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This blog is now an archive.

We are inactive.

The dni that was present on this blog no longer applies to any thing present here and anyone may interact with its content as well as use it as long as proper credit it applied.

Do not send requests or asks as they will not be answered.

Any requests sent while the blog was active were deleted.

Bye.

Wanna know why? Its litterally beneath this post. Read it.

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Yeah, no body is probably gonna care really as we've been dead for abit but im just gonna call it here. We're exhausted and everytime i think of coming back, some other bs happens in the community and more people show their ass and more people get lost in the sauce and more people start claiming some bs that were just done at this point.

Im not gonna name names but seriously its getting old seeing the performative bs in this community. Its like watching a bunch of kids trying to blow out candles on a birthday cake and they are constantly shoving each other out of the way to be the first to blow the last candle out aka hamfist another political issue and talk over another group of people.

Everytime we speak, either nothing happens or people police every single thing i say. You cant be neutral on any issue. You cant be uninformed on any issue. You cant disagree on any issues. You cant respectfully disagree, every single issue you must agree on or else the other party is bigoted. Im tired of the constant stress and anxiety that i might not have the "right" opinion. Im tired of being constantly policed. Im tired of being constantly stressed. Im tried of the bs and fighting and the discourse and everything. Im tired of the bigotry and the ableism and just...

This isnt what our community is for. This isnt what we're here for. We're to give terms and flags and pronouns and identities, thats it. Thats your only job as a coiner. Thats it.

Im done. I may come back some day under a different blog and different name but i dont think ill ever emotionally or socially engage with this community in the end. Its toxic and immature and unneeded. We've been on so many different sides of different arguments both exclusionarily and inclusionarily and for how "loving, accepting, caring and kind" this community claims to be, ive seen more kindess from "exclusionists" than ive ever seen from this. Mogai feels like a blind rabid beast, hellbent on ripping any opposing opinion or honest question to shreds and pissing on its remains as it gloats how tolerant and loving it is. Antisemitism and racism is waved away with a simple utterance of "hyperfixation" or "fictive" or "critical consumption". Every -core is ok as long theres a -coric version. Real life murders turned into genders and people telling others to kill themselves on anon while they have suicide-baiters in their dni.

Everyone here is guilty. Either by your own actions or by allowing those who cause this chaos and pain and confusion to continue undisturbed. I know how it looks. Ive been the follower of a dead blog watching its creator have a meltdown about the horrors of the community and how it treats people and how they've never been more stressed and alienated then when they actively were in the mogai community. I thought they had issues but they werent wide spread. I thought they had grievances but they were only truely aimed at a few people. I thought it was isolated incident but now standing on the otherside, i see it for what it really is.

A performative rabid pack of mindless zombies that throw tragedy after tragedy at a wall in hopes you might like or reblog their content just for that milisecond of serotonin and acceptance. They boast how loving and accepting of all they are and how much they desire to kill and shred anyone who makes people feel unwelcome for not being the norm. That should of been your first red flag but you continued in anyway and the moment they see you and see one minor imperfection that isnt in their image they fucking eat you alive. They slander you and tell you to kill yourself and prey on every insecurity and throw all your triggers at you. They insult you for one wrong color in a flag. One wrong image id. One wrong opinion. One wrong stance. Because for some reason, in their warped and unraveled minds, they think they are building a utopia of blogs and posts and servers where they are free and the undesirables are snuffed out. Inclusion means everyone. Even people you dont like. Even people who disagree. Even people who've done horrendous shit. Of course they want the harmful ones out but their sensors are triggered if you even so much as hc some random character differently. Harmful means nothing in their eyes. Any sort of questioning is harmful. Just smile and wave and agree and maybe we wont slander you to our 5,000 follower base ✨😍😘🙏 it makes me fucking sick

This is the most defensive and trigger happy community i have ever seen in my life and im so happy to finally step out into the sun after being in this hell for 6 years. I love xenogenders. I love neopronouns. Ive hyperfixated and informed myself for years and at this point... That isnt what this community is right now. Its unnesseary tone policing. Its demanding to know someone's personal identity before allowing them to speak on a subject. Its silencing anyone who may disagree and forcing them into the outskirts because no one within their perfect bubble needs to see any form of opposition or healthy debate cause they need that 'safe space'. We needed that safe space too. We needed unconditional acceptance too.

