relate to each other and they keep adding stuff and grow more and more excited 𖠿 when they call out a compliment like “i like your hair!!!” as they drive past someone 𖠿 when they wave at each other from different sides of the room or out of a window (so sweet and innocent)

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hey guys who wants to see a christmas decoration someone in my area put up

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Ominous Positivity-Corypheus

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Snarky Nyx

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Why blame Ardyn when you could blame the six tbh

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every time i listen to “you’re a mean one mr. grinch” i can’t help but sit there and think “what did the grinch do to hurt you?” because dude just stands there for 2 minutes and 58 seconds and drags the grinch into the dirt

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REBLOG IF I CAN MESSAGE YOU ‘HI’ AND START A FRIENDSHIP.

When ever you fell like it. I am sitting here <3 <3 <3

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Nobody:

Naraku: BEES!!!

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There’s a reason lots of good parents say to babies stuff like

“You’re excited to go to the park!”

“Oh, it makes you mad that we can’t go outside.”

And then when the babies get a little bit older the parents can say

“You seem upset. Are you sad?”

“Are you excited that gramma is coming over today?”

Which lets the kid (who is learning to utilize speech) respond with yes or no, which may prompt more questions, like

“So you aren’t sad, are you angry?”

“Yes, does it make you happy when gramma is here?”

And then, finally, when the child is learning to use language in a more complex way, the parents can say,

“How does it make you feel?”

“Why are you feeling like that?”

And it’s all about teaching emotional awareness. I really reccomend using the process on yourself. Learn to ask, “am I happy?” “Am I sad?” “Am I anxious?”

Then practice identifying, out loud or on paper if you can, “I’m happy.” “I’m upset.” “I’m sad.” “I’m anxious.”

Final step: “Why am I feeling anxious? I’m still thinking about that awkward conversation earlier.” “Why am I happy? It’s such a beautiful day outside.” “Why am I sad? None of my friends are responding to my messages.”

It really helps you notice patterns (“I’m more likely to be happy when I’m around this person.” “When I haven’t eaten, I often feel angry.” “If I don’t plan ahead, I get anxious.”) which is the first step in avoiding things and people that are bad for you and encouraging things and people that are good.

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posting this here bc my friends liked it a lot and tbh so did i!

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sesshomaru | inuyasha icons (300x300)

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https://youtu.be/z8fEdS-VVy4

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An owl chilling on a stump 

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Finn loves his stuffed koala. He’s had it since he was 4 weeks old and it makes him happy so he brings it to me any time I’m sad. 

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