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Stress having physical effects is so stupid your body's just like "you've been having a real shit time and I'm about to make it worse" I hope you die I hope we both die

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this is too real I fear

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Most humans suck so I appreciate the ones I connect with

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I deeply appreciate when people are just organically warm & kind.. because you aren't obligated to give that, and you might not even be in the right space to do so but yet, you do... thank you. 

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Get in the habit of talking about your joys more than your problems.

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I LIKE PEOPLE WHO ARE CONSIDERATE.

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really want to go sit in the middle of nature and not think for a while

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Hard pill to swallow, maybe, but sometimes you are the problem. You may not have been initially, but people around you can only have so much endurance for understanding why you're "like that" and how you got to where you are now. Even if you were the one who was victimized, hurt, or abused to begin with, your behavior affects those around you. There's a point at which personal responsibility needs to kick in, or you will become toxic. You can become toxic even if you never become an abuser yourself. If other people are constantly having to help dig you out of the holes you made but you keep slapping their hands away, you cannot expect them to have an indefinite amount of patience and energy to keep trying. If you're not putting in the work to recover from what damaged you; if everyone else in your life is consistently the only one making a real effort to effect change for you--you're the problem.

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i’m not as mean as I would like to be. and I really wish people appreciated that more

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be busy. busy not checking messages. busy reading those books you never started or finished. busy having a good night of sleep. busy taking care of yourself and your skin. busy moving your body. busy helping your community. busy reflecting on your life and what you can improve. busy doing things aside from the capitalistic viewpoint of “productivity.” busy slowing down.

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So grateful I'm so intimate with my own timing