Its so... White. Its so cisgender. Its so heterosexual. You all refuse to see the humanity in anyone with an opposing opinion and think that you've achieved the "pinnacle of progressivism" so your better than anyone you deem to have an exclusionary and challenging opinion. They are stupid or blind in your eyes to your truth and theres nothing more white and christian than that shit. If your truely sure about your beliefs, you'd be willing to step out of your comfort zone for once. You'd understand that opinions arnt on a slider but mulitple and theres no lane of good or bad opinions. You'd understand that some shit isnt valid and some identities should not exist or be accepted. You'd understand just how disconnected from the real living world you are cause your too busy typing up your responce to the most recent disaster to actually ever step on ground zero. Id bet money 80% of you have never stepped foot in a protest, never donated a dollar to someone in need. Its too inconvenient for you. Anything that requires more energy than sharing a useless gofundme or adding your support behind some petition is lost on you. You all claim to be bastions of knowledge about the community but you cant even tell me when the stonewall riot occured. Oh and i bet the petty ones of you just did a google search so you can smuggly reply it on this post or in your reblog,didnt you? Well there ya go huh? You only acknowledge the information that boosts you and im tired of it. Ive seen with my own eyes yall have the energy to scream your trauma and pain at some sysmed but claim their ableist for not Condensing their sources and expecting you to read it. Some of yall really think that mspec lesbians are being murdered in droves like trans women. You snap at people and treat them like shit then turn off all your replies and anons and reblogs then claim they were too big of a pussy to respond. Hypocrites, liars and cowards, the lot of us.

im tired of holding my tounge and looking to a big blog for guidence just so i dont get thrown off the ship. This community truely feels like the song life boat from heathers. No honor among thieves, eh? Im tired of being petrified that i dont align. Im tired of watching people i know treat people they claim to advocate for like shit just because they disagree on some inane online identity. Im tired of being talked over by people whose ego is bigger than their mouth. This community is like high school with clicks n shit. Some of yall really just turned into xenogender pansexual bullies. The moment you can let out some vitrol on someone, you go nuts. Your just as bad and i am no better. Someone cant even be neutral in this community without being lumped into the enemy.

I know ive joined some dogpiles. I know ive lied about some shit. Ive never lied about who i am though and so many people get caught race-faking or age-faking that i dont know who my enemies or allies are. I never have felt safe ever truely connecting and being vulnerable with this community and i dont think i ever will. With how many times ive seen full callouts include ss of people's private chats where someone talks about their trauma has told me this community will not stop at hell when it comes to digging shit up. I cant even be mad without someone policing my tone. Some of you are like me and lack empathy but everyone is capable of sympathy and so many of you utterly refuse to show it. You claim to be bleeding heart liberals but the moment the victim isnt perfect for you, you ignore their suffering. I still hold all my beliefs so no, theres nothing you can go digging through my dni to find to disagree upon to make my testamony go away.

I was one of you and ive never felt like i belonged. I was only here by name never feeling. I will turn people away from here to protect them. I will advise aginest coming here and involving themselves with you. I will tell them to say nothing and never socially interact. I'll tell them its not worth the extra 5,000 xenogenders they may find to fit them. Cause for me? It wasnt. Nothing about this was worth the pain and stress and irritation i endured just being a passive victim. Pinkfruitgender was right and we should of left when they did but we thought we might be able to push through. That was a load of shit.

I hope this community crashes and burns and the lot of you scatter. I know ill be there to rebuild an actual loving and accepting community in its place. One that invites healthy differences in opinions. One that dosent strawman their enemies they've never even listend to. One that actually knows whats harmful and what isnt. I have very little hope that this community will ever fully stop. I already see new and toxic up and coming blogs taking the place of those who left. For every good blog, theres 7 seething and hateful ones popping up and blocking one blog dosent protect you from the rest. I hope the far and few between good of you will be there to help me because i know you'll make the best of it. But until then..

Good fucking bye

-Millie and neo

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Ive decided to boost our other alters 2 blogs real fast. Here we go.

