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queerbatting · 9 months
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Here's a comic about surgery & gender.
xoxo kag
edit: yes i spelled superstitious wrong. oops.
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queerbatting · 9 months
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i think cis girls can have a packer as a treat
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queerbatting · 9 months
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chameleon chameleon
... the second part of a personal essay i wrote about being bigender. this time, about being bigender and transitioning. thank you to everyone who read and enjoyed part one!
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queerbatting · 9 months
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Remembering the time my old nb roommate who went to an LGBT law conference and was heaping the absolute biggest bitchfit texting me cause “some cis guy” was talking about trans people and trans men in particular and my roommate refused to listen to what this guy said cause “why should I listen to him” and I said “are you sure he’s cis?” And then towards the end of the presentation he said something that indicated to the crowd he was a trans man and then suddenly my roommate started to consider what had been shared.
Absolute loser behavior, but not completely unique. We’ve all gotta stop saying only x people can talk about x issues for us to listen. Too many people in the in group will have dogshit takes no one wants to challenge because “well, they are x identity.” Likewise, plenty of people on the out group actually know what they’re talking about and have something to contribute to the conversation.
Especially when it comes to sexuality and gender, you relying on someone outing themselves or you clocking them to decide whether their words have merit is shitty, because you won’t always know if they ARE the group “allowed” to talk about it. And even beyond that, I knew a fuckload about transness before I realized I was trans, it helped me REALIZE I was trans. “Listen to x voices” got sooooo warped in the discourse.
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queerbatting · 10 months
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JUST realized my intention to clear up the meaning of this post by adding "(read: choose)", because of fear of misinterpretation, could muddy up the meaning and cause misintepretation anyways!! my apologies. my intent with this post was like "hell yeah do what you want with your presentation" and i didn't want it to be insinuated that ppl who are forced to wear these articles of clothing are having a good time or being a cool genderbender (which again was my intent with the post and my own experience with choosing to wear a kippah). of COURSE support for those who have no choice, i wish you all to be in a place where you can choose to wear what you want one day. i've edited the original post to better reflect my intent, please reblog the new version instead (it will be tagged on my blog under #hijabi or #kippah)
shoutout to nonbinary/agender/otherwise gender nonconforming people who choose to wear cultural clothing typically associated with a certain gender!
jews who wear kippot, muslims who wear hijabs and burqas and niqābs and jilbābs and kimars, sihks who wear turbans, just to name a few!
whether you're wearing these because you have a connection to the gender associated with the article of clothing, or if you wear them because you want to challenge gender roles, or if youre just used to wearing them and don't think your gender should stop you from continuing, or any other reason, i think you all rule!!! im actually a nonbinary jew who wears kippot :] rock on!
and to those who are forced to wear these things, i hope one day you all are in a place where you can have the freedom of choice
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queerbatting · 10 months
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shoutout to nonbinary/agender/otherwise gender nonconforming people who choose to wear cultural clothing typically associated with a certain gender!
jews who wear kippot, muslims who wear hijabs and burqas and niqābs and jilbābs and kimars, sihks who wear turbans, just to name a few!
whether you're wearing these because you have a connection to the gender associated with the article of clothing, or if you wear them because you want to challenge gender roles, or if youre just used to wearing them and don't think your gender should stop you from continuing, or any other reason, i think you all rule!!! im actually a nonbinary jew who wears kippot :] rock on!
and to those who are forced to wear these things, i hope one day you all are in a place where you can have the freedom of choice
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queerbatting · 10 months
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chameleon chameleon
a comic about being bigender, and bisexual, by me! happy pride everyone.
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queerbatting · 10 months
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Some guy was staring at me hard af while I did the first one LMAO
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queerbatting · 10 months
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"I can be a butch without opening door for girls," he's saying. "I can be a butch without opening doors for girls," he's saying. I can do it even if I follow while dancing, I can do it without spending my Saturday afternoons as a femme's shopping bottom at the mall and I do. I am. I am honorable, I take good care of the people I love as well as I possibly can; I watch out for my community. I have a butch heart full of love that I can express when I feel safe enough; I walk in the world resisting gender norms and transgressing gender rules, transcending them. I am fixing whatever I can, whenever I can, and I laugh, and play, and let the spaces in my masculinity show, just like you, just like every butch. I get all slicked up for a date in a suit and tie and I pick up my date, also in a suit and tie, and we just open the door if we get to it first and we take turns paying, and it doesn't make me less a butch. It doesn't make me less of anything. It doesn't mean that I don't think femmes are swell, I surely do, but they are not my salvation when I travel, they are not the North of my heart's compass. That's butches for me, and I will always go a little weak when I see someone who looks scared and hardened and delighted and ashamed and proud --- proud, just like me."
"FAGGOT BUTCH" Butch is a Noun essays by S. Bear Bergman (2006)
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queerbatting · 10 months
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queerbatting · 10 months
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t4t is so important to me not just romantically. t4t friends t4t family t4t community t4t sex t4t friends with benefits etc!!!!!!!! it’s the best thing in the world
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queerbatting · 10 months
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happy pride month god i love being queer so fucking much
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queerbatting · 10 months
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happy pride month to it/its pronoun users ily
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queerbatting · 10 months
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Advertisement for a computer-run gay dating service, The Advocate, 1969.
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queerbatting · 10 months
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Pimped out my shirt for Pride
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queerbatting · 10 months
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I’m all for going about queerness with the goal of not being able to be understood by outsiders but like. you’ve GOT to be normal about aro & ace people if you do. you can’t go on about being confusing to cishets for fun and then complain about ace & aro people who go about sex and romance and attraction in ways that don’t make sense to you.
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queerbatting · 10 months
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My gf is an actual amab cis girl. They wrote male on her birth certificate by mistake
holy shit tell your girlfriend congrats on the fun gender
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