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Everyone: GHOUL GHOUL GHOOOOUL ⛪️⛪️⛪️✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻🧎🏻‍♀️🧎🏻‍♀️🧎🏻‍♀️

Meanwhile me: 🥰⭐️🌟💥🫣✨✨🥹☺️✨🌟☺️

(he was a mass murderer, but we can’t deny he had the rizz 🌷✨💅🏻💅🏻 and the before he died I thought we might get passionate antagonistic story between him and Lucy)

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okay but "the symbolism is Real and Trying to Kill You" is my favorite kind of symbolism

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when is comes to asexuality and aromanticism you have to be okay with contradiction. one ace person will say asexuality is about not experiencing attraction, another will say it’s about not caring to act on attraction, another will say it’s not experiencing arousal. one aromantic will consider themself queer, one won’t. two people with seemingly identical experiences will use two different labels. aro people will be in romantic relationships, ace people will have sex. you get it.

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Spike would text "Would you still love me if I was a worm" and Buffy would text back "You are a worm to me, always have been"

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I constantly think about the quote (literally no idea what it’s from) I read once about how teenage girls want to fuck their band guy idols because it’s the closest they can get to wanting to BE their band guy idols. Like damn… way to recontextualize my entire adolescence with 1 sentence

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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)

I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important

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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around

When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry

I had to change that in order to keep those friendships

When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.

So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship

It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.

That's called "living in a society"

People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you

You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises

I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes

There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"

And that's a recipe for disaster

Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do

However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational

We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing

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More stories from hell (retail) today I was ringing up this lady and she goes oh I want to do part of this on a gift card and the rest on normal card and I go ok and then she hands me a folded piece of paper. I think oh OK it must be folded around the gift card, right? Wrong. It is a folded sheet of 8×11 printer paper with "$40" written on the inside in ballpoint pen. I go what is this. She says a gift card. I say this is not a gift card. She says yes it is. I say this is a piece of paper with "$40" written on it. She says "well it's a gift card." I say it absolutely is not. I am grinding my teeth. She says well I want to use it. I say you physically cannot do that bc it is a piece of paper. I cannot scan or swipe it. I apologize, as if this is my fault, and not because she is completely insane. I hate it here

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So I usually am on mobile and I just saw how many messages are in here, wow

I don’t have a lot of Fanfic time now that I’m a Ghostwriter and I’m also working on a original writing project, but maybe I’ll pick through some of these (even though I’m three years late for some of them)

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"What's ur type in men?" "Morally grey men with touch her and I'll kill you vibes"

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Finally Made a Commission Sheet!

I have quite a few different Tumblr Sideblogs(I catagoerize by Fandom) so I’ll be reblogging this to them

Please feel free to DM me if you’re interested in discussing a Commission!

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Hi I just wanted to drop in and say your blog is lovely and so are you 💛💛💛

I really appreciate that! 💖💖 I’m glad you enjoy my content 😁 Here, have my first self-portrait with the new tablet, along with the finest garbage husband lmao. I hope you have a great week, and stay safe!

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Picture this tho; Raider boy who loves to talk dirty, the man's voice is like honey he could say anything and I'd still 💘. I just imagine him whispering something scandalous to sole at an inconvenient time (like when they're meeting the bosses) and doing his best to make them red in the face and weak in the knees. (HI ALSO I LOVE your blog ahsowbsoa, you write gage so well! 💘💗💖🌚💖💞)

Sole is Grey because they are ANON-Sole; I might hold a poll at some point to decide on a look for a Raiders-R-Us specific Sole 😅 (I don’t want to push my own Sole on everyone). Also thank you so much!!! I’m glad you appreciate my content! 🥰

I LOVE THIS ASK THOUGH GAGE IS ABSOLUTELY MAJOR VOICE KINK MATERIAL

• Gage absolutely doesn’t notice at first, but his voice just does things for Sole

• From the very first time they heard it over the loudspeaker on the train, they swooned, fuckin swooned. It was embarrassing.

• When Sole started feeling a little more brave around him, they more and more often allude to their attraction to his voice. “What’s that Gage? You wanna get behind me and whisper in my ear?”

• It wasn’t until after they started dating that Gage really caught on to the effect his voice had on The Boss, but you bet your ass he uses it to his advantage

• He’s sneaky about it too

• When Sole is meeting with the bosses, he likes to slide up behind them, just a bit closer than he needs to be, and let the filth flow

• The Nuka Bosses all think that he is advising Sole against them, and it makes them uneasy enough that they totally miss how hard Sole is trying to keep calm and pretend they aren’t waiting eagerly for Gage to whisk them back to Fizztop and throw them onto the bed...usually

• Bonus Points if Gage and Sole are keeping their relationship a secret

• The Bosses are no strangers to body language, so it isn’t too awfully long before they notice how...preoccupied Sole seems to be with Gage’s “advice”

• It’s Mason who calls them out on their shenanigans, and Gage just laughs his ass off in the honey sweet voice of his while Sole goes bright red with embarrassment

• Embarrassed or not, Sole expects Gage to make good on all of his promises when they retreat back to Fizztop

I hope you like it!!! And I hope you have a great week!! ☺️