#BobbieD Life In

[bobbiedlifeinphil]

Taste Italy in Cebu: BobbieD & LisaD's Cibo Adventure!

[bisasterbuckley]

[buttercupbuck]

i just. you're a child and you're listening to music and you fall asleep, only to find your father dead in the living room the next morning. you're older and you're high and cold and you go to sleep only to wake with fire beneath you and with your wife and children dead and your world changed. you're older and you've tried to put the pieces of your life back together as best you can but you go to sleep and wake again to find everything in flames, your wife unconscious as your house burns around you and - how many times can you keep surviving this? how many times can someone be expected to live through closing their eyes and waking up to find their world destroyed before them with the absolute conviction that they are all to blame for it, every single time? like. of course his heart gave out.

[thegunslingerletmedrop]

[goldenispunk]

Watching The Boys with my friends:

[static-scribblez]

“Bobby. We can’t both exist. I’m going to become half of you. And I need you to know that every moment you love being yourself, that’s me. Loving you, and loving BEING you, because you’re going to be something extraordinary; you’re going to be a psychic”

[bellabrady]

incorrect 911 quotes part idk

[mythtakens]

9-1-1 + a thesis on love

[trans-buckleyy]

something about chimney and buck being the reason they met each other's significant others, like idk !!!

[renegadesstuff]

TV SHOWS' (SHIP) WEDDINGS 🤍

9-1-1 (2018 - present)

ATHENA GRANT-NASH & BOBBY NASH (BATHENA)

[star-phobia]

Haven’t posted here for a while so here’s some art I’m proud of from Twitter

Lotta critter posting

[thoughtkick]

Family don't end with blood.

Bobby Singer

[shallowseeker]

I'm breaking this one out by itself because it's a little funny.

*Dean's phone rings*

*Dean answers without looking*

*Dean proceeds to yell at Cas*

Ah, right. What could possible be so important?

/////

Sam goes on to tell Dean that *drumroll* Sam is Lucifer's true vessel.

WOW! Scary!

DEAN: *sarcastically* Just when you thought you were out, they pull you back in, huh Sammy? SAM: That's it? That's your response?

It's... completely lost of Sam, though, the REASON for Dean's sarcasm.

See. It's this: now that Sam's found out that HE'S a vessel, he's in his car, an absolute FIRE lit under his goddamned tail, EAGER to get back in and fight.

Sam.

SAMMY.

🤦🤦🤦🤦

Dean throws a hint.

DEAN: *sarcastically again* I guess I'm a little numb to the earth-shattering revelations at this point. SAM: Well what are we gonna do about it?

And Sam... still doesn't get it.

Sigh.

Here's the thing. Sam wasn't panicking when they learned that Dean was a vessel. Only Cas and Bobby were panicked and stressed. They were mean, but they were at least aware of the reality of things.

But Sam.

Yes, Sam was going through things, struggling with things, and taking time to go through things is okay. But on the other hand, it definitely still hurts that Sam wasn't insisting on staying in the fight on Dean's behalf, to protect Dean from becoming a vessel.

But now that Sam's learned that he's a vessel?

Boom.

It's not even that, though. It's this whole conversation.

Because what's missing here? Empathy for Dean's plight.

Sam doesn't realize that this is why he's perpetually at... the kids' table. This right here.

In this whole conversation, Sam is eaten up with ranting about his own feelings, about how he's sick of being a puppet, and how he's going to hunt Lucifer down and gain redemption.

Sam's all about "how he can do this," how he's "gonna prove it to you."

It makes him seem a lot younger than he is.

....

There's no acknowledgment of how helpless Dean must have been feeling all this time, knowing that he's been targeted by an archangel, about how scary this whole thing is.

Hell, even Cas acknowledged Dean's fears re: Michael.

I mean: He did it in his Cas way, but it still acknowledged the enormity of the fear.

Cas:

///

Meanwhile, Sam back in 5x01, right after DEAN learned about being Michael's vessel: Geez, why is everyone so cranky and stressed?

🥺Dean, what do you mean that you didn't mean your pep talk to Bobby? Whaaaat? 🥺

///

....

And the thing is. Not "getting it"? That's understandable. But this conversation is just... devoid of support for Dean.

And they're not. Sam's zapping all the strength for himself.

When they've been together lately, Dean is the big brother who lends support, and Sam isn't giving anything back. Sam's out to prove himself, not to support others.

And they tell older siblings and parents to be patient, to let them learn, to step back and forgive, to be "a soft place to land."

That's hard to do. And it's exhausting.

And aside// Sam's apology to (demon) Bobby was SO MUCH NICER. Sam, where is this humility and energy for other people????

SAM: No, actually. Bobby, this is all my fault. I'm sorry. Lilith did not break the final seal. Lilith was the final seal. I killed her, and I set Lucifer free. You guys warned me about Ruby, the demon blood, but I didn't listen. I brought this on. I'm sorry.

[colebirb]

So erm

[mattmaesonnatural]

The Winchesters — 1x13 ‘Hey, That’s No Way to Say Goodbye’