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mogai-confession · 10 months
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Just to let you all know, the queue is now empty and so is the inbox. If you have a confession or notable sediment, please send them in.
Until there is more in the inbox, the blog will be inactive as it is run completely off it's inbox.
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mogai-confession · 11 months
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it makes me kinda bummed how ppl on this side of tumblr will coin a gender and treat it like. idk a completed work that cannot be built upon
idk queer ppl in the decades past didnt just come up with their labels, slap a flag on it, and forbid those labels from evolving w time... but nowadays coiners dont want anyone to have a personal experience of their terms because ''you cant go against the coiners definition!!! its the only right one!!!''
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mogai-confession · 11 months
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" watching the mogai/liom community go even further into what i thought it would, uncritical and downright dangerous radical inclusionism with a "live and love, everything is valid, how dare you question my identity", just reminds me of when a shit ton of the self-proclaimed ace inclusionists were all for the MAP movement before tumblr shut it down. I watched people i idolized on my own side turn into pro-contact or "contact-complex" maps overnight and if they didnt identify with it, they sure as hell supported it. Right now the community is tip toeing around the pro-para movement trying not to step on any toes but i fear we're mere months away from going right back into the mindset that just because someone calls something a name and slaps a flag on it, its automatically oppressed, should be protected and is 100% valid. Its what let transid/trans x/transrace/transabled/etc all get a foothold again. Its what's allowing "shipping neutral!", "pro-ship neutral" to get a foothold again. Its valid critism being waved away with a few crytext posts or pple being coy and playing innocent to escape being rightfully called what they are. Idk why but it seems everytime i follow a radical inclusionist thread, i always hit some racist or pro-map stuff and im an inclusionist.
Not everything is in good faith and im so tired of that term being used to wave away people litterally rewriting history just so they can justify hateing certain and more mainstream identities again. I could say im waiting for the blatant lesbian posts just outright calling all lesbians terfs and exclusionists to resurface again but they never really went away. The oppression poltics on wether a demisexual or a bisexual face more societal backlash is utterly ridiculous"
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mogai-confession · 11 months
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im tired of "gender systems" tbh... theyre all so basic and all the terms in them are repetitive af. no variety at all. when ppl started doing them i was excited at first but now i just unfollow ppl who make them. seems to me like they just want to churn out stuff to post daily without putting in the effort :/
and its not just one blog doing it!! theres so many!!
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mogai-confession · 11 months
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i'm tired of having to walk on eggshells in this community !!!!! i feel like i can't say anything for fear of ppl dogpiling me over what? literally the pettiest shit !! i've been here for years and it's gotten so bad lately. god forbid u dont want to take a stance on something that is completely inconsequential to your life (such as fandom)
this blog is a blessing for a community that can only bring up issues within it hidden behind a mask of anonymity.
thank you, sincerely :'-/
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mogai-confession · 11 months
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people r getting mad about "name copying".... lol; lmao, even
once u put something online its public, and u have to deal w the ramifications of that
perhaps dont publish a list of names u dont want anyone else using on the world wide web.......... where ppl can see it.............
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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i am so tired of seeing white people making -dere trope genders and i can't tell if i'm just being hypersensitive or if it's the hip new microaggression. being asian in this community is hell
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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callouts have been a massive part of the community since day 1 and it's been legitimately traumatizing as someone who struggles with moral scrupulosity OCD. i've been here for a decade, i know where it comes from and why, but creating an expectation of surveillance in a culture full of ND teenagers is only going to traumatize even more people. it sucks.
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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Hii idk if this blog is still active, but I just wanted to say, I'm the original creator of the pronoun flags (the ones with 3 stripes) and years later, it makes me so happy to see others using them! I forgot my passport to my old blog, just in case anyone was wondering why I dont post anymore.
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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" i wish more of us were realistic about the spread and acceptance of mogai identities. For the most part, a lot of things commonly accepted here will probably never be fully accepted out in the world or even the most inclusive irl lgbt spaces and the amount of times over I've seen people fully lie about it being more accepting is unreal. No, I'm sorry, mspec lesbians and gays are probably not going to be accepted or mainstream ever. Neither will lesboys or turigirls or other contradictory labels that tie into common lgbt identities. It's just not gonna happen and we as a community can only do so much.
The moment our community starts realizing it's limitations, the more peace we'll find in our own community and the more likely we are to succeed on actually spreading. Maybe one day it will happen but lieing and saying your 45 year old cisgender heterosexual ally male math teacher 'totally knew about kenochoric and totally accepts straightbians like me!!1!' Is bs and we know it. The world cant even accept that a man can become a woman, do you really think were supposed to believe you when you say your maga republican school bus driver used your neopronouns right and totally snapped back at your bully? Right and I'm sure the whole bus clapped, you anime protagonist wanna-be. Oh please realize how obvious it is that you're lieing. You will look back on that pseudo-encouragement post 2 years from now and cringe out of your skin from how obvious it was to everyone BUT you."
