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Yes.

moving on without the apology you deserve is hard but don’t let the apology be the defining factor in your healing.. some people aren’t going to change but that’s on them, focus on you and getting better.

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There is a love that will be ready.

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Manhã de Carnaval - Elizete Cardoso

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Love yourself more.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BumwhaZnOBF/

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Always a mood.

Solange “Binz”

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I use to only see light when I thought of him. Now I can't even see him in my thoughts.

-The break up

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the way to a woman’s heart is through laughter. good conversation. emotional intelligence. light touches. active listening. vulnerability. sharing. food. soft kisses, powerful energy. gentle chokes. thoughtfulness. reassurance, action/working through unhealed trauma. commitment.

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you have made so much more progress than you realize. you will get past these bumps in the road, the bad days, the heartbreaks, and find you are stronger than you were before.

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Replacing “Why is this happening to me?” with “What is this trying to tell me?” has been a game changer for me.

The former creates a hamster wheel, where you’ll replay the story over and over again. Victimized. Stuck.

The latter holds space for a resolution to appear.

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aretha franklin

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Mood.

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“They held each other and kissed and pushed each others’ darkness into the corner, believing in each others’ light, each others’ dream.”

— Hubert Selby Jr., Requiem for a Dream (via thelovejournals)

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