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inkskinned · 1 year

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he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.

except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?

at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.

except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.

about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.

he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.

#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag #writeblr #it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal #fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho)#healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy #im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage....#1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind #and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes #2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception''#3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.''#idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh #im sure there are people who have this experience normally #but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists #when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band''#edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful #once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large #but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry.#but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes #but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally.#i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes #people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism #but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet .#i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY #and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound.#but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in #i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too.#here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change #was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort)#choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL

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moogghost · 11 days

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...so now that grandfest is over and the results were revealed am i allowed to say that some of y'all were such dicks to team present over their team choice for NO good reason ever since grandfest was revealed or am i going to get mauled for being right.

anyways congrats to the team past members who weren't assholes about their team choice and those team past members only every match against you guys made me feel like i was crawling in the trenches and it's very impressive 👍

#ghost whispers #splatoon #splatfest #grandfest #grand festival #feeling brave i'm putting this in the tags. just know if u start shit i'm blocking u #if u think me posting this is why i turned off asks ur mistaken i've had them off for a hot second now lol #i know it's in the spirit of finalfest to be an ass to the team y'all don't want to win ig but. seriously. some of y'all needed to shut up #genuinely i'm so sick of hearing 'at least team present didn't win' or 'don't let present win' and y'all being dicks about our team choice #that and i'm going to be real i genuinely doubt nintendo is going to do that much for what the winning team will effect the next game #u all saw how much chaos effected splat 3. u saw how much splat 1's effected things #like i'm going to be real it's only going to effect shit subtly i feel like and the losing teams are still gonna have a presence like alway #and that point aside. people were also picking past for squid sisters and future for deep cut too so i'm just???#baffled why u need to complain about the small selection of people who picked present for oth??? who gives a shit

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bacchuschucklefuck · 4 months

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I love how you completely changed everyone’s wardrobe for the Beach Episode, save for gorgug’s hoodie (do they take it in the water?) do you wanna talk about the outfit choices at all?

I mean there's not a lot to talk about there I think? I'm a big fashion-focused character design artist, I'll say that, but a lot of that I can't really translate into words sadly... there are just certain character-specific silhouettes that once u've picked out u can hang onto to give them new clothes and it'll usually be good that's kinda how I do it. I fully see gorgug going Anywhere in that hoodie tho I think by this point babygirl's like I have a theory it's indestructible and I intend to test it

#not art #that material holds onto sand like crazy but at least it's thick enough that the sand shouldnt be going thru #tbh I think the toughest thing I needed to figure out for the beach piece was how many accessories to include for the kids lol #cause riz was inventory stacking and fabian and fig have a bunch of piercings n such #and like it'd def be fun to draw all that on them but 1/wearing metal on top of hot sand is torture actually 2/What If You Lose The Things #<- suffers from the brain condition that randomly shreds ur short term memory #same reason I almost gave adaine her jacket in the piece but eventually I figured it'd muddle the silhouette too much #someone in the tags pointed out that fig who is fully immune to fire damage is holding the sunscreen bottle and all I can say is:#>:]#thats not for her to use on herself. she has Intentions #I. mm idk turns out if u ask me specific things abt any of the designs I'll have things to say abt it but its all like #really small granular logistics stuff lol. I havent been to the beach in literal years #actually now Im imagining like gorgug getting shot by a whole crossbow that went thru like his shoulders or something #and theres a hole in his shoulder but not on the hoodie. somehow #indestructible garment that doesnt actually protect you is very funny I think #the cybertruck of hoodies.....

