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therelignedstars · 4 months

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"Time to get back to work before I hit peggies with a bat for calling me Anna again."

#watch the world suffer and burn than swallow your pride| deputy fairgrave #muse status #//This is your own fault child.

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edorazzi · 6 months

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Page 8 of my Miraculous Mentor AU comic A Matter of Trust! In which Plagg doesn't quite get the awestruck reception he was looking for. Adrien got a very sanitized retelling! 🫢

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#miraculous ladybug #mentor au #felix sphinx #adrien agreste #plagg #josie's art #plagg will always remember felix as the most bitter; disagreeable miraculous holder who also swore in his face UwU #adrien was so much sweeter when they met! :/#plagg this is your own darned fault; you just knocked felix off a ladder and concussed the poor child #uncle richard is like the ONE person felix has ever met in a sensible and casual way with no screaming

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deeplovelydark · 2 months

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deep space nine s05e12 // saturn devouring his son by francisco goya // ivan the terrible and his son ivan by ilya repin

#I was just joking at first but. he did eat the baby. he absorbed it into himself. obviously not intentionally #he wanted it to live so very much #but it wasn't possible #but he got a part of himself back by absorbing his child. familial cannibalism!#and it parallels mora who refuses to acknowledge odo's right as a parent his capacity for it almost to the last #I *am* your father and I know best #not only about you but also about your child #acknowledge your debt to me #be dependent on me #that also is a form of cannibalism #I am the eternal father and I will not be succeeded #I am always stronger than you and if you have something I lack I will take it from you eat it out of you #and odo is forced into this role through no fault of his own #he really wanted his child to be free and loved... I confess I cried #elevated shitpost fr #ds9 #🫀

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dukeofthomas · 3 months

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why is everyone so obsessed with absolving bruce of all responsibility and fault. like no actually he is not 100% innocent in the child vigilantes he did in fact literally just Yoink Jason and make him robin at the ripe age of 12. jason would Not have become a vigilante (or died!) if bruce hadn't made him that. like he is actually 100% responsible for picking up a kid and turning them into a soldier

#my dc posting #jason todd #bruce wayne #batman #red hood #robin #obviously some he couldnt have stopped. im not denying some of them did in fact just do that on their own w no input from bruce #like uhh i think duke cass babs steph etc etc im not doing the fucking child soldier argument here alright #im saying that jason did Not do that. like he was not running out in his own costume doing vigilante shit he interfered in one (1) crime #after first trying to tell someone abt it happening that does not equate to 'im going to become a vigilante'#yet bruce still picked him up and went 'youre robin now :)'#so like it annoys me sooo much when ppl just completely go that bruce had no fault in any of them or whatever. like hello. what the fuckkk #are you talking abt #i love jaybin (robin jason) i love him as robin i dont think he was a bad robin i think bruce is wrong n horrible for doing that #fics will have bruce feeling horrible like 'its my fault he died... he wouldnt have died if he wasnt robin...' and ill be like YES! YES EXA #TLY! you should feel horrible abt it its like a Lot your fault #i used the word soldier in the post bc of. yknow. 'a good soldier' like bruce's words not mine 🤷#''he didnt have a choice'' for most of them yeah i agree! im not disagreeing! except for jason which he 100% had a choice in.#this is a really small thing but it infuriates me endlessly

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anthromimicry · 4 months

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jandy nelson, i'll give you the sun | jean anouilh tr, by lewis galantière | @soulinkpoetry | trista mateer, the dogs i have kissed | the bible

