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messy-does-cosmology · 22 hours
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It's been a good few days for the Andrew Huberman haters (me)
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messy-does-cosmology · 23 hours
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usamericans do really love making posts about parking lots. i met god in a parking lot. fighting my ex in a parking lot. it's like their main biome
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messy-does-cosmology · 24 hours
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one of the biggest things I can advocate for (in academia, but also just in life) is to build credibility with yourself. It’s easy to fall into the habit of thinking of yourself as someone who does things last minute or who struggles to start tasks. people will tell you that you just need to build different habits, but I know for me at least the idea of ‘habit’ is sort of abstract and dehumanizing. Credibility is more like ‘I’ve done this before, so I know I can do it, and more importantly I trust myself to do it’. you set an assignment goal for the day and you meet it, and then you feel stronger setting one the next day. You establish a relationship with yourself that’s built on confidence and trust. That in turn starts to erode the barrier of insecurity and perfectionism and makes it easier to start and finish tasks. reframing the narrative as a process of building credibility makes it easier to celebrate each step and recognize how strong your relationship with yourself can become
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Anyway if anyone wants to know why I stopped posting so much it's because I had a mental breakdown (May 2022 - November 2023) and then since that ended I've been going to the gym to get buff. So too busy for taking cute pictures. But my camera roll in the past few months has been more fruitful because of the mental stability.
I have to wear glasses now. The picture of me was my first post glasses selfie and if you look you can see a lady behind me absolutely mortified on my behalf that I was taking a selfie in public. The picture of the red dress is actually my wedding dress (it will look a little different on the day because my friend is making some extra bits for it). Also the bike is my cargo bike, affectionately named Gloria. She has honestly helped my mental health the MOST, as has moving house. I just get on my girl Gloria, occasionally with my partner on the back, and the world is literally my oyster! I am obsessed with her.
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I did go to some actual classes recently courtesy of my supervisor so I got the opportunity to take some cute notes on my ReMarkable.
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Fuck it I think I'm gonna actually throw myself into something for once and try to start some kind of organised AirBnB boycott. AirBnB is responsible for so much loss of family homes, especially in holiday hotspots. My old home where I lived with my partner was turned into an AirBnB right after we left. We need a national boycott because this shit is ridiculous.
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Double checking my texts and making sure I wrote “okay thanks!” Instead of I want you flat on your back. Helpless, tender, open with only me to help. And then I want you strong again. You're not going to die. You might wish you're going to die, but you're not going to.
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FRANZ VON STUCK - Kayan Yıldızlar (detail)
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Anthony Devas
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Art by Don Dixon from Starlog magazine , late 1970s
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not even joking this tweet saved my life 😭 anytime i can tell im lazing/rotting i just think “omg you people can’t do anything” and i get up and do 100000 tasks and have a great time
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eveeyones got it wrong your mid 20s arent for going to the club or partying or picking up new crafts. your 20s are for discovering how much more autistic you are than you thought you were in high school
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genuinely one of the saddest parts of this new era of the internet is how hard it is to rick roll someone now. with people's attention spans shortening so much, they wouldn't even get through the first few bait seconds before clicking off the video. like i saw a comment that ended with "btw i made all of this up" and the replies kept treating it so seriously because none of them finished the entire 4 sentence comment. and We're no strangers to love You know the rules and so do I (do I) A full commitment's what I'm thinking of You wouldn't get this from any other guy I just wanna tell you how I'm feeling Gotta make you understand Never gonna give you up Never gonna let you down Never gonna run around and desert you Never gonna make you cry Never gonna say goodbye Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you
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i do think there is a degree to which certain kinds of Instagram activists have convinced themselves that traumatising themselves in solidarity is a useful form of activism. "I'm having nightmares and crying so much I want to be sick because of all these videos of dying children but I can't look away while people are getting hurt" I mean don't you think you'd be able to help more if you weren't having nightmares and crying all the time?? don't you think this is a one-way trip to burnout? don't you think maybe increasing the amount of trauma going around is counterproductive? I dunno bro there's something to be said for bearing witness but there comes a point where you gotta look hard at yourself and go "am I helping, or am I just making myself suffer so I don't feel guilty for not suffering while somebody else is experiencing bad shit"
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