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fagmegumi · 2 years

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generally beginning to realize that most people who thirst for the jjk men are doing so incorrectly and for the wrong reasons like just making up a generic archetype of a really cool hot guy from those het smutty self published amazon novels and pretending theyre the jjk dudes. when you can say anything about gege akutami but he gave us such a diverse & fascinating cast of hot dudes who are losers in such specific and different ways but always so devastatingly that none of them get any hole whatsoever

#like gojo is this hot super strong unflappable cool guy but he only had 1 friend who tolerated him bc they were both the most insufferable #guy around and ever since he died he’s been annoying hapless teenagers who cant do anything about his obnoxious presence and thats his #whole social life.#toji is a badass action hero who also in his head has the Action Man backstory of yes i may have been a shitty deadbeat dad… but i did it…#to Protect My Family😤 but his legacy is that megumi doesn’t remember or think about his and when he does its ‘oh yea that loser’ and also #as previously mentioned his only employable skill is Can Cut Down Big Monsters; Fast and he looks like he uses dish soap on his hair #sukuna would be the closest to the idealized hot powerful guy image at least if ur a monsterfucker which i know many of us in the lgbt #community are. but he’s also an apocalyptic maneating entity who’s tied to the whims of a chaotically good teenager who would eat an entire #jar of mayo on a dare and summon him to ask for an opinion on his new hair dye.#which is both a hysterical premise that should be used more in fanart/fic for comedy AND profoundly pathetic on his part.#only exception to all this is nanami but thats bc he is textually canonically there to offset the swagless vibes of the main adult cast esp #gojo with his dignified huge dick energy.#to be clear i dont profoundly care about any of this like i think its funny im not mad about it . but as a known pathetic guy desirer i had #to say my piece #personal #jjk

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writterings · 10 months

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procastinating at work but here's my philosophy for today: it's okay to hate a behavior in someone else but also understand that this behavior does not make them a bad person. like i HATE when i'm venting or talking about a serious problem i have and then the person i'm talking to starts trying to relate by talking about a similar experience they've had. like absolutely hate it. make me feel like the focus is being taken off me and it genuinely is in some ways, regardless of your intent. yeah, i understand that's your way of trying to comfort me -- but that's not the way i need or want to be comforted, and that's what matters in a situation where i'm coming to you to be helped.

and that's okay! like. no one is in the wrong here unless i have explicitly asked you to support me in a different way and you're intentionally refusing, or if i lash out at you when i could just disengage. it just means you're not a person i should go to for help when talking about my problems. we can still be friends, you and i can probably support each other in different ways, but we're just incompatible in this regard. and that's like....okay. it's okay to be incompatible with people.

#i need to stop going on instagram sooooo many hot takes on there piss me the fuck off #ok going on a rant here but like.#soooo many 'neurodivergent' posters on there are like 'neurotypicals suck bc they dont realize im being comforting when i talk abt myself #when they're upset!!!' and its like my friend i can understand your plight but like #1. this is an easily changable behavior #that tbh does not require much change on your part aside from just like. not talking.#2. the so-called neurotypicals in ur life are allowed to have boundaries and accomodations to their needs and ur currently not doing that #3. not every neurodivergent person does that. and some also hate it like the so called neurotypicals.#4. why are you prioritizing your emotions when a loved one comes to you for help or comfort. are u just a dick.#this has nothing to do with you being neurodivergent i think you're just self centered lol #like genuinely if you do this you are not a bad person. it's not a bad thing. i thinnk im just mad at the people who insist #that it's the only way they can ever try to comfort someone and they act like asking them to change this behavior is ableist #and if they genuinely can't change this behavior then fine!! like they i wont go to you with my problems #and that's also fine #but yeah anyways these tags are so different from the message of the post lol but anyways just needed to rant

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movedtodykedvonte · 2 years

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Technically there could be a Spamton x reader fic that’s a parody on Scott Pilgrim because Spamton has 7 implied exes who range on a scale of deadly. Sadly this does mean you take the role of Scott Pilgrim.

