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I feel like people in the TCM community don’t talk about Chop-Top’s and Bubba’s relationship enough. It’s obvious Chop-Top loves Bubba, but just doesn’t like showing it (Which is normal or siblings). Considering in TCM 2, he got mad at him about messing up his metal plate and ruining his wig, but realizes that he can’t get mad at him, just asking if he got Stretch good. I just need more fanart of them being brothers who enjoy each other’s company, is that so much to ask for?

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This is very true

guide for how to spot someone who is faking DID for dummies!!!

1. you can't!!

2. no like seriously you can't!!

okay i hear you, i hear you! apparently the crowd has some comments about things that DEFINITELY means someone is faking so let's address them!

high part count/significant change in part count: part counts entirely are focused on your window of tolerance, of you've got a low window of tolerance odds are you are going to split from minor stress! and as you move further through recovery you'll most likely discover more and more parts you never knew existed!! (also anyone who quotes "average amount of alters" you make me barf seriously)

introjects: bleh. introjects can literally be anything even people without did introject. anyone who fakeclaims over introjects you're so dramatic plssss get a GRIP!!! it's not that deep!!

misinformation: mfers love to say that did is a complex disorder and then act shocked when someone gets something wrong. IT'S OKAY TO BE WRONG!!! we used to believe in core theory I promise you, you are going to get things wrong time and time again and you will learn!!! it's okay!!

positivity: ugh not this again. can't a mfer be joyful and whimsy while having did without getting fakeclaimed?? positivity is good and positivity doesn't mean the absence of negativity!!!! YOU ARE ALLOWED TO LOVE YOUR SYSTEM! they've done a lot for you and I promise you a little bit of positivity will do you some good! it's not healthy to lay in your own misery your entire life - this disorder is not a death sentence guys. cmon.

age: oh my god? people can find out they have a disorder formed in childhood before they are legally adult? WHO WOULD HAVE THUNK?? some people get therapy early in life, some people just find out, it happens and if it bothers you that 15 year olds have did - maybe you should take a step back?? mayhaps?

message is, you don't know what someone's been through and you don't know their symptoms just because they have a public blog on the internet. they are still a stranger! worry about yourself, worry about what you can to make yourself happy and leave people ALOOONE!!!!!!

anyways systems I LOVEEE YOUUUUU don't let any idiots fakeclaiming get to you I promise you! you know yourself more than idiots on the internet! take care!!!!

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perfect representation of how it feels to suddenly gain sentience after switching in a grocery store

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Reblog if you want a bunch of “have you evers” and “would you rathers” in your ask box right now.

Please

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OML I AM SO BOREDDDDD. There's been so many switches alreadyyyyyyy.......

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daisuke's swansea fanart

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Little reminder that you are loved and are valid, even if you are hypersexual

You didn’t deserve the treatment that people gave you and/or still give you

You didnt ask for the trauma to happen to you

You were just a person who was hurt by cruel people in this world

And I am truly sorry that happened to you

You are more than your trauma and your past, and are just as much deserving of love and affection as everyone else

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People who self harm only for attention are just as valid as people who self harm for any other reason.

Seriously.

Parents often make the mistake of dismissing their child’s self harm as “attention seeking” when it’s otherwise.

But what always gets me is that, even if a child is harming themselves solely to get attention, that is a huge problem they need help for!

If a person has to go as far as to cause physical harm to themselves in order to gain what they feel as the proper amount of attention, that is someone who needs help ASAP.

No matter the form, no matter the severity, no matter the reason, self harm is a sign of severe distress that deserves immediate, intense attention.

And no one will ever convince me otherwise.

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A system is a collection of alters. Alters are chronically dissociated self states, with different neurological pathways that often are accompanied by a varying degree of amnesia. Dissociation is caused by stress/trauma. Alters are a byproduct of dissociating from trauma. You can’t dissociate from trauma you do not have. You cannot dissociate without trauma. You cannot have alters without trauma. You cannot have a system without alters.

You cannot be a system without trauma.

