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Uriko 🍺

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My ladies decided to dress up and have some fun~ and I’m sure we’ll enjoy it too! Happy Halloween everyone~!

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"Yes you are! I-I mean.. yes it is!"👀💦

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I will be somewhat fair to Lily on that post, she was talking about what she was doing in KOTOR 2 and not some sort of weird hypothetical.

However, to be entirely unfair, I only learned that reading the replies *after* I reported it to Bluesky.

Not gonna lie. That's really funny.

Even in context, if someone did see that post from her I'm pretty sure they would think how how batshit insane that sounds.

I forget how much she loves The Sith and uses her OCs to go all murder hobo on people. lol

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Scrunchlestia

Redraw of an older piece of mine from 2019!

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The fact that Xain was on Josh's side originally when Lily was defaming him and then turned his back on Josh and joined in Lily's circle.

If there's one thing that gets on my nerves a LOT is a traitor. Especially when they are friends or family.

It's why I have so much disdain for Xain.

Xain suggests Rainbow Dash and Scootaloo date ( Says that Scootaloo is 13 ) and Lily goes along with it and says that she only has to wait two-three years. 

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Some girlies i drew

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Uhhh...Lily?

Your inner Andrew Dobson is showing. Doesn't matter if you are joking or not. You REALLY shouldn't be saying shit like this.

Besides, this is VERY against Blusky's ToS. You are gonna get your account purged and might possibly get yourself on a list for this.

Seriously, if Blusky bans you and you try to get back in a new account and try to ban evade like you did on Tumblr. You are VERY screwed at that point.

Why do you like to go the violent route a lot, Lily?

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https://twitter.com/coco1sb/status/1188882199644270592

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Sonic Heroes

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Spy x Family Yor Forger as a Sukeban (delinquent girl).

Yor was last months voted character on Patreon/SubscribeStar. 2 more nsfw images of her are on there. If you like my work please consider supporting!

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SEE I FUCKING TOLD EVERYONE SHE DOCTOR SHOPPED TO GET THAT PERSCRIPTION!

Honest to God it was kinda fucking irritating that everyone kept kinda repeating the same shit about Lily getting some kind of black market adderall.

No one respecting my expertise as a professional "methhead."

Okay but like, in all seriousness, it's actually genuinely important people understand how easy it is to game the medical system to work it like your plug. NOT BECAUSE making medication less accessible will help AT ALL, let me be clear. But because like-- it's an important part of why no matter how much you want drug addiction to just be criminalized away, it just never will be. Y'all don't understand the craftiness of an addict's brain when jonesing for a fix. The things you are willing to do and stunts you are willing to pull when you feel like you're going to die without your favorite poison.

More robust mental health resources are the only solution.

Also. . .

The Canadian government refuses to cover essential expenses you need to complete your transition? Like laser? Even though you need it to complete your bottom surgery and it's not an elective?

You don't say. Huh Lily-- I wonder what political was campaigning on expanding universal Healthcare!? You know, INCLUDING better coverage for transition necessities.

SURELY IT WASN'T THE PARTY YOU WERE CELEBRATING ONLY BEING REDUCED TO SEVEN SEATS, YOU CLAIMED WAS DOING NOTHING, LILY. SURELY.

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The Lily Playbook

(Or: How she runs her spaces and keeps people in line)

I’ve talked a lot on this blog about patterns—how Lily behaves, how she talks, how she spins stories to serve her narrative. But I haven’t fully laid out what it’s like being inside one of her spaces. From the perspective of an average person who stuck around long enough to notice how things worked. So here it is: the Playbook.

Lily doesn’t lead through trust. She leads through pressure. And most of that pressure is unspoken. That’s what makes it effective. She doesn’t always have to say “don’t question me,” because the tone she sets—and the way she handles anyone who steps out of line—makes sure no one else even wants to try.

Step one of the Playbook is positioning herself as the smartest, most correct person in the room. She’ll go on long, authoritative tangents, use big words whether she understands them or not, and say things in the most matter-of-fact tone possible—even when it’s something completely subjective or unproven. And the thing is, if you don’t know better, it’s easy to believe her. You assume she must have done her research. That she wouldn’t say something so confidently unless it were true. That’s the trap. Her audience, especially younger or neurodivergent people, latch onto that certainty. And she counts on that.

Step two is isolating dissent. If you disagree with her, you’re not just “wrong.” You’re talking past her. You’re deliberately misrepresenting her. You’re violating her boundaries. (Boundaries she never actually states clearly, but somehow you’re supposed to have memorized.) It doesn’t matter if your disagreement is polite or rooted in good faith—any challenge to her version of things is seen as a personal attack. And once she’s labeled you a problem, the people around her fall in line.

Because here’s the unspoken rule: Lily doesn’t need to tell anyone to dogpile you. They’ll do it on their own. Not out of malice, but because that’s the environment she builds. You want to stay in her good graces? You learn not to question her. You see what happens to the people who do. The silence of those who disagree becomes a kind of self-policing mechanism. You feel the pressure without her ever needing to say a word.

Another key part of the Playbook is redefining what “abuse” and “accountability” mean to suit her. She doesn’t believe in the cycle of abuse—because acknowledging it would mean admitting she’s capable of harming others, even unintentionally. So instead, she frames all criticism of her as harassment, all reminders of past behavior as stalking, and every attempt to hold her accountable as “um actually-ing” her. It’s why she throws around terms like “boundary violation” even in response to well-meaning messages or neutral questions. It’s why people walk on eggshells around her.

When I was still in her space, I remember feeling this creeping discomfort. Moments where I thought, wait, is that really fair? or that person didn’t even say anything rude. But you learn not to voice it. You see what happens when people do. You see who gets banned, who gets ranted about in vague posts, who gets turned into cautionary tales.

And finally: Lily knows her critiques don’t hold up to serious scrutiny. That’s why she frames anyone who questions her takes as being part of some obsessive “hate mob.” It keeps her audience distrustful of outsiders. It lets her dismiss all criticism—no matter how valid—as just noise. And the people who do stick around end up internalizing that mindset: “Lily’s the one telling the truth. Everyone else is out to get her.”

It’s a playbook built on deflection, defensiveness, and control. And the worst part is, it doesn’t look like that at first. If you’re young, vulnerable, or just looking for someone who “gets it,” she can seem like the voice of reason. But stick around long enough and the cracks start to show.

That’s why I started this blog. Not to speculate, not to gossip, but to document what’s observable. And this—this is the framework I saw in action. Not from the outside looking in, but from the inside slowly stepping back.

If you’re starting to notice these same patterns, you’re not imagining it.

It’s been wild watching it repeat over and over, knowing that I’ve seen these steps firsthand. When you’re in it, it doesn’t feel like a “playbook.” It feels like friendship. Trust. Solidarity. It feels like you’re part of something important.

But when you finally step back? You see the patterns. You see the manipulations. And you see that this whole system is built to serve her, not anyone else.

That’s what the Lily Playbook is.

And once you learn to recognize it, you’ll start seeing it everywhere she goes.