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chelemlem · 5 months

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so so sad about lando today in the sprint 💔 and his bet about ferrari winning by 30s... gorl stop i'm trying to defend that championship mentality dawg in you 😭 but saying that i hope someone (oscar) gave him a hug

sghdjd ok perhaps controversially going to say that idt lando is an unsubstantiatedly self-flagellative dude? most of his public low moments come from feeling solely responsible for a poor showing relative to the performance ceiling of the car/team that weekend. if we alr suck he's not going to be like omg it's MY fault we suck u kno... and seeing how saturday shook out (13s gap to P2 🥲)...... we were never going to convert that win even if bro hadn't bottled lap 1. sad but true

the way i read the ferrari bet line was him being pleasantly surprised with how well we did on a track ill-suited to our car. unfortch managing one's expectations is merely a muscle you develop by virtue of being a mclaren driver (and by extension a mclaren fan 😔). it is what it is !

also Much can be said about the correlation of dawg & mentality with wdc hopes but in the interest of being brief! fast, reliable, driveable car + competent strat dept + manageable politics to performance ratio + scrub teammate...... it's HARD to round up all the tangibles that amount to a gainful title bid. while certainly necessary and useful, dawg alone does not a champion make. and anyways lando has enough of it over the net course of a season

#smth i constantly think about is. lando someday in the notsodistant future worming into wdc contention just be being #the most consistent bitch on the grid #like yaas wdc with only 1-2 wins. Everyone Would Hate That #answered #ln4 #sorry anon for this boring ass ans to ur shippy ask TT they didn't hug but maybe they sat in silence for 10-12mins in oscar's driver's room #at the end of which oscar cleared his throat like “so do you—” at the same time lando said “cool i should—”#then lando rolled his eyes & punched him lightly on the chest on the way out. frickin .. nerd #and oscar felt the ghost of his hot fist all thru the debrief #romance to some

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unknownchoatic · 5 months

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the idea that Killer is really flirtatious but also super easily flustered

like when in stage 2 he’ll say the most inappropriate, sexual, disgusting thing but then if he’s in stage 1 and Color holds his hand this man is blushing and giggling and he can’t even respond. and like in stage 2 he’s trying to get a reaction bc he can’t feel emotions so he’s like kinda living vicariously through the others. and in stage 1 every little experience feels new and overwhelming

idk this made more sense in my head

#tee hee #the sillies #killer sans #utmv headcanons #like he’ll ho up to dust and be like ‘whats it like getting absolutely wrecked by horrors massive cock’#and dust will look at him in absolute disgust bc that was so random and unprompted #and killer just makes a mental note that saying that kind of thing makes dust uncomfortable #or like mid battle he’ll be fighting dream and he just goes ‘yk i think ur brother is rlly hot’#and dream is like ‘huh?? wtf??’#like killer views the others reactions and emotions as weid #and so he’s trying to understand what he should feel by taking note of what others are feeling #it doesnt work cause his soul is messed up #but yk #and then also #in stage 1 he’s so starved for affection and every feeling is new and overwhelming #so like horror will hive him food #yk cause horror doesn’t want his teammates staving and killer is just baffled by a (very small/simple) act of kindness #idk if this makes sense #ok bye bye

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dykeofmisfortune · 1 month

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contrary to popular belief it's not that hard to be a lesbian around straight women talking abt how they're into conventionally attractive men because ur not really expected to genuinely find them hot; even if ur not attracted to them u can say "yeah that's what u call hot for men". but really. it's hard around queer people talking about dilfs or their "hear me out" weird looking guy crushes. being around a bunch of people talking abt how much they love dilfs is truly isolating bc it takes a true man liker to love dilfs and weird guys.... which i cannot hear u out on but i wish u guys the best

#sorry dilfs all look like nice fathers to me i don't want to think about their penis #but like. i have had 2 different of my closest queer friends get obsessed with a hear me out on 1. paul dano and 2. lukas gage respectively #AND EACH TIME I FELT LIKE A MAJOR ASSHOLE FOR BEING LIKE SORRY BUT I THINK UR UGLY MAN IS JUST UGLY I CANNOT FIND HIM HOT #like when my friends get obsessed with idk hugh dancy it's like yeah he's hot. i see it. NOT PAUL DANO????#it takes a true man liker to love ugly men and old men... which is how i know i'm a lesbian