Do you have to know about the trauma ? No. Does it have to be a certain type of trauma ? No. Does it need to be a certain severity ? No. It just needs to have occurred during critical developmental period of the brain. Before the ego states have stitched together, it must be chronic, and beyond the child’s stress threshold, otherwise it will not disrupt the developmental growth. This is different for everyone. The reason trauma cannot be listed as a diagnostic criteria, is because there is no “xyz trauma that causes dissociative disorders”. It’s completely unique to each person suffering from the disorder. And in often cases, the person suffering from the disorder isn’t aware of their trauma. That’s the point of the disorder. This does not mean you don’t need trauma to suffer from a dissociative disorder. Systems are byproducts of dissociative disorders, you cannot be a byproduct of a disorder you do not have.

Endos are not systems. What do I mean by this? I mean that, by definition, that term is not suited for them, and is not meant to describe them. Just like kinning doesn’t mean you’re a system, just like roleplaying doesn’t mean you’re a system, just like religious practises such as tulpamancy isn’t a system. You are perfectly free to do whatever you please, truly. But do not compare it to being a system. You do not share our experiences. You are a different community entirely, and that’s ok.

But please, for the love of god, stop invading our community, and stop spreading misinformation about an already stigmatised and misunderstood disorder.

I understand if you didn’t know better. But please, educate yourself, and stop spreading this misinformation. Being a system isn’t an identity. It’s not a label. And please, stop comparing it to being queer. This is a mental illness. Being queer is not a mental illness.

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Sourcemate calling!

Okay okay, we're looking for source mates from the following sources, the names in ( ) are who we have introjects of!

Criminal Minds (Spencer, Rossi, Hotch, Garcia, Luke, Alex, Emily and Morgan.)

Mouthwashing (Curly, Anya, Swansea)

My Hero Academia (We have a LOT...so just ask)

The Owl House (King & Raine)

Poppy Playtime (Catnap, DogDay, Huggy,Kissy, Mommy, and Bunzo.)

FNAF(MANY. Just ask)

Welcome Home (Wally, Eddie and Frank.)

BATIM (Bendy,Sammy, Boris and Alice.)

Arcane (Vi, Jinx, Silco and Viktor.)

The Walking Dead(Negan, Daryl,Rick and Maggie.)

Detroit Become Human (Connor,Ralph,Hank,Gavin and Nines)

RDR 2 (Arthur & Dutch)

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Assassination Classroom (Koro-sensei, Nagisa & Karasuma)

Bluey (Bandit !)

Gravity Falls (Stan & Ford, Bill, Mabel and Dipper.)

Marvel (Loki, Zemo, Matt & Bucky.)

TADC (Caine,Jax,Pomni, Kinger and Ragatha.)

Mario *Movie & Games* (Luigi)

Sonic 1/2/3 (Sonic,Tails,Shadow, Robotnik)

Team Fortress 2 (Pyro,Scout, Medic, Engineer and Ms.Pauling)

Undertale (Sans,Frisk, Grillby, Dream!Sans, Cross!Sans, Error!Sans, Ink!Sans and Nightmare!Sans.)

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Demon Slayer (Tanjiro, Nezuko, Muzan and Inosku.)

Heavy Rain (Norman Jayden)

Pokemon (Iono, Kukui and Brock)

Sanders Side (Virgil, Patton, Roman and Janus.)

NCIS (Gibbs, Abby and McGee)

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I know I posted a video on tiktok about this but more people need to hear this

Don't date someone unless you can't handle all their disorders, let me repeat Do not date someone unless you can handle ALL their disorders

Don't date someone with a personality disorder unless you can handle the episodes

Do not date someone with a trauma disorder can you can handle the flashblacks

Do not date someone with mood disorder unless you can handle the mood swings

Do not date someone with a disorder you cannot handle

Do not date someone if you're going to villainize them or their disorders

Do not date someone if you're going to romanticize their disorders

It shows you have little to no understanding of their disorders or who they are as a person, it shows you can't truly love them because you refuse to learn the basics of the disorder, and it shows just how much of a shitty person you are