Because there's no other person on earth whose going to need you more than your kids. And us men want to be needed. We're built to be providers after all
If you girls want to be "flawless" "beautiful" "independent" and "strong". Be that. But don't be prideful, stubborn, separated, selfish, and blind to what the true rewards in life are. Love is everlasting when it's with the right people. Money is only paper. Trust is needed medicine. Image is only temporary. Everyone shoots to be like actors or artists, but do we even know if they actually practice what they preach? Beyoncé talk everything she talk, but works FOR a husband and a kid. And I'm sure she let Jay still be a man and run the household at the end of the day. Just like you girls really actually want to be secure and loved, us guys wanna be the head of the relationship, house, and business. I respect a girl who wants to run shit with me, but I can't take a girl who tries to overpower me every step of the way. Don't emasculate your men ladies. And we will respect you to the fullest
But where are men gunna be with no one to love and care for properly. Most girls take what's convenient and leave what's too hard. The world needs more ride or die relationships. Not "he did it, so I can do it too" relationships. Guys have their fortes and Girls have theirs. But we also have our respective weak points. So every guy and girl needs that opposite companion to help eventually.
But if you can accept things from a man, let him take care of you when he wants to, AND want to do the same for him; your no better than the average thot. Cause instead of begging hard to receive, your refusing to give your all for a person who genuinely care.