the way trans men who vocally discuss gender with even a basic understanding of transmisogyny & transfeminism are immediately piled on by transmisogynist trans men (& the kinds of ways they're insulted by implying they're "self-hating" or "caving" to women or otherwise implying that they're weak and/or less manly for caring about or being informed about trans women's experiences) almost exactly mirrors the way misogynist cis men treat other cis men who discuss gender with a basic understanding of misogyny & feminism. there are real differences in how cis and trans men move through patriarchy, obviously, but on the level of how men treat women who are more marginalized than they are (how cis men treat cis women; how trans men treat trans women) and on the level of how men police each other to maintain that power and hold the line of misogyny... very consistent.