#NO SLEEP OF THE INNOCENT. NOT FOR YOU: character study.#the concept of having a complicated relationship with one's sibling.#because ryuuji was the second born and thus the responsibility of taking care of him was given to misao most of the time she found herself-#being jealous of him sometimes. and misao felt very guilty because of this but she just wanted to be a kid for a moment. so sometimes she-#would imagine that she was ryu instead of herself and their roles were reversed because misao would just get so overwhelmed with things-#that this was the only way she could cope with it at times. which is sad in every sense of the word but misao knew that it wasn't ryu's-#fault at all that thing's were this way. it wasn't anyone's fault really but it was so much easier to place the blame on him subconsciously #sometimes because the alternative was blaming herself for not being strong enough to be both a caretaker and a child at the same time.#and that was perhaps even harder for her to think about because misao has always strived to be perfect. and i mean this in everything-#she does. she wants to be the 'perfect psychotherapist' the 'perfect lover' the 'perfect friend' and it is a LOT of pressure to be honest-#to be putting on yourself especially when you are not fully equipped to open yourself up to people about how you are struggling because-#you've dealt with things on your own all your life. but yeah. misao might've felt resentment towards ryuuji even though it was misplaced-#though she also felt a great deal of platonic love towards him and even if the whole world were against him then she'd still be on his side #but misao has been out of contact with him for the longest time and doesn't even know if he is alive anymore. and she is kind of scared-#to inquire someone to find out for her like a private investigator or something. because i think misao would not be able to take both her-#mom and her half-brother dying because at the end of the day ryuuji is her last remaining family member. and he understood her-#in ways that even she couldn't understand herself.

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yuridovewing · 29 days

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like guys i promise im aware blossomfall is meant to be a glass child. i just think she’s a poorly written one lmao

#tbh thats why my feelings on her are so strong. its a delicate topic for kids but time and time again #its been handled extremely poorly and just used as an excuse to hate disabled people #i think my exhaustion with these stories is bc they were sorta shoved down my throat by the school board growing up #because they heard ‘’wow you got TWO autistic brothers??? your life must SUCK ASS AND BALLS have this book abt how autism ruins families’’#wow cool i feel so much better guys. both about the ableism my family faces in general and about my undiagnosed autism #if i had to think. and i havent read this in forever so i could be misremembering. i think a decent example of a glass child trope #is the sister from ‘’wonder’’ (the book. idk what the movie did)#because while she’s an important character who struggles with internalized ableism #the focus is still on auggie and HIS struggles with his own disability and the ableism he faces as a result #and the sister isnt demonized for her feelings but she does still have to grapple with them #and accept her situation and that no one is at fault or anything. its just a consequence of an ableist society more than anything #again. been forever and ever since i read that book and iirc it does still have iffy shit like the one chapter on genetics #like to this day that sticks out as an uncomfortable chapter and idk if i can say its fantastic rep bc of that #but idk. i remember liking it fine as a kid #i always appreciated books that tried to get into multiple perspectives on the issues #also this is just me and ik it goes against the definition of the term #but man. kinda wish we’d get a glass child character thats also disabled and their disability is undiagnosed or ignored #for the sake of only prioritizing their sibling and bc they have to be ‘’the perfect abled child’’#because thats my story lol #wasnt allowed to be disabled or imperfect or need help because being a third disabled kid wouldve been too much

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sideblogformentalhealtshit · 11 days

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Can we retire telling people (especially children) "i told you so" when they get hurt. It has never helped anybody, and in fact is the part i most vividly remember from all of those instances. Having my pain and distress repeatedly trivialized and ignored in that way was straight up traumatizing.

#personal #children #child rights #idk what to tag this #it actually infuriates me sooo much #like wow your child is crying and in pain but youre too busy what? taking your frustrations out on them? proving to yourself that you're #Smarter and Better and it's their own fault?#man fuck any parent who says that shit. like genuinely fuck you

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sage-nebula · 4 days

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I don't know what the general fandom opinion is on Eddie Fender (and I don't want to know in detail right now since I've only JUST started AAI2-2), but I'M about to jump through the screen to throw hands with him 😤