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devotedlystrangewizard · 2 months

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indulging in discourse is the mind killer i will not interact with the bad takes

#ramblings #this is about romancing minthara without killing the grove #'romancing her as a good character sucks' because she was never meant to be romanced as a good character you fucking buffoon #and i HATEEEE that they made her recruitable without killing the grove #remember when bg3 released and everyone praised the devs for putting effort into things only 1% of players would see #you dont hear me asking why i cant massacre the grove and also fuck halsin DO YOU #'why cant i become bhaal's chosen and keep jaheira & minsc'#putting her first romance scene in the good romance makes 0 sense bc the entire scene goes off of the fact she thinks ur hot when ur killing #like can we stop complaining about gortash getting 2 lines that imply something that was Already Implied #and start acknowledging the actually bad changes theyve made with the patches 💀

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apotelesmaa · 7 months

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Also wrt last post if emunene were both men I guarantee u ppl would be all over that but instead they’re either accessories to ruikasa or just flat out ignored. Why do u guys hate gamer girls.

#same w anhan but I’m not really a vbs fan so I don’t feel like discussing that #altho I will say if there’s any pairing in this game that is essentially canon it is those 2 #also not trying 2 get rocks thrown at my skull but i think it rlly says smthn that like #pairing either of them with the two guys is somehow more popular than emunene.#also my hot take is that ppl don’t want to hc emu as into women/lesbian bc she doesn’t fit the mean lesbian stereotype which #1 ew. 2. u can literally color pick the lesbian flag from both of her wxs dresses.#i would argue that emu is the same level of obsessed wrt nene that rui is w tsukasa but we would be here all day #that’s it that’s all ur getting out of me wrt ship discourse I’m too old for that I find it cringe & also idc #sidenote nene is the funniest character in the game & yet u all ignore that. sad.#her hater energy & pathetic girl swag is unmatched.

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tchaikovskaya · 2 years

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:)

#i sincerely dont understand why i have followers like my blog has 3 different Vibes/types of posts #and i'd imagine that 2 of those would alienate each other's audiences (for the people here for just 1)#(ftr the 3 are 1. artsy shit 2. Funnie Joaks 3. condescending leftist takes)#i mostly think the aesthetic/art/fashion stuff would alienate the leftist hot takes and vice versa #and to be clear im not complaining or whatever. like its my blog and idc about how many followers i have. i havent for years now lol #my blog is for me and ur welcome to spectate and/or interact with me but its ultimately just stuff i like xo #just kind of talking into the ether here yknow. like i genuinely dont know why someone here for 1/3 puts up with the other 2/3s #and i dont even tag things in a helpful way for blacklisting purposes lmao. my tags are (once again) for my own use #well mostly. trigger warnings are the exception i dont use those for organizing posts those are for your sakes :)

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mechawolfie · 2 years

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listen i know chanda is like a murderer but also hes kinda um. well uh, well. um. well.. 👉👈

#smudgy.txt #pantheon amc #pantheon spoilers #sorry when he got the long hair all sense of morals flew out the window #'but he literally jump-started the apocalypse' & he looked hot while doing it #honestly i think hes right. about everything #& i think its good that he killed ppl & caused global panic #like yes king sow chaos!!!#ur so right UI ARE superior to humans.. yes u ARE akin to gods #anyway do u wanna makeout later. 👉👈#homosexuality aside i think if ur #gonna make ur 1 brown skinned mc the antagonist while all ur main protags r light-skinned well.#im just gonna root for him instead.#sorry (not really)#im glad that he kills. i hope he kills MORE people next season #i also hope he give me a kiss.. 🥺#sorry its th #its the long hair.#i see a man w long hair & all thoughts go out the window all i hear in my head is 'marry me' over & over again i think i #have an illness #(the illness is i'm gay)#(it's terminal)

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lilgynt · 1 year

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i will not call out no matter how much i want to (self affirmation) ((not working))

