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Sending my love to everyone needing family, love, and shelter during this time of the year. ❤️

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““It’s both a blessing and a curse to feel everything so very deeply.” - David Jones”

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Losing someone you gave your all too is a diff type of heartbreak.

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you have been visited by the seven magic dragon balls your biggest wish will be granted but only if you reblog

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next time i catch feelings for someone throw a brick at my head

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Break the stigma

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I think that a lot of black women feel like because we’re seen as the least desirable even in our own community, that we should be grateful to receive anything given to us. If we even try to raise our standards we’ll be seen as “asking for to much” so we settle for even lower than less ( half ass dates, cheating, multiple baby mamas, etc).

There’s this mentality that black women have to struggle, that we have to continuously take bullshit from people, that we have to take insults from people especially people from our community, and I’ve started to notice ever since black women have started to uplift themselves more, realise there worth and what they deserve, people come out of nowhere trying to put BW back in a box.

So many people benefit from the low self-esteem and suffering of black women. They use terms like “ride or die” “loyal” as some sort of reward or trophy to congratulate you for staying in the struggle. We’re conditioned to believe we’re made to struggle and accept mediocrity, and if we try deviating from that conditioning there is always black men and women (sadly) trying to put you back in the position of suffering.

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“Because in the end, when you lose somebody, every candle, every prayer is not gonna make up for the fact that the only thing that you have left is a hole in your life where that somebody that you care about used to be.”

Damon Salvatore, The Vampire Diaries.

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When you wake up from a dream that makes you so sad that you start crying, years after they’ve passed, it doesn’t mean you haven’t healed. It just means you loved them so very much and you miss them.

Samantha Camargo

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“Isn’t it scary knowing that any time can be the last time you talk to someone? Always keep that in mind.”

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Tired of trying.