#Edgeworth was nine. NINE. when MvK took him in.#he was NINE. FUCKING. YEARS. OLD.#when his father was MURDERED right in front of him and his father's MURDERER took him in #and started filling his head with dogma #and you're going to stand there and hold it against him??? hold it against him for not ''knowing better'' as a fucking CHILD????#ik there are mvk apologists in the fandom (few & far btwn as they are) who try to say that he didn't force anything on Edgeworth #but 1.) Edgworth himself says that he did in AA1 #2.) it doesn't take a genius to know that being taught something from someone influences your thinking & MvK was Edgeworth's teacher #3.) MvK raised Edgeworth from age 9 to adulthood — meaning he imparted his own beliefs & dogma into that literal child #and ALL the baggage that comes with it! we see this with Franziska too!#yes once Edgeworth became an adult he made his own choices — BUT those choices were informed by the dogma put into his head since childhood #that he had to work HARD to unlearn — that as of AAI Franziska still hasn't #so for this man to sit here and call him a traitor and insinuate that Gregory would be disappointed #that Edgeworth was victim to MvK's manipulation like it's his fault? when he was a LITERAL CHILD????#BOY i am about to THROW FUCKING HANDS get OUT #aai2 spoilers

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graciehart · 27 days

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nothing makes me more mad than a parent in a custody battle who refuses to see that their actions are harming their child, despite their claims that “all I care about is my child’s well-being.”

#if you really care about your child stop shit-talking their other parent #stop filing absolutely ridiculous contempts that are beyond what a reasonable individual would do #just STOP #parents you should know that half the reason people stop working with kids is because of you #this parent is sad for the kid having multiple therapists already #but it’s generally too risky to be involved with someone who is so hostile and taking so many legal actions #especially if you are not working under your own license #they even made a comment about worrying it’s their fault #and it’s not the reason I’m leaving #but it’s about to be the reason I stop working with kids #sentences border on senseless

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uncomfortablepiratecollection · 1 month

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My hot take is that season 4 of the umbrella academy was good actually

#this is how i get cancelled lol #i have literally seen nothing but hate and negativity for it but i just watched the whole thing and i liked it so. fuck me i guess #everyone is a tragedy enjoyer until the tragedy comes and then all the sudden it's not okay for stories to not have happy endings anymore.#anyways you're all entitled to your own opinions but i thought it was solid. satisfying.#they spend the show fighting together to save the world #unknowing that they're causing it's repeated destruction and the answer is to stop fighting? let go together?!#and its part of the tragedy that they're collateral damage. of course it wasn't their fault! did romeo and juliet create the family fued?#you desperately want Reggie and Abigail to be the only ones who are punished because it was their fault the whole thing happened #but idk how to tell you this. the storyteller wants you to be sad so that you understand the consequences of the actions of those at fault.#that's the point #anywayyyy #wait I'm actually not done bitching yet.#saw someone complaining about how creepy five and lila's romance was because Aiden Gallagher is ''barely legal''#and like ohhhh my godddd stop. it is not okay to treat 20 year olds like children who can't make their own decisions. he's 20.#he'll be 21 in like two weeks. he's not a child. if you didn't like that plotline thats fine! just say that!#leave your weird virtue signaling about age gaps out of it #anyway. that's all.#the umbrella academy

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panspy · 6 months

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hmmmmmm.................vent post under tags...... feel free to give advice or dont¯\_(ツ)_/¯

#i think this is an autism related thing #but i genuinely feel like i wasnt made right for the world we live in #like something is just missing from me that ive never seen ppl talk about #and i know this is going to sound entitled and privileged and i KNOW i know i promise and im so lucky i can even be thinking about this but #it feels weird to have the privilege to be scared #this is specifically in regards to working #like having a job. like going to work #i feel like im missing an extremely important part of my brain or my BEING that is capable ot going through the motions of participating #in society. i never felt that switch of wanting to get a job in high school to make money for myself and get that experience #i feel like there's something i MISSED where everyone took a class on how to apply and go to interviews and write resumes and not be scared #like i NEED to be walked through every SINGLE step because i dont know HOW #and i see my peers and the literal entire world around me participating in this atmosphere and i dont know where to start #im fucking twenty three years old and ive only ever been an intern and an assistant #not even a full year of working #i cant drive and i probably wont ever because thats a whole other can of worms #and that means i have to rely on other people to even get to wherever it was i needed to go #i feel like a fucking child because im missing this knowledge that everyone else seems to have #ive tried i really have but none of it seems simple and its all so much and there arent steps to follow #i mean there ARE but its like 1) look up job 2) apply 3) interview 4) yay you're employed #and im talking about each micro step inbetween #what am i missing #and then theres the fucking demand avoidance that slaps me across the face whenever my mom brings it up to me like i KNOW youre being #supportive and encouraging and its not your fault my brain turns off and decides im full of shame bc i cant CONFRONT ANYTHING #jesus christ #manf i know u can see this maybe dont bring it up to mom i can do that on my own maybe #i WANT to help i just want to help at my own pace but unfortunately the world isnt built around individual paces and nothing revolves #around me. i know this #i want to help my mom i want her to never be stressed about money and to retire and never work or help me pay my student loans but i #genuinely feel like theres a switch that never turned on in my head and im being left behind and i genuinely dont know how to. like be alive

