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mxbutchtwink · 6 months
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I am no longer using this account for mental health reasons. Mutuals can message me for my new url but I'm going to be inactive from here on out. ✌️
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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Reflection from Mulan was so crazy she literally sang “If I were truly to be myself I would break my family’s heart” and 8 year old proto-gay me was like “I don’t know what you mean but I know what you mean”
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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this came to me in a dream etc
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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people who use she/her and it/its pronouns have it so fucking hard honestly
you list your pronouns as she/it? that sounds like shit. you have poopnouns instead of pronouns. what the hell.
it/she? now you're itchy. girlthings just can't fucking win
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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i said wat i said
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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Wizard tip:
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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I don't want a romantic partner I want friends who will go dumpster diving with me, I want neighbors who will knock on my door and ask for butter because they forgot to buy some and it's sunday. I want book shelves in public spaces, food banks and shared tool sheds and community gardens. I want to trade home grown tomatoes for a couple of eggs with my neighbor and I want to bring food over to my friends house when I've cooked too much. I want bicycle only streets and I want people to go on spontaneous walks with. I want people to ask me for help when they need it and I want to be able to ask for help in return. I want community as a safety net. I want people to stop focusing on the vague concept of the one, who will Cure All Isolation and Loneliness. I want every single person to be able to find support and comfort around them, regardless of their relationship status.
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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do anti-kink people realize that their insistance for people to just keep it to themselves and not tell anyone who's not involved is like. what a lot of people already do or do you think the realization that their teachers and friends and relatives and grocery store clerks and whatever have sex sometimes is too much for them. like you dont have to think about it or ask about it and you probably shouldnt but like. people have sex sometimes. and sometimes its not vanilla. crazy i know
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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we have got to take monster energy anyway from the hands of trans people
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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DESEXUALIZE BOOBS
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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FTM International 1997 (x)
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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“TRANS KIDS DESERVE TO BECOME TRANS ADULTS.”
Via @x.pixiepie.x 🩵
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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y'know i feel like i don't hear much from transfems who identify with gayness/manhood in some way/to some extent, a lot. obviously they exist but overwhelmingly online i see mostly NB transfems who lean lesbian/towards womanhood.
with NB people assigned female i feel like there's more of a mix of alignment, so i wonder if this is related to the invisibility of & hostility towards NB people AMAB combined with bias against queer masculinity/manhood.
#this is meee#well sort of. i hate the binary transfem/transmasc labels#but identifying as a gay man was the first thing that let me express femininity#and the way gay men express femininity is very unique. its not just tied to sexuality its tied to gender as well#like women have a label for being a masculine woman - butch#but there is no label for gay men. i call myself twink but thats really just a body type#and as i was identifying as a gay man i still felt like something was missing. it wasn't fully who i was#as soon as i realized im not 100% a man i started feeling sooo much more comfortable with masculinity#like i was no longer trying to prove to people i wasn't a man. I knew i wasn't and that was good enough for me. femininity no longer became#a performance. it was now a choice#but when looking for a label i found a lot of kinship with butches. the way they dress. their culture. being mistaken for men. etc#again another case of how sexuality is linked to gender in a unique way#i wanted to experiment with the lesbian label but the lines around womanhood are very restrictive#the consensus was you were either a woman or you were NOT and there was no overlap. and i dont feel comfortable labeling myself as a woman.#never have. never will. and it was widely accepted that any girl who didn't fully medically transition was a faker and a predator#people are still cruel to girls with beards. people still make fun of men in makeup and dresses. identifying as a trans butch was much more#dangerous than a gay man.#so i say my gender is somewhere between a gay man and a butch lesbian because those are the only two labels ive ever felt like fit me#even though those are labels for sexuality and not gender#i still tell people im a gay guy because those are some of the only words i have for being masculine and feminine at the same time without#raising eyebrows#plus my current partner is a man/aligned so it would feel dismmissive to say im a butch#sorry this is a lot of words but im basically trying to say im a gay guy without a gender#and we do exist
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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There's a reason the state starts by going after the people you refuse to respect
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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just had an absolutely sickening conversation with a 20 year old I work with wherein I had to impress upon her that her and her friends need to be extremely cautious going to the gay clubs right now with increasing attacks happening. make sure any very young, very newly adult queer people in your life know that we're a family and community and part of that is being willing to fight for your siblings lives if they're under attack. even if it's a person you despise, you stick up for your family and they will stick up for you. we are all we have. the cops refuse to help, and so do most people outside the community. we cannot survive without each other
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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Because some people seem to have forgotten.
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mxbutchtwink · 7 months
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(q. watership down)
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