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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I think the flags in the community are starting to become a little... basic. I get that not everyone in the community is a graduate with a master's degree in graphic design because a majority of the community is minors (heck, so am I), but I feel like everyday the flags this community designs are becoming more and more minimalist and monotone. I feel like everywhere I look in this community it's almost always the same flag template, or a flag with a light/white stripe in the middle, or a mirror reversed flag. There are definitely people who take time and effort in making their flags and they come out gorgeous, and I understand not everyone has the energy or schedule to be making extra detailed flags, but so many flags just look like they were made in under 5 minutes and have a stolen color palette. The community is slowing down right now and I feel like some flag designs are just becoming mass-produced with small differences, different names and definitions. Maybe that's just me though.
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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"I don't respect dnis or differences of opinions when reblogging for genderhoarding purposes exclusively and i dont think anyone else should either. Ig to me, interaction is anything done with the intention of getting a reaction out of the op or forming some relationship with op such as commenting things, sending asks and writing things in the tags of your reblogs directed at op but if the only reason your reblogging from them is to archive a gender you like, you arent asking for interaction with op, ur just trying to use the gender they posted. To me,its just an extension of the mindset that its ok to use someone's genders if your on their dni as long as you arnt following or liking them.
To me, public archiving, isnt interaction or a breach of dni, it's just... Someone saving the gender and acknowledging that they are using it in a more public way than just privately saving a picture of the flag and screenshotting the definition. I get how this could still be considered a breach of boundaries but not everyone has the digital storage space to save an image for each of their identities. I mean, i have over 50,000 different gender, pronoun, orientation and disorder flags in my hoard right now and thats an unreasonable amount of flags to have saved to a smart phone. In my mind, genderhoarding blogs are neutral ground aka no man's land. It's not a place to fight or demand someone to stop doing something, its just someone's flags and if you dont like it, block them but you dont get to say they violated your dni when all they did was archived a term and flag you coined. You dont get to dictate who gets to use your flags and terms just because they don't support he/him lesbians or something, you dont own that entire gender experience. Its a term you made for others, not an oc. Dont expect credit and a cookie everytime someone wants to express themselves."
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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People need to realize you cannot just say "People who type similarly to me are COPYING ME" that sounds so fucking stupid. People can think of things on their own without knowing a person even exists, yet the moment they use that typing quirk they're instantly bombarded with asks saying they're copying the person who they had no clue about. Not to mention the super popular people in the community do NOTHING when their fucking fans harrass somebody, and hide behind their disorders. You can have disorders that majorly affect how you act, but you still have to hold yourself accountable. I've seen many fans of a certain mogai creator harrass others to the point where a person who once loved creating terms abandons their account and that passion. It's really sad to see that people who have a lot of influence on this side of tumblr really do not give a shit about people who they *think* are copying them when they could really just fucking ask where they got a name/typing quirk/etc from. If you are popular within a community, YOU have to hold your fans accountable. YOU have to take accountability for something you caused. YOU have to stop being a whiny child. TLDR; Just because someone types similarly to you doesn't mean they're copying you, popular/major creators in the community have a responsibility to take accountability for things they deliberately caused or people harrassing others in THEIR name, and I'm tired of seeing this shit happen because some people are too much of a coward to simply have a conversation instead of instantly accusing someone or knowingly letting their fans harrass people who likely had no idea they even existed.
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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" on one hand i get why people might use part of a palette posted by a palette blog to help inspire colors but im noticing more and more often that mogai coiners are litterally just straight up reposting palettes as flags and saying its vertical striped instead of the usual horizontal. Like ok we know you follow the same palette blog as them cause all your flags are the same size but that is litterally so lazy and straight up stealing. We all notice and realize it and your not slick. Actually put in the effort to make the flag or admit to saving a png of the blog and litterally just reposting it with flower clip art in the center."
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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i don’t understand why certain gender systems aren’t xenogenders?? every time a creator explains why they’re different still doesn’t make any sense to me?? like to me xenogender means a gender that cant be contained by human understandings of gender, and that’s most of the non-xenogender gender systems i see? i just dont get it :// are my definitions outdated or smth?
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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I feel like the mogai community ( mostly certain sides of it ) believes that if someone else uses a common word ++ a common name suffix as their name or a common word to describe their "irls"/introject sources ( irls is in quotes as i personally dont like the term . not fakeclaiming or anything . ) they must be immediately copying them . The English language is vast and constantly evolving , however claiming nobody else can use a common term etc is just weeeird . Hopefully this made sense I wrote this while a bit tired
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mogai-confession · 1 year
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The onlyyy problem with the fact that there's a new term for gender or sexulality being coined every day is I don't know them all and if I can't know every definition then I feel like a horrible person because I feel like they all deserved to be known
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