#personal #i’m not gonna call out especially bc i have a chance of doing way less today if i’m on that project again #it’ll still probably be dog shit after 5 and we’ll only have like 3 agents again #which i know means that supervisors is gonna send me that copy paste again that we go through every fucking week bc we only have like 3 #agents for 3 hours and i get she’s stressed but if i get that copy paste again just for her to be like no worries take ur time!!!#i’m gonna blow a fuckin gasket and make it so we only got two agents tonight #like is it specifically her fault? absolutely not fuck the company for not hiring more people and sucks she’s the only supervisor for a #hot second that’s not fair on her but flip side she’s burnin bridges with 1/3 agents she has for like fucking hours two nights of the week #like i have no desire to help you at all. mainly bc the message you said is literally fucking copied and pasted #just text me like a normal person!!! hey we’re slammed can i get you back on calls?#hey no rush but much longer on whatever aux?#i think i’d be annoyed no matter what bc it’s not fair nor my fault the company can’t balance agents during the day/night #but the copy paste and the same fucking convo everytime is killing me #and the way she’s the only to message me like this let alone every fucking shift we work together #i imagine she texts everyone this shit im not special but does not mean i don’t fucking hate it #re writing this almost made me call out 😭😭 i got so mad no i have to go in one bc i don’t want to be fired #two bc i might do fuck all today 😭 waited two hours yesterday for a project to review just doing fuck all

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bibleofficial · 23 days

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i loveeee being cheap bc sometimes it gets ridiculous like yea it IS abhorrent to even CONSIDER paying like 6£ for ea taxi & instead will just walk the mile 1 way like 30 times until all my shit is moved

#stream #ALSJALSKASKLASKALSKALA #double whammy skinny & cheap ! werk !#but then u have no time bc u spend 20 mins walking every time u move or go back to get more shit #so that’s 40 mins in walking not including the (un)packing #u know each time lol #BUT IM DETERMINED #IDGAF #SAVING MY MONEY FOR DRUGS #my mother just sent me a text like ‘they may have non alcoholic beverages’ as if i’m not saving myself to black out at the wedding #my body can take at least 1 more blackout i haven’t blacked out in #idk #at least since i od’d #maybe i did at kp’s birthday #no i think i was kinda conscious but i was on a lot of ketamine ALSKALSKALSKLKSLAKSLA #& DRINKING SO MUCH … GIRL #that’s not even including the mdma 😭😭😭#ok so maybe we’ll consider that a ‘little rough on the body’#anyway #that was a different me that was pre getting physically assaulted multiple times in a very short timeframe #literally within 2 weeks i got physically assaulted 4 ? times then harassed like maybe 3 #idk i’ve been getting harassed on the street a lot recently but honestly it’s bc im just so hot & sexy & it threatens ppl #i don’t even think i’m being delusional british ppl all just look like potatoes #if they’re healthy #im corpse gang #‘i’ve been getting harassed more on the street’ BOY MAYBE ITS BC UR MUCH MORE PHYSICALLY DISABLED AGAIN #IN A COUNTRY WHERE U HAVE TO BE PUBLICLY PHYSCIALLY DISABLED #like i can’t hide in my car 😭😭😭#my leg hates me #like girl get over it i took calcium supplements fuck u !!!!!!!!!

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fuzzyunicorn · 2 months

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My husband would pull a me n say y not both (combined)!?

#xtremly valuable question #babe my bro my guides said ur🖤 obsessed w (many) 1 pic of me that my legs look like a Barbie doll the my take on costal cowgirl pic 🥰🥰🥰#& u🖤 think I have my own version of alt/goth & ur🖤 right just like always im glad u🖤 enjoy my vibe I love u🖤 Mr hot stuff 🥵❤️‍🔥#also glad u🖤 like when I do dark eye makeup n lipstick I have taken note of that I wrote that down (mentally) 2 remember 😘😘😘 💋now u🖤 have #been marked w my dark red lipstick 💄 ur🖤 mine forever n ever 🖤 im so in love w u🖤 u🖤 have no idea how much

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