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yusuke-of-valla · 5 months

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Not to be insane about my own OCs on main by thinking about Sayaka and how fucked up she is again :)))

#you go girl blame the literal child for your problems because you can't admit your own fault #oc tag

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cowardlycowboys · 7 months

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my parents probably should have divorced and she did try to look into it but they blew her off but also I don't think me threatening to stab myself in front of her and hate her forever if she did didn't help lol

#omg kiera no one cares #sorry saw a post and I'm like 🫵 i caused my own suffering 🫵#my dad being the most emotionally abusive and throwing things at us has he can be -> me: i think it's fine actually maybe it is my fault!#MAYBE IT'S YOURS!! (it wasnt it still isn't when he still acts that way lol)#she also knew i would have hated her forever if she did leave my dad lol even i still know i would have #i am a big grudge holder!! i would have hated her forever especially if my dad killed himself like he said he would like it's YOUR fault!#anyway sorry made me think of that cause everyone was like yeah I'm so glad my parents divorced and i would have rather tried to kill myself #at like 9 to stop it from happening #tee hee ha ha moment from a child i suppose looking back

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pepprs · 1 year

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definitely not an original thought but so many submissions on the aita tumblr aregenuinely so depressing. like “aita for not coming out to my parents when they have repeatedly demonstrated that doing so would be unsafe” “aita for standing up for myself in an abusive relationship” “aita for having a critical thought about someone who was cruel to me” good god.

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lazer-exe · 7 months

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the one thing i don't understand when people are like,,, against writing abt "problematic" topics is that they'll read a piece and be like "This is problematic, you can't write this, because people will think it's okay"

but like... you read it.... and you were able to infer that it wasn't depicting a good thing..????

why, then, wouldn't other people be able to do that as well? do you think you're uniquely able to spot negative things in art even if they aren't explicitly portrayed as such? do you think that other adult people are incapable of also reading this and recognizing when something is or isn't okay in real life?

#like you are debunking your own point??????#“oh but children” if a child is consuming media clearly not aimed at them that is not the creators fault or responsibility

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evie-a · 1 year

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Seeing a lot of these posts on (mostly American) TikTok and Insta about women who are all bright and happy about being stay at home moms and being like yes I love my child and that’s why I give up my independence (as if that’s not extremely privileged to afford to do that). There seems to be this mentality amongst them that either you’re a stay at home mom or you’re a full time boss bitch who works hard for capitalism. And really I think these people just need paid maternity leave for a year (mandatory by the gov, not based on your job or company)?

Like wanting to spend time with your newborn child for the first months of their lives (without having to worry about huge financial consequences) is completely reasonable. Lots of parents want to do that. But wanting to work when you have children? Also reasonable. Paid maternity leave which allows you time with your child as well as the safety of knowing you can return to your job/studies afterward to continue your life and career? Yeah.

#American women be like feminism ruined my life for making women have to work and be allowed their own income and independence #as if it’s not capitalism’s fault that you don’t get paid maternity leave and sick days to take care of your child and the fact that schools #aren’t free?#generalizing but still #don’t get me wrong some women here do face consequences career wise for taking maternity leave so it’s not perfect but it’s better than #whatever that stuff is #obviously paternity leave us also important this post is specifically about those mommy posts tho

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