First up is @errors-genders By error, the fictive you saw runnin around here then quickly got bullied by ableists. He found a typing quirk translator so hes alot better at speaking and he wants to make his own content similar to ours.

2nd and lasty is @leaf-simply thats our alter avery and he wants to step into doing simplifications of existing flags.

Thats all. I just wanted to boost our sysmates who are trying to get started with their own stuff. Feel free to go check them out or send requests. None of them have anything posted yet, i dont think.

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Springbonnie themed names and pronouns!

Neopronouns

Spring/springself

Rabbit/rabbitself

Bunny/bunnyself

Banjo/banjoself

Cheer/cheerself

Gold(en)/gold(en)self

Robo(t)(ic)/robo(t)(ic)self

Animatron(ic)/animatron(ic)self

Bite/biteself

Music/musicself

Emojipronouns

🐰/🐰/🐰self

💛/💛/💛self

🤖/🤖/🤖self

🎉/🎉/🎉self

🎶/🎶/🎶self

Names

Fem

Bon

Usagi

Pureia

Masc

Boe

Jeremy

Benjamin

Neutral

Bonnie

Rabbit

Hum

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Hello there m'lieges,

I have recently formed in our system, and was looking for neos that fit, if it is not too much trouble.

I'm looking for knight themed, or similar to the song Soldier, Poet, King, by the Oh Hellos. Thank you -Cas

Hi. I c@n d0 this. Im @ll @l0n3 @t th3 fr0nt but my bl0g isnt up @nd w0rking y3t s0 l3t m3 s333 if i c@n h3lp. Im n0t in th3 m000d t0 pr0p3rly list3n to s0ngs @t th3 m0m3nt but i might ch3ck th@t 0ut. Im just g0ing t0 g0 with th3 g3n3r@l th3m3 y0u r3qu3st3d.

Translation: hi. I can do this. Im all alone at the front but my blog isnt up and working yet so let me see if i can help. Im not in the mood to properly listen to songs at the moment but i might check that out. Im just going to go with the general theme you requested.

Knight theme

Neopronouns:

Knight/Knightself

Shield/shieldself

Sword/swordself

Protect/protectself

Kni/kniself

Liege/liegeself

Honor/honorself

Brave(ry)/brave(ry)self

Guard/guardself

Regal/regalself

Emoji pronouns

👑/👑/👑self

🗡/🗡/🗡self

🛡/🛡/🛡self

🐴/🐴/🐴self

🤴🏻/🤴🏻/🤴🏻self

Names

Fem

Genuineve

Mary

Honora

Masc

Brave

Arthur

Scott

Neutral

Knight

Honor

Faris

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Nightmare sans themed names and pronouns!

Neopronouns:

Apple/appleself

Goop/goopself

Nega/negativeself

Dark(ness)/dark(ness)self

Tenta(cle)/tenta(cle)self

Black/blackself

Despair/despairself

Gloom/gloomself

Rot/rotself

Stalk/stalkself

Emojipronouns:

🍎/🍎/🍎self

💀/💀/💀self

👑/👑/👑self

🖤/🖤/🖤self

🐙/🐙/🐙self

Names:

Fem

Nimue

Batibat

Hecate

Masc

Azazel

Diabolos

Abigor

Neutral

Lamia

Mara

Ravana

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hihi!! may i ask for names that can be shortened to mi/mimi? i loooove that nickname but havent quite found a name i like that has it- ty <3!

Hmm... This one is tricky!

Heres some we think could work:

Fem

Minnie

Millie

Mikaela/mckayla

Masc

Mickey

Micah

Mike/michael

Neutral

Mick

Mimi(you could avoid the whole nickname stuff and just name yourself mimi)

Mini

Thats our best guess off the top of our heads! I hope these work and sorry for the wait!

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Im... Going to have to agree with orxngecrxsh. Sorry to say this on your post/if it takes away from your points. I wont do this kind of thing again but i wanted the above examples without the feeling of teasing and unease that comes with screenshots and an @.

We care about you reign but seriously this is getting out of hand. We get it, as all of us are young young adults that becoming 18 dosent suddenly make you an 100% mature and stable adult but your behavior hasnt changed over the course of the years you've been here and it seriously worries us and make us uncomfortable sometimes.

