#(in a negative sense yk)

[porcelainvino]

jesse st james born this way shirt says “rpf”

[peculiarbeauty]

sorry for this but

copying other portrayals is def something to be upset abt .. but copying even super small things that make a portrayal special and tagging it as your own personal unique thing is just too far. like , at least make your blog original and unique , man.

[ultra-raging-ghost]

As much as i love bad being the team leader i do kinda wish theyd chosen one of the bilingual players to co-lead or something, it is a little difficult to lead a team of portuguese people when youre mostly monolingual </3

[kkujo]

something i don't see people talking about is the way hyperfixations come in like stages and cycles like it's not just "i'm obsessed with this thing" it's like. euphoria from finding something new and it brings you so much joy and then as that initial dopamine rush wears off you start to get more and more down and feel isolated as you start to realise that no one else cares about it as much as you do and you feel silly for being so into it and the thoughts become repetitive and boring so you get more and more depressed and lonely and then you inevitably lose the hyperfix which leaves you drifting feeling miserable and hopeless until you start the cycle again. idk if i explained this well or if other people will understand but it brings genuine phases of euphoria and straight up depression and this is why i get annoyed when neurotypicals use words like hyperfixation to describe like, an interest. bc it's not. just an interest it becomes who you are and when you lose it it's like losing yourself and you spend so much energy thinking about it that it interrupts your daily life and it's so fucking draining 👍

[fuwaprince]

When somebody only uses my chosen name while putting me down, it kind of makes me wish I didn't have a name at all.

And when somebody only uses my pronouns when they try to coerce me into something, then switch back to they/them when talking about me to anybody else, it kind of makes me uncomfortable af.

I sincerely do not enjoy being labeled or referred to. Being referred to is such a negative experience for me irl.

Yet not giving people a set of name/pronouns when they ask automatically seems to make them think you're secretly a serial killer trying to cover up something?????? Or like you're untrustworthy and must be hiding because you're a Bad Person instead of just not wanting to label yourself.

Can I just please not be forced to label myself for everybody else's comfort?

I feel like that information is so personally intimate anyways like unless you know me and we're close, why do you even care? I don't think it's necessary for the first stages of getting to know somebody even though in this culture we've normalized it to be that way.

Plus if I don't give you a name then I have the opportunity to earn one. Give me a name that you think I deserve and let it be what you honor me by instead! How about that? It's probably the only way I'll be comfortably perceived since some people will change my labels as they see fit regardless. Just call me what you like, I feel like my name/pronouns have been corrupted as is

[vk06bg]

Need to be more careful when daydreaming my OCs!!!

[olivescardigans]

one thing I do not understand is why people on twitter insist on talking about how bad they think the Harry Potter series is now that they all hate JKR. the one I see the most often is “I can't believe she sad XYZ about the other wizard school she’s suuuucchhh a bad writer” its like they can't wrap their heads around the fact that a book series written over the course of over two decades by one person is gonna have some inconsistencies about minor storytelling details. why does it matter! just admit you can’t let it go!! stop talking about it!! go outside!!!

[anachronistic-falsehood]

i am going to put qcellbit in a pringles can and shake him around aggressively (affectionate)

[taegularities]

i miss the old tumblr so much

[raspberryjellybrains]

i know I've said it before but I'll say it again. i want to study jared padalecki like a specimen. he's fascinating. why is he Like That.

[strangedisciple]

i need to speak to whoever let the strokes make the new abnormal tracklist go at the door -> why are sundays so depressing -> not the same anymore

[aftontxt]

// considering making this a dual muse for michael and vanny........... im not sure. i'd have to figure them out more but they dont quite fit on Quillheel and This feels like the right kind of space for them, esp since vanny and michael are kinda in similar districts of my brain regarding a lot of things with their story and mental health n junk n just. hrm. they're also surprisingly interconnected innately so like....... idk! i might make a poll on it. but for rn im gonna work on the bio and prrrobably do smth with the blogs theme maybe

[heartsburst]

AAAAAHHHH JUJUTSU KAISEN HIDDEN INVENTORY ARC ☆☆☆☆☆ !!!!!!!!

[blueslight]

Man one of my friends has a habit of accidentally saying or doing stuff that hurts me and I never know what to do cuz like I dont wanna be criticizing her/telling her off every 2 days cuz I KNOW she never means any harm so I know when she says/does hurtfull stuff she doesnt mean it but like it still hurts yk ??? But anytime i do tell her i feel like an ass and the thing is it doesnt make me feel any better cuz when she apologizes i just feel bad for her. But likee also i notixe the frustration building up within myself from her repeatedly hurting my feelings. But its never super big stuff and i dont wanna make her feel bad cuz like idk man shes so. Just like, fragile I guess that anything that makes her sad or upset immediately makes me feel horrible like its the emotional equivalent of yelling at a child or.something. BUT ALSO SHE JUST KEEPS HURTING ME !!!! genuinely from the bottom of.my heart askimg wtf im supposed to do like do I just swallow it down and wait for the feeling to pass. Or what. Cuz like its never lingering serious hurt or anything but it just keeps building up but like also she never criticzes me for anything and so by comparison i DO already "criticize" her a lot I guess and like. Man idk genuinely I dont know what to do

[thefabelmans2022]

if anyone's getting vecna'd next season it should be dustin. btw.

[purblzart]

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