You damn people who suicide-bait yet yell about how exclusionists should "support you or die". You call other lgbt people worthless just because they dont agree with you, regardless of an inclusionary or exclusionary view. I mean, there are numerous examples (that you try to delete which is not a good look on you and shows that you know this behavior isnt ok) like this one 🔽🔽🔽

At this point, this isnt acitvism or standing up for anyone, its just seething hate. Youre allowed to be upset but at this point, hearing the things you've said about people with a slightly less informed opinion than you isnt allyship, its just pure aggression. I mean we are all for queer rage but this isnt what that is.

Its one thing to point out flaws in flawed ideology but that isnt what your doing in this post or any of the other ones you've made about it. Your just degrading and insulting people you dont even know based on one thought. We support critical inclusion but your not doing that with this post or any others. Your inclusion and even just basic human respect falls away once someone disagrees with you, regardless of if they are respecting you as a person or not.

We've felt this way for awhile, but after seeing someone else also notice this behaviour, we feel alittle better saying it.

Our personal take is that if exclusionism puts you in this deep and angry and intense of mental state, you need to take the mature and self-helping route of stepping away from the phone/computer. Hell even stepping away from the community for abit or even not partisipating in discourse period and just souly focusing on genders and orientations. That or at least taking your pain out on an anonymous venting blog or a notebook. You dont need to prove your activism to this community, we all know your progressive and inclusive but we dont want to watch you tear yourself apart over intracommunity discourse that truthfully, dose not affect the community at large or even outside of the mogai/liom online community in many cases. Its ok to speak out when needed but this is excessive.

If you cant say something respectfully, dont say anything at all. This cant be helping you mentally and it certainly is starting to push your friends and muturals away in fear of being triggered because at some point, your posts are verbal abuse with no target, just the collateral damage of your followers.

Please go get help or better copeing mechanisms reign, this isnt healthy and it certainly puts everyone around you on edge or in fear that they will be next to get a verbal assault if they "slip up", arnt as informed or have a differing opinion.

i hate that there’s a growing amount of exclusionists in the coining community. almost every new coiner I find is against lesboys and lunians and it makes me fucking sick to my stomach. i don’t even care that they’re mainly 14- I don’t care if it’s because they’re young or uneducated they’re making this community worse and they deserve to feel like shit for doing so. fuck all of the exclusionists in this community I fucking want you to pay for the shit you’ve done

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☀Bellusrose☀

☀Bellusromantic + bellussexual flag!☀

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☀Cupiorose pride flag!☀

☀Cupiosexual + cupioromantic☀

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☀Honeykissic☀

☀A gender related to honeysuckle, tasteing honeysuckle nector, honeysuckle tea and sweet kisses with one's loved ones.☀

☀Day 12 of our summer months of mogai coining event! Prompt: honeysuckle.☀

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☀Ask for pronouns/fluid pronouns pride flag!☀

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☀Liminhikeiv☀

☀A gender related hiking in liminal places, being lost, cold foggy and rainy weather, crumbling rocks underfoot and feeling watched.☀

☀For day 11 of our summer months of mogai coining event! Prompt: hiking☀

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☀Ameriteaque☀

☀A gender related to american iced tea, lemons, cool summer breezes, tea stained parchment and antiques.☀

☀Coined for day 10 of our summer coining event! The prompt is iced tea!☀

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Limincampal

A gender related/connected to; getting the creeps while camping out in the woods, camping, feeling watched, liminal forests, leaves/twigs crunching, glowing eyes in pure darkness, campfire crackles and scary inhuman cries of unknown creatures.

This gender could also be kenochoric in nature but not necessarily.

Coined for day 9 of our summer coining event! Prompt: camping!

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Pridemonadeic

A gender realted to pride month, summer heat, the refreshment of lemonade, sweet lemonade, pride and pink lemomade!

Coined for day 8 of our summer coining event! Prompt: pride month!

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Geministone

A gender realted to gemstones, rocks and having gemini as your zodiac sign.

Coined for day 7 of our summer coining event